Marriage Challenge Day 11: PEACE (and 2 Stressed-Less Living giveaways!)

Peace. It is something we all want, but often very hard to come by.

We want peace in the mornings, when the house is crazy because none of the children are getting ready for school on time.

We want peace in the evenings, when sibling rivalry seems to be at its peak.

We want peace at work, when the deadlines, office politics and stress are running rampant.

We want peace in our finances, when the bills outweigh what is left in the budget.

We want peace on the highway, when traffic is crazy and we are running late for an appointment.

We want peace in our hearts when the storms of life seem to be pouring down.

We want peace in our marriage, during times when disagreements, hurt and conflict seem to be at the core of every interaction.

Peace.

Is it realistic to ever think we can really have it? Can we honestly have peace while living in this fallen world, filled with sin, conflict, betrayal, temptations, chaos and busyness?

Can we really have peace in our committed relationships when the temptations to sexual sin are lurking around every corner?

Can we really have peace in our marriages when the sanctity of wedding vows has become distorted and devalued in our country, and it sometimes seems easier to quit than work through the hard times?

The answers to these questions depend on what kind of peace we are really looking for, and most importantly, where we are searching for it.

Just out of curiosity, I searched the word ‘peace’ under Google images. I found infinite pages of pictures of so-called ‘peace’ – but not one picture of Jesus. Not one. There were lots of hippy-type peace signs, circular peace symbols, hand with two fingers held up, groups holding hands in a circle, rainbows, people hugging, and even a picture of guns with an ‘x’ through them.

What I did not find, were pictures of Jesus, Bibles, bible verse references, crosses, heavenly clouds, praying hands or even a beautiful sunset over the ocean. The closest thing I found to resembling peace found through faith were some pictures of doves, but even that symbol can be interpreted as worldly and meaningless without any accompanying bible references.

Strangely enough, all of the images that fell under the category of peace were of worldly perceptions of what peace is. A peace found in other people, symbols, and tangible things.  Peace that is temporary and empty.

This spoke volumes to me about why so many people are chronically stressed, living in daily conflict in their homes, struggling in their marriages, drowning in a life full of disappointment and unmet needs, and unable to find any real peace in their hearts or in their relationships.

When we look for perfect peace in people, places, massages, pedicures, vacations, life or marriage – it will never truly be ours.

True peace cannot come from anything we can touch or see. It cannot be portrayed through any silly, creative symbols or fictitious depictions of what someone thought should signify peace.

Peace also cannot be found through simply having better marriages, better children, better jobs, better finances, better family relationships, less problems, or better traffic. We often fall for the lie that if those things got better, then we could have peace, but anything found outside of Christ, is nothing but temporary. Although our continued prayers can be for God to work in the difficult situations in our life, peace can still be ours while God is at work in the midst of the mess.

Last week I told you about a time when peace was missing in my heart, and my life, and God allowed me to sit in His lap. The problems I was facing at that time seemed way too big for me to handle, and certainly beyond my ability to control. It was a time when feelings of despair and hopelessness invaded my heart, making me wonder if peace, much less joy, would ever return.

On that day, sitting in Gods lap, I discovered peace. Real peace. Not a fake symbol or an empty symbolic picture of peace. Not temporary peace. Not a peace found while on vacation or a phone call from a precious friend – but real peace – a peace that was found in the holy lap of my heavenly Daddy.

In John 14:27, Jesus is trying to comfort His disciples, when he says, “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” (NIV)

There is a key word in that sentence that sticks out to me – and that is the word “my”.  Jesus said, I give you “my” peace. Not just any peace, but His peace. Not human peace, but holy peace.

A peace that is completely His, and only His to give, because it was bought with His blood and purchased by His sacrifice. It is His legacy to His people, and we are the recipients of that legacy. This legacy of peace is a gift from Jesus that can be opened, unwrapped and enjoyed time and time again.

Let’s surrender all of our burdens today once and for all and ask and open that sweet gift of peace.  The gift that can help us see beyond the problems, and begin to see the problem-solver, so we can begin to really trust that nothing is impossible with God. He can help us face and deal with the challenges of marriage, but just like any other blessing that we desire from our Lord, we have to ask to receive.

