How to Walk in Love (Enter to win an "I Am Loved" Book and Bible Study DVD set)

Today I’m welcoming my friend Wendy Blight to share from her new Bible study on 1 John, I Am Loved: Walking in the Fullness of God’s Love. Plus she’s giving away a copy of her book and the accompanying bible study DVD to one of my readers!

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In 1 John 3:16, John tells us to love one another.

Easy to say but, oh, so hard to do. Yet God clearly calls us to this. Why?

Because God knows there are people in this world who’ll never walk through the doors of a church, join a neighborhood Bible study, or attend a Christian conference. But, they will encounter His people, women like you and me. And through us they’ll experience God’s love. His beautiful, pure, unconditional love.

And, the great thing about God is that He never commands us to do something without showing us how to do it. Loving others is no different. He gives us the purest example of this kind of love in Jesus.

God defines love, not so much by words, but by the cross. In Jesus, love found its way to the cross. There, at Golgotha, outside Jerusalem’s city gate, Jesus willingly surrendered His life for ours. Jesus’ intentional act to surrender His will to the will of His Father erased, eradicated, and expunged your sin and mine forever.

But God didn’t stop there; He raised Jesus on the third day. Your hope and mine is wrapped up in that resurrection. The Resurrection opened the way for the very Spirit and presence of God to indwell our hearts. The fruit of God’s Spirit, including His love, lives and breathes in us.

However, it’s our choice whether we live in the fullness of that love.

Let’s be honest. It’s really hard to love others with that kind of love. Complicated relationships, past history, hurt feelings, and our own sinful desires make it difficult to love others the way God does.

But, God isn’t asking the impossible (though every now and then if feels that way). He simply asks us to live out His sacrificial love right where we are. During our ordinary days in very ordinary ways.

Our sacrifices won’t usually be headline making. They won’t be dramatic. Many times, they won’t even be recognized by most people.

We find them in the routine, often trying, occasionally boring, and relatively uneventful activities of everyday life. Like when you let someone else go ahead of you in line. You intentionally engage your server in a conversation. You offer to take a cart back into the grocery store. Or you refrain from gestures, evil looks or honking the horn when someone cuts you off in traffic.

Now, let me be real, I do like when people notice my sacrificial acts of love. It makes me feel good. In fact, I’m sure we all love words of affirmation because they edify and encourage us to keep on keepin’ on. But that attention is not what should motivate our love.

Jesus said in John 13:35, people will know us as His disciples if we love one another. So, how can we live out God’s love?

To live a life of love, we must know and believe God loves us fully, perfectly, completely. We cannot love others until we know and believe this truth. Jesus manifested His love for us through the greatest sacrifice of all. He gave His Son’s life for ours.

It’s when we walk fully in God’s love that we are able to love others out of the abundance of God’s love that indwells us. It’s called living loved.

Jesus modeled it best. Living loved manifests itself best in sacrificial action. You may think you don’t have much to give. But, friend, you do. You can speak words of encouragement. You can pray. You can forgive. You can serve.

To live loved, we just need to break out of our routine. Invite God to open our eyes to see how we can love someone God brings across our path. Here are examples of small acts of love we can do today.

• A smile
• An encouraging word
• A listening ear
• A physical touch
• Treat a friend to lunch
• Remember the names of the servers at the businesses you frequent
• Text, e-mail or call a friend with a prayer or Scripture
• Bring a meal to a single parent, a new mom, or a family in need
• Support a missionary
• Write an encouraging note to your pastor

I remember the day doctors diagnosed my 13-year-old daughter with scoliosis (curvature of the spine). They explained she would need to wear a back brace for 23 hours a day. It meant no more competitive cheerleading. No more school cheerleading. We sat there stunned. Not the news we expected. We rode home in near silence. When we got home, Lauren ran to her room, tears streaming down her face.

I heard a knock and opened the door to find one of my best friends standing there, tears filling her eyes. She didn’t come armed with verses or wisdom or gifts. She simply came. I will never ever forget that moment. She dropped everything to come. To sit. To be.

That is love.

Where is God calling you to sacrificially give?

Imagine our world if we all made these expressions of love the pattern of our lives.

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I Am Loved: Walking in the Fullness of God’s Love is for every woman who craves to truly understand, walk confidently in, and live out God’s unconditional, extravagant, lavish love because His love truly changes everything. Watch a sneak peek of the Bible study and download a sample week’s lesson for free here.

The Giveaway
Comment on the blog today sharing one way you will try to love someone God brings across your path this week. One reader will win a copy of Wendy’s I Am Loved Bible study book and teaching DVD. U.S. Addresses only please.

Last Month’s Giveaway Winner:  The randomly selected winner of the Tracie Miles’ 6 books and study guides holiday gift pack was De, who has been notified via email. Congrats De! Thanks to everyone who participated!

98 Comments

  1. Shannon on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:09 am

    I will try to love others by being more patient when someone is trying to get on my last nerve!



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 1:51 pm

      Shannon, this makes me smile. In our Bible study this morning, Matthew Chandler (study is the Apostle’s Creed) talked about how to respond when someone is dancing river dance on our last nerve!! Love that visual because that is just what it feels like. It takes deep and abiding patience … something only God can grow in us. But, the good news is we do have it because it is the fruit of His Spirit in us. And, we CAN do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Girl, I am right there with you with this call to action.

      Blessings,

      wendy



  2. Amanda on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:20 am

    Right now I am going through a divorce and it’s hard to love me husband and his family right. It’s hard to love myself. I know god is speaking to me daily in everything i do but it’s just hard to hear his words when you are hurting and feel like no one loves you anymore



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 1:56 pm

      Oh, sweet Amanda, I’m so sorry for your pain and hurt. Divorce brings brokenness and deep pain. Sometimes loving others, especially those who have hurt us, is simply holding our tongue. Friend, you are loved. Most especially, by God. But, I can infer by your tender heart, you have others in your life who love you. I pray God will keep your eyes fixed on Him. That He will remind you that you are HIS child. Because of that you have great value. Though you may not see that now, it is TRUTH. And, I pray that time will heal this hurt and God will redeem it in Ephesians 3:20 ways.

      Blessings,

      Wendy



    • Regina on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 3:53 pm

      Jesus loves you, Amanda! I’m praying for you!



  3. Sherry on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:22 am

    By really listening to people



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 1:57 pm

      Sherry, this truly is one of the best ways to love people. We all love to be heard. And, to give someone our full attention and really hear their words, is a gift that most people never receive. I LOVE this!!

      Blessings,

      Wendy



  4. melissa martino on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:25 am

    I will try to be a better listener to those who are hurting and need someone to hear them. More empathetic.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 1:58 pm

      Looks like you and Sherry (above) have the same idea. Empathy is a precious gift to give another person, especially when they are hurting and in desperate need of love and affirmation … of knowing they are not alone. Thank you for sharing.

      Blessings,

      wendy



  5. Kristie on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:28 am

    I am going through some struggles but I have been in prayer and Felt the need to help and visit a friend. I just sat and listened. I also sent a note of encouragement. Also I will walk into work with a smile on my face and greet each person.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:00 pm

      Kristie, you’ve shared some GREAT ways to love others that are so easy. To sit and listen. To send notes of encouragement (or texts or Scriptures too). And to look people in the eye and greet them with a smile on our face. It makes people feel like they matter and are noticed.

      Blessings,

      Wendy



  6. Kristie on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:30 am

    I am going through some struggles but I have been in prayer and Felt the need to help and visit a friend. I just sat and listen d. Also I will walk into work with a smile on my face and greet each person.



  7. Cooper on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:30 am

    Excellent devotion! My husband left over 2 years ago; but the affair was much longer than that. But God…I have peace that truly surpasses all understanding. I still love him and sometimes it even amazes me, and especially others. It’s truly the Lord!