Peace has to be in our heart, before it can be in our marriage.

Upon the asking, God begins the giving and we will find a freeing peace like we have never known before – not because of an absence of problems, but because of the presence of the King.

DAY 11 CHALLENGE:   PURSUE GOD’S GIFT OF PEACE, AND OPEN IT

Your challenge today is this:    if you feel like peace has been missing from your life, your heart, your mind, and even your marriage – or if you have been desperately searching for peace and happiness in places other than Gods Word –  take some time to sit in God’s lap today. Empty yourself of your fears and hurts, and ask God to fill those empty spaces with a peace that overflows and surpasses your understanding.

________________________________________________________________________________________

SLL Book CoverSince the message of my new book Stressed-Less Living is about Finding God’s Peace In Your Chaotic World, I thought it would be fun to give two copies away!

To enter to win, leave a comment about what is stealing your peace right now, whether it be a little daily nagging thing, or a big issue, and commit to asking God for peace in that area of life. Winners announced on Friday March 29th!

If you received this post in email and would like to leave a comment or enter to win, please CLICK HERE. Please do not reply to this in email.

Proverbs 31 Ministries is offering Stressed-Less Living as the next Online Bible Study beginning April 7th. Click here for all the details and to get registered!

Please note: Amazon is currently sold out of Stressed-Less Living and on back order, but good news – we do still have some in stock at Proverbs 31!  With your purchase from Proverbs 31, you will also receive access to download my 50 page bible study guide FOR FREE!   Don’t delay, the study begins in just two weeks!  🙂

140 Comments

  1. Terri on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:26 am

    For me, what is stealing my peace right now is trying to be in control of everything instead of letting God be in control of my life. A daily struggle that I have to continue to give up each day to God.



  2. klaub63 on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:40 am

    indecision



  3. Carol on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:45 am

    Worry, about what comes next in my life.



  4. Heather on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:46 am

    Right now there seems to be many things stealing my peace. Worry, fear, the need to fix things, I cannot…



  5. Stephanie Hinz on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:47 am

    The biggest thing that steals my peace (or really, God’s peace) from me is not giving thanks in all circumstances. I have found, however, that if I give thanks in ALL things, His peace is with me…even in the storm.



  6. Wendie Fokert on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:48 am

    What is stealing my peace right now is trust. Previous infidelity in my marriage has broken my trust. On days when I put my full trust in God alone I have peace. But there are days when Satan screams in my head and tries to steal my peace and joy. It is something I have to battle each day and choose to just put my hope and trust in God to get me through and that fills me with peace.



    • Mary Davis on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:07 am

      Wendie, I am praying for you. I have been married 22 1/2 yrs and 9 years ago my husband broke our vows. The first few years were the hardest and I thought I wouldn’t make it several times a day because the Deceiver constantly whispered in my mind and placed seeds of doubt, but each time God spoke with me and gave me the strength to pull those seeds and the doubts that were springing forth. Then the more I listened to God and grew in strength the better I was at casting away the Deceiver. When my husband dealt with his issues that caused his betrayl and turned back to God, he became a better husband and now goes to church with me. Sometimes things happen in our lives that hurt and seem like they will never be better, but no matter what the outcome if God is on your side YOU will be better. Most importantly, and I believe this is what turned our bad situation around, pray for your husband. It will be extremely difficult at first, but it will help not just him but you as well. God, bless Wendie and her family with peace as only You can. Draw her closer to You and give her strength to fight the Deceiver and his lies. Fill her with the Holy Spirit and let Your light shine through her. Amen.
      Love, your sister,
      Mary



  7. Jessica on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:56 am

    Not being able to turn off the worry in my mind over all the things we are facing in our life right now.



  8. Kim on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:03 am

    My husband has an apartment rented for April 1. I pray thatbthis is a temporary separation and believing God for reconciliation but i have moments of doubt and anxiety.
    The other night I was wound up and feeling out of control. I prayed for the Lord to help me! The verse you gave today was the one He spoke to my heart John 14:27. It was about 10 min later I’m sitting in bed and suddenly realized I was at peace. I thank the Lord that He is right there beside me in this journey.



  9. Cindy W on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:05 am

    My peace stealer is trying to be Super Mom, Super Wife, Super Daughter, Super Daughter-In-Law, Super Friend, Super Sister, etc. and losing “Me” in the process.



  10. Jill on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:13 am

    Distraction.



  11. Leilani on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:13 am

    Feeling the need to know and plan EVERYTHING in my life instead of just surrendering it to Him. Not being able to remember throughout my day that HE is in control and not me. That is what’s stealing my peace.



  12. Susanmarie Ard on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:28 am

    What stealing my peace right now are bad habits such as drinking and smoking . I turn to instance gratification instead of God’s peace that lasts a lifetime! 🙁



  13. Jenn on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:32 am

    Worries about an upcoming oral surgeon consult and dealing with a mistake I made.



  14. Elaine Segstro on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:35 am

    I desire peace in my career. I made a “career change” this year and love what I do, but I don’t have peace about it because I still wonder why my last job did not work out. Why did it not “work out” in a Christian environment? Was is my fault? I long for peace. I can’t give myself peace; only God can. Thank you for reminding of this.



  15. Alix on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:40 am

    clutter…



  16. Julie on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:42 am

    overloading my calendar by not saying no to good stuff but waiting for God’s best



  17. Jane on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:45 am

    Hopelessness over my marriage struggles is stealing my peace. We have been through a rough couple of years with secrecy, lack of family boundaries, and situations that broke my trust in my husband. But I praise my God that He is using this to draw me and change me in spite of ongoing circumstances.



  18. Laura on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:53 am

    Some days I allow “busy”ness to steal my peace. And even tho it is becoming less frequent, there are times when I allow the judgment of others or fear of it to steal my peace. Oh, and the need to know the future & it’s security instead of completely trusting that God will provide all that I need. I commit to surrendering these things to Him & thank Him for His faithfulness!



  19. Janie W on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:53 am

    indecision is stealing my peace. i hope and pray that i can discern God’s will.



  20. B.A on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:54 am

    Peace,peace,peace…..I so much need this in my life.Having sleepless nights,worries,challenges in my place of work,marriage,career.Worrying of how to get things fixed,worrying about my husband’s ministry,worrying about how to be a better wife,and better mother for a little girl of 4years old.Worrying about how to see my husband who has been away for some years now due to my relocation to america,and he back home.Doing all He could to make things work,but looks like nothing is working. Lack of peace comes when I start looking at all these situations, through the eye of fear thinking nothing is working..when actually God is doing greater things in my life,marriage,home and our ministry.



  21. Vicki on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:55 am

    Less stress would be welcomed here. Thank you



  22. Tammy P on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:57 am

    The daily mom and wife stuff are stealing my peace right now. It’s overwhelming trying to get everything done.



  23. kayla m on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:57 am

    I need the Lords’s strength not to give up on the things I’ve learned when it gets tough and when things aren’t going the way that I’ve been praying they would. I also need the stength to keep going when it feels like I can’t.



  24. Susan Moore on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:23 am

    I have always lived fighting to survive. Dad with cancers, – He died in 1986. My mom with osteo, rhuetoid, deaf, parkinson, Merkel skin cancer, Staghorn kidney stone filling the full of her right kidney with the left barely working, disc back disiease, My own finances are always a mess. I get them in control and Satan tries to remove my faith by hitting me hard again. IE Mom and family are 5 hours away. I was going to see them at Easter, now my car has a 1900.00 repair bill. How do I maintain my peace with no way to see mom and not knowing how long she has as we have quality of life for her not quantity. She is only 75 in this July. I can only Skype occassionally if I can text her and get her to understand to get on Skype (rarely) and she shakes like crazy from Parkinson. I have no money for the repair or for another car (I drive a 97 Honda Accord. I live by cash and live cheque to cheque. How to you remain in the peace of Jesus. I’m constantly distracted at work asking him for his peace. That’s all I have left today. Sue out.