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:01 pm

      Thank you for your kind words about the devotion. I stand amazed at your words. to love someone who betrayed you and hurt you is the most beautiful example of loving with God’s love. It truly is the Lord. It is the love that does not keep a record of wrongs. A love that forgives. That overlooks an offense. Thank you for sharing today.

      Wendy



  8. Mrs. C. Walton on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:33 am

    Good morning my sisters and brothers in Christ,
    Through prayer, I plan to be a blessing, caring, loving servant and service to framily.



  9. Pat on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:35 am

    Realizing every encounter is a chance to show kindness.



  10. Tammy Gabaldon on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:38 am

    Will make more of an effort to remember the names of the servers at the business I frequent. Also will focus on remembering the names of new people that I have met to help them feel more welcome and loved.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:04 pm

      This is really good, Tammy, because it is a specific action. So much easier to sustain a call to action when we make it very specific. I have tried this past year to remember our servers. I will put his or her name in my notes on my phone along with the restaurant. So, when we go, I pull up the note and remind myself of the name. After months of doing this, at one of our favorite restaurants, I know most of the servers.

      Blessings,

      wendy



  11. jenny on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:47 am

    I work for a big corporation. Everyday is all business. I will try to share kindness and love with my co-workers in an effort to make everyones day just a little bit better. My hope is that they will see God’s light shining through me even through the humdrum of numbers and phone calls.



  12. Beth Matthews on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:51 am

    I will be more aware – looking for Every opportunity to share God’s love instead of only taking advantage of obvious ones.



  13. Linda on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:53 am

    Very encouraging and thought provoking post…….I am asking God to fill me with His love and peace. In the midst of the storm I find myself in, so that His love will spill out, overflow and ripple out like waves into my everyday encounters with family, friends and strangers who have walked away from Him, or have not yet met Him……… His love can transform even the hardest of hearts as it did mine !



  14. Beth on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:53 am

    This looks like an amazing book and I would love to share it with my friends.



  15. Kate Semer on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:55 am

    Our Life Group study just last night, was on kindness and we spoke about loving as Jesus did. I am going to send them your devotional today, thank you.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:05 pm

      Kate, kindness is a word I’ve asked God to help me keep every before me this year. Mostly to be kinder with my words. Love that you are studying that. And, thank you for sharing the devotion today with your Life Group!!

      Blessings,

      wendy



  16. Lynn on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:58 am

    By being intentional in all my interactions. One time I was at the checkout in a store and I was polite but not interactional with the cashier. My son pointed this out to me. It really embarrassed me a I thought I had been polite. I now make it a point to be intentional in all my interactions with those I meet even in just a passing way, and especially those in the service industry.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:07 pm

      Love this word. INTENTIONAL. I have no doubt the Lord is going to use that in some pretty powerful ways. I’m sure you will encourage people who need encouragement, and notice people who feel invisible. God will use your commitment in some healing ways.

      Blessings,

      Wendy



  17. Kellie Metzker on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:59 am

    I will pray and send scripture to those who have come across my path this week. I know they have hurts and physical pain they are dealing with. Giving them hope through God’s word will lift their spirits and know God has this!! He will get them through!!



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:07 pm

      Yes and amen!! This is beautiful. No better gift we can give than to love others with God’s Word and prayer.

      Blessings,

      Wendy



  18. Nana on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:04 am

    I would like the book so I can learn how to better be a blessing to others. I am a middle school teacher and being a blessing daily is a struggle. I know this book could show me ways I am missing. Thanks!



  19. Rebecca on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:12 am

    I will call a friend to lovingly resolve some issues that have put distance in between us



  20. Elsa on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:22 am

    Giving your time to help the underprivileged and serve as a volunteer has definitely changed my life, it will remind you of what God did while on this earth rather than self, try it, is an amazing feeling to give! Blessings to all!



  21. Sherri Richardson on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:26 am

    I will contact friends that I have not seen/talked to in a while to reconnect and just check on them and let them know that I am thinking of them and praying for them.



  22. Madlyn Sculley on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:31 am

    I will try to love others by volunteering to educate people on financial wellness. Helping them change their future for the better.



  23. Tracie on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:33 am

    I’m excited to start this study. Since “Love” is the greatest of these I need to learn to recieve His love and allow it to flow through me to those He places in my path. I am praying He opens my eyes and gives me a sensitivitie to the needs of those around me so I can show them His great love.



  24. Evelyn Bray on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:36 am

    By being more open to my littles when they want my attention, even if it’s doing the same stunt for an hour.



  25. Karolina on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:44 am

    thank you for the ideas of how we can extend small acts of love daily. I think besides using the tips that you listed daily towards strangers, I will be more conscious to do it for my colleagues (none of whom are Christians actually), so I should try to live differently, so they can hopefully see more of God in me rather than my flesh; and then my own mother- during the past six months our relationship has been particularly tense and conflict-border line but I hope God will help me to maintain a softer heart towards her despite the hurts that her words bring me and I should try to forgive in a more letting-go way for how he treats me recently. I know only God can help me with this, because my own will/flesh is too weak for this.



  26. Marpy Hayse on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:04 am

    Starting today, I will mindfully choose to give every interaction I have to the glory of God. I will think before I speak, making certain that not just my words, but my mind, heart, and soul are guided by God in all things! ????



  27. Rebecca on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:12 am

    I will follow through with any nudges God gives me. To really listen to what others are needing



  28. Desiree on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:13 am

    I will speak encouraging words whenever possible.



  29. Stacy on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:28 am

    I have spent years living in fear of abandonment and seeking approval. I have allowed others to influence and control who and how I act and am. I have not allowed myself to every truely be in or feel love. I have spent the last 10 days praying to “finally” understand God’s true FATHERLY love! I will remind myself that I am loved and pray that it pours out of me to all I encounter. I’m ready to live free of fear and feel love!



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:15 pm

      Stacy, friend I so get this. I lived over a decade in a prison of fear due to being the victim of a terrible crime. But with God and His love and His Word, I have overcome my fear. I have realized God truly does love me. With that love comes amazing healing and freedom. I pray the same for you, sweet friend. God will be faithful!! I have written a book called “Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner.” In one chapter, I share how God freed me from fear. I’m including a link to that chapter in the book. I pray you see this and it equips you to pray and believe God for your freedom!

      https://wendyblight.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/Hidden_Joy07.pdf

      Blessings,

      Wendy Blight



  30. Kristin on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:36 am

    I am visiting my newly retired uncle for the next 10 days. During this time I plan to love on him and encourage him as he navigates a new city he’s moved to, and a new season of life. This post was beautiful and exactly what the world needs more of! Thank you Wendy and Tracie for this great reminder and encouraging post. I would love the opportunity to share Wendy’s new book with a friend. May God continue to bless you and your work.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:12 pm

      Kristin, so thankful God spoke to your heart through this post! I love your specific call to action is to love and encourage your uncle. I’m praying God blesses him richly through your love and that you both have a truly delightful time together!

      Blessings,

      Wendy



  31. Lisa on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:39 am

    Thank you for your encouragement Tracie. I am trying to take the advice written in James 1:19 which can show love and that is……quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. This is so much easier said than done. ~Lisa~



  32. Annette on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:41 am

    I have found the best way for me to love the ones that are hard for me to love is to pray for MY change of heart, not for theirs. I ask the Lord to change me, not them. It isn’t always easy, but I have seen my attitude change toward these people.



    • Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:10 pm

      THIS is sooo good and comes from a beautiful place of humility. God honors our humility. Thank you for this great reminder that often it’s more about us than the other person, as hard as it is to admit. And, often, when we humble ourselves and change, it does change the other person. 🙂

      Blessings,

      Wendy



  33. Janice on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:46 am

    I need to be more patient and understanding to the people around me, putting aside my business and taking time for others.



  34. Suzanne on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 10:57 am

    I love the reminder of how easy it is to show God’s love to others, friends or strangers! I’m going to a family reunion this weekend, and know there are issues that could cause conflict if we let it. I am determined to show God’s love to all and avoid any kind of hurt. So blessed to be loved by Jesus, and I want others to know His perfect love through me. Thank you, Wendy!