  25. Kelly on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:34 am

    I’m determined to have more Peace that ever before, because I’ll be asking God to be with me & give me all the peace made available throughout my life.



  26. karen anderson on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:39 am

    Thank you Tracie for your words today. Several things are stealing my peace today – situations at work (I’m a pastor), my husband’s health issues, but most of all I’m stressed about my daughter who lives across the country from me with my two grandchildren. Her husband has declared after 13 years omarriage that he no longer loves her and wants a divorce. There is another woman involved. My daughter was blindsided and is reeling.
    I’m praying that God will use this to bring her closer to him.
    I would live to have your book and send one to her.



  27. Paula on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:51 am

    How do you find peace when your husband of 28 years decides he isn’t happy anymore with you and leaves you and your children? I struggle to leave these worries at the cross and find peace in the midst of this terrible storm. I know I should have peace, I know God provides peace, I am just struggling to rest in His peace.



  28. Lauri on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:53 am

    Thanks for this chance. What steals my peace? My anixety issues on a daily basis.



  29. Rachel Sullivan on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:57 am

    Currently my husband is deployed and the distance & lack of ability to have physical closeness is stealing my peace right now. Although I know the lack of intimacy is hard for him, as a woman the lack of having my partner here with me, daily, is difficult. We have 4 kids (13, 11, 4 & 2) and they consume daily life of course, but at the end of the day, when the routine is over and evening comes around, the quiet of the house becomes deafening. It is at this point that it is so easy for Satan to prey on those lonely times and twist my thoughts to make me believe I’m not strong enough to run this household solo. Sometimes, we just NEED that reassuring hug from our husband to know we are doing OK, to remind us our failures of the present day won’t be carried over to tomorrow, and that they love us regardless. Thankfully, infidelity isn’t a present worry for us, but just being apart and knowing my husband is missing life in general back here, steals our peace on enormous levels! We are both so eternally grateful for the Proverbs 31 ministry and all of the wonderful women who do God’s work through this platform!



  30. Pam R on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:03 am

    Less stress and peace are easy to say but much harder to obtain. But if we don’t try we will never know what can be accomplished. Thanks so much for helping us try and being our cheerleader helping us in are quest. And as I go along, I share what I learn with others as this is a very stressful world and I remember a saying my mom told me, ” You eat an elephant one bite at a time.”



  31. Lauren Doyle on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:03 am

    Trying to find balance as a full time working mom of a 3 year old and 6 month old precious boys and the struggle to live more simply to have more time for them is what is stealing my peace.



  32. Christine on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:07 am

    Thank you so much for your inspiring writing – you indeed have a great gift and it’s a blessing to someone like me. I am a new mother of a little girl with a wonderful husband, a dog and two cats, and was raised in a Christian home that commanded us to be ambassadors of our name and of God’s…a great idea but it put a lot of pressure on us as kids. Being the eldest of four I was leaned upon heavily to help keep the others in line, and decided to rebel after I was on my own in college; I am currently working to renew my relationship with God after falling away half my lifetime ago. We moved from Seattle to be close to my brothers and dad in Georgia once my daughter arrived for support (I would have loved a mom to be around but my mom passed suddenly 5 years ago and my husband’s mom is busy raising her daughter’s children), but my husband got a job in Maryland, so we moved up here, away from family, over Thanksgiving. Raised with great expectations and high standards and the mantra that self-sufficient is best, I try to do it all on a budget, but God has chipped away at me (I’m a slow learner, I guess :)), finally set down by Him – literally – after breaking out in debilitating excema on my hands and feet, unable to do much if anything at all anymore. I am finally listening and asking Him for a relationship, though 30+years of conditioning otherwise is tough to undo. Daily morning readings of the Bible have given my glimmers of a resucitated Holy Spirit after the years I spent suppressing it, and blogs like your’s I read throughout the day when I have a moment – or make a moment! 🙂 – help me feel less alone. I can’t yet see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I do catch little bits of peace and His quiet voice throughout my days.