  35. SandyT on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:04 am

    To lovingly encourage, support my husband as he recovers from being sick and we sort through all things insurance together! To treasure, give thanks for every day The Lord gives us together.



  36. Megan L. on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:06 am

    This was such a good blog post! I struggle to love others like this, especially some people in my own family. I’m asking God to help me see them as He does, and to love them like He does.



  37. Carol B on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:07 am

    I will smile and be gracious with coworkers.



  38. Kathie on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:28 am

    I sent a note to my 16 year old niece thanking her for being so kind and loving to my 14 year old daughter…she will always take the time to acknowledge her even if she is with other friends.

    I will also pay for someone behind me at the drive thru at Tim Horton’s. It’s not much but I love doing that!



  39. Courtney on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:36 am

    I am bringing some hand me downs to a friend of a friend who is adopting a little boy soon!



  40. TMC on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:40 am

    Last night after my Bible study class I had a woman stop to speak with me. She is going through a very rough patch and thought our Bible study (learning how to study the Bible) was just too much for her right now. She needed more of a study to help heal her heart. My heart broke for her. As I am reading your post today, she came to mind. My job is just to hold my arms open and hug. No need for words or ways to help. Just be there and love her. Thank you!



  41. Irene Talaasen on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:42 am

    With the Lord’s help , I will be patient and helpful to others in my realm of life. The study sounds so helpful too!
    Irene Talaasen



  42. Dawnielle Alden on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:49 am

    By remembering to smile at others and to listen for their heart drops as I interact with them. And listen for the Holy Spirits prompting as I interact with others.



  43. Mady on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:51 am

    By smiling and being kind to everyone I encounter today and everyday.



  44. Frances on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:52 am

    I will walk in love with Jesus. While at work, shopping, banking, post office and with friends.
    Every day I’ll do my best to remember his love for me and acknowledge those around me.



  45. Steph J. on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 12:35 pm

    I will love others by encouraging them. Spending time with them and listening to them. Praying for them too.



  46. Kim on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 12:51 pm

    Thank you so much for this devotion. It came at just the perfect time. I was complaining about cranky people in the world and then I became one. If I had just treated those people with LOVE, it would of changed everyone’s attitude, mostly mine. Again, thank you so much for your words.



  47. Gae on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 12:51 pm

    I will stop and really listen to each child who walks into my classroom and let them know they are loved.



  48. Lynn Wollenberg on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 1:21 pm

    Thank you for this lesson. I need to hear it again and again because I know that we are to live with love towards everyone, but struggle at times to live it out in real life. I need constant reminders to live as Jesus exemplified.



  49. Lisa B on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:12 pm

    I will work to be more loving to my family! I have been out of work since August and when I get discouraged I get frustrated. God needs to be my strength and I should be more positive and not so negative.



  50. Wendy Blight on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:17 pm

    Tracie, thank you for inviting me to guest post on your blog and share about my new book “I Am Loved.” What amazing women you have gathered here. I LOVE reading all the comments!! Praying God does some amazing work as these women go forth spilling out His love wherever their feet take them.

    Blessings,

    Wendy



  51. Kelli on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    Wanting to love others and actually doing so are miles apart. I prepare to love others by having a gift, words of encouragement or a helping hand ready when the opportunity presents. Giving a small wrapped gift to a clerk at your local store who has just dealt with a difficult customer is one of my favorite ways to show love and kindness.



  52. Kimberly Black on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 2:20 pm

    I will try to deepen my love walk this week by patiently noticing and lovingly responding to interruptions from friends, family or strangers.



  53. Michelle Havens on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 3:40 pm

    I will smile more and hug my friends, daughter, and mother. I will be kind in all ways & reach out to those I haven’t spoken with lately with a Scripture!



  54. Peggy Clement on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 3:51 pm

    This week I bought a homeless man dinner.



  55. Shelle P on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 4:08 pm

    What a beautiful devotional! I will be more loving to my husband this week by giving him grace with our chores and lifting him up instead of pointing out what needs to be done (or how I would do it differently!).



  56. Yatonya Brock-Frazier on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 4:20 pm

    I am learning in my daily walk that it is so much easier to show love to anyone you meet. My girl each day is to show more love and that I care no matter how small or unimportant it may seem to me; it may be very important to someone placed on my journey.



  57. Tina on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 5:14 pm

    I will smile more and pray for people that are hurting or just need prayer. Also by serving in our community. My church gives away shoes to kids at the beginning of school and we also give away hams to people at Christmas. I can serve in that and make someone feel loved through this.



  58. Janet on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 5:43 pm

    I will try to strengthen my commitment to love.



  59. Latesia Moyd on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 6:34 pm

    Recently one of my friend’s mom died and how I expressed my love was I let her talk her feelings out..let her get angry and then cry and then mad again!! I think the next thing I am going to do is surprise a visit on her very soon! See she lives out of state right now.



  60. Lora on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 6:45 pm

    I love the idea of remembering names of those in the service industry and really connecting with them versus just being polite. A friend of my daughter left a job in retail because of how rude so many customers would be to her and her co-workers. This made me sad, I mean, how hard is it to be kind?? Thanks for sharing God’s message love!!



  61. Missy on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 7:42 pm

    I will go way out of my comfort zone and smile and talk to a stranger.
    Since I quit my job this past summer, I’ve mostly stayed at home. I’m beginning to get panic attacks if I’m around people. I really have never liked talking to strangers. Especially those who approach me out of the blue.



  62. nancys1128 on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:03 pm

    I will watch and listen for the person who needs an encouraging word, or an ear to listen/shoulder to lean on – and be the provider of it.



  63. Alesa Naymon on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 8:54 pm

    I am asking God to open my eyes to those who need love. I want to be more aware if the needs of others. Sometimese let our busy lives get in the way of fulfilling His purpose through us. I want to serve where I am called.



  64. Christine on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 9:31 pm

    At a meeting for my girls troop tonight, I wandered around with my 1 year old near one of the leaders. She asked a quick question, and I could have given her a quick answer and moved on, but I could sense she needed a listening ear so I stayed with her a while, listening and talking with her. I read your devotional after the meeting and realized that what I did, though I didn’t know her well, was showing love to her. sometimes it’s not always hard to show love to others you don’t know very well, especially when you know their heart is hurting or distressed in some way. Sometimes I am apathetic, ignoring people around me because I’m so focused on what’s in front of me (my kids, shopping, housework, etc.). Lord help me not to miss those divine appointments to show love to others You place in my path.



  65. LaVonna Mickelson on Thursday, January 11, 2018 at 11:57 pm

    I have been trying to be more sensitive to others, to listen and just be kind and gracious.



  66. Marybeth on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 5:23 am

    I tend to get short with my husband, I will be more attentive and give him the respect he deserves.



  67. Joyce on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 6:10 am

    I’m focused on how easy is it for others to love me.



  68. Karyn on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 8:56 am

    Today, I will prepare and mail encouraging cards to those who serve faithfully in ministry.



  69. Su on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 9:55 am

    My mother is in a nursing home and I visit with her often. I will start taking more time to talk to the other people who reside there, as I am sure some do not have family to come visit them.
    I so look forward to taking the OBS and growing in my ability to love more deeply.



  70. Sahron on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 1:12 pm

    I will try to show my love for God and others by truly listening when someone asks me if I have a minute, even when I truly don’t have a minute – usually they already recognize that I don’t really have the time, and I need to remember that if they come to me anyway, it means they NEED to do so. I will show love by taking a minute and truly listening, without being distracted by what I “should” be doing – I will turn my back to my work and look at them and listen intently. I appreciate that I have friends who come to me and who I can go to when I am in need – I need to remember that, even when I feel like I am too busy. Life is too short not to be there for others.



  71. Deb on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 2:36 pm

    Praying for others, with them, rather than saying I’ll be praying; take the time right then.



  72. Irene Olofernes on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 4:13 pm

    It’s so hard to rekindle the love you once have for your spouse who have been deeply hurt by you. That’s the reality of my marriage at the moment. Although I by far -NEVER have an intension to do it to my husband. God is teaching me to continue to love him & I am & have to invite the Holy Spirit’s power ro do it for me. The truth is, we have been through a lot of family issues & still have the latest heart-wrenching issues of my 19 year old daughter going on at the moment.
    I’m going deep pains on both my marriage & my 4 grown up children (2 sons & twin daughters ) each has different & difficult issues. There are times I feel hopeless… but God!
    Thanks for taking time to listen.
    Blessings to everyone!



  73. Lauren Gonzalez on Friday, January 12, 2018 at 8:54 pm

    I will love others by not seeing them as a distraction/interruption to my plans/to do list.



  74. Mary White on Saturday, January 13, 2018 at 8:14 am

    I’m doing this now. Just a few days ago I received a call from a young woman who I know. She was in a homeless shelter with her two kids. She was escaping domestic violence. My daughter bought the air line tickets and she and her kids are now here with me. I am a single mother working two jobs in a small townhouse but I wanted her to know God loves her and has a better plan for her life.



  75. Jane Copple on Saturday, January 13, 2018 at 5:10 pm

    When I go out and and come across strangers, I always speak to them with a big
    smile. It is my desire to have others see Jesus in me.



  76. Tiffany B on Saturday, January 13, 2018 at 10:51 pm

    I will do some personal notes this time! I think it’ll be a nice surprise as well as something they can tangibly see & even keep.



  77. Julie on Sunday, January 14, 2018 at 8:23 am

    To listen better and be there often for others. Not letting others upset me so must and to love them more.



  78. Lisa L. on Monday, January 15, 2018 at 12:36 am

    The next time someone gives me a neutral or scowly face, I will return it with a smile. 🙂



  79. Andrenette R Williams on Tuesday, January 16, 2018 at 4:42 am

    I love to share God’s word! His word is so freeing. Although I am experiencing some major challenges in my marriage, which could lead to divorce; I make a choice to share God’s word wirh someone in person, email or text everyday! Sharing His word is loving them and helping me all at the same time!



  80. Sue Roberts on Tuesday, January 16, 2018 at 7:25 am

    I volunteer in my church and love it. But rubber meets the road in my secular job. I work retail and never know what i will face. I will listen more to words said and unsaid. Between thanksgiving and Christmas i fitted 4 families with suits for funerals. Broke my heart.



  81. Leslie on Tuesday, January 16, 2018 at 7:38 am

    My family is in a dark season as I navigate being a single mom to 4 children (ages 13-2). With no support or interaction from their father, hearts could be heavy and anxiety ridden; there are those days. However, the Lord has put an anthem of victory on my heart. We rise up, we serve those far more needy than we are, and intercede with abandonment. This kindness , this perfect love is from Him, for us and through us to others. Our eyes stay fixed on the cross to see how abundant is our God in His unfailing love for us. Who can we love better today? A meal prepared when fishes and loaves sort of miracles need to happen for us to eat- yes. A note written to a new neighbor when I want to collapse and dread introducibing myself in singleness- yes.The list goes on. We love from His love, in His strength, everytime the Holy Spirit nudges our hearts. Lord, let us hear your voice.



  82. Doris on Thursday, February 1, 2018 at 4:02 pm

    I want to walk in love as you describe. Would love to read your book !



  83. Trisha on Monday, February 12, 2018 at 12:51 pm

    Walking in love is my intention everyday, some days are much more successful than others , God is Great.



  84. Lynda Okedo on Tuesday, February 13, 2018 at 3:09 am

    I woke up this morning asking God to show me how to walk in love in this environment that is very impossible to walk in love,I live in an environment that is impossible to walk in love,feeling hurt by people who I cared for and gave my all to. Is so frustrating loving someone in that environment but from today I will do my best to love! Pray with me MA, for God to continue leading me in his ways.



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