  33. Carol on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:07 am

    What steals my peace? Watching the news without a good dose of God’s word to immunize me first! And worrying about my kids as they and their friends become new drivers – and everything that goes with that.



  34. Tracie F on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:07 am

    What’s stealing my peace….selfishness



  35. Elaisha T on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:15 am

    Feeling like I’m failing as a wife & mother is stealing my peace! I am constantly feeling like if just one thing fell into place, then I would finally feel peace. But, your devotion spoke directly to me this morning & helped me realize that I can only find true peace through our Lord & Savior!



  36. Jess on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:15 am

    What steals my peace? Finances! Because of that I have to work full time and spend little time with my children. I need peace to deal with my current situation and peace to be able to hear from God about what I need to do next.



  37. Audrey on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:17 am

    Full time mom, wife, and employee steals my peace. I try to be perfect at everything.



  38. diane on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:18 am

    peace stealers…allowing myself to be engulfed with the “stress” of others and projecting it onto myself



  39. Tanya Dennis (@TanyaDennis) on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:22 am

    Family drama. The players are over 700 miles away, but my mama insists on calling me with every detail and now I can’t get it out of my head. I can’t do anything to fix it; the situation just keeps getting worse and … I feel so helpless.

    One thing I know: GOD IS BIGGER. He is bigger than these problems. His arms reach where mine cannot. His wisdom exceeds my pitifully finite knowledge. He is simply bigger and better than all that we face or imagine and so I choose to trust Him. I choose to let go of my stress and embrace the peace He offers, the peace that is incomprehensible and inescapable in the face of knowing Him. Not the Him that we box up and sell on Sunday mornings, but the HIM that is truly HIM. He is bigger.



  40. jeni on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:28 am

    I need peace more than ever–peace in my mararige, work, ended relationships. My anger and resentment consume me. My marriage is in shambles. I whole heartedly committed to this challenge and I was seeing the results until this weekend!! Another fight last night ended with my husband telling me that 2 weeks cant fix 2 years–referring to the challenge and the last 2 years of our marriage. I felt like I had been punched in the gut. He told me that I all had been doing wasn’t good enough. That he wanted to be thanked with affection and sex. I don’t know how much more of this I can take. I am more discouraged than ever. He has not one time ever showed me gratitude for anything I do for him or our family. I have needs too. It is hard to be the one that is trying and praying and getting absolutely nothing in return. I am beaten down and ready to call it quits. God please grant me peace and allow me to recognize and feel it. Let me know that my efforts are not in vain.



    • kittie on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:43 am

      Praying for you
      Remember you are NEVER alone.
      The Holy Spirit is ALWAYS with you.



      • Jeni on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:16 am

        Thank you for your prayers. Thank you for words of encouragement.



    • Brenda on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:48 am

      I will be praying for you both. Remember, God is your happiness. As much as you want your husbands acceptance, you make you happy. I’ve had to learn that 🙂



  41. Cj on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:28 am

    Lack of biblical knowledge , back sliding, fear



  42. Susan Hall on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:35 am

    Worry. Worry about my husband’s test results. Is it cancer or not. Worry about my friend who is dealing with very negative people at work. Worry about my friend whose son is facing some legal difficulties. Worry about so many people and situations that I cannot control.



  43. Tesia on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:38 am

    Restlessness & a need to seek God for direction. Not taking the time to connect with my savior each day!



  44. Kelsey on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:43 am

    Insecurity and fear are stealing my peace right now. I cant seem to shake the feeling of not bring good enough: as a follower of Christ, as a wife, and as a mom. I pray for strength to help me out of this downward spiral. I commit to finding daily peace with God!



  45. Kim on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:45 am

    A long winter filled with sickness on and off throughout the whole season for our family that has left us all very tired and weary.



  46. kittie on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:50 am

    As a Messianic Jew will be celebrating Pesac Seder tonight.
    Will focus on our Sar Shalom our prince of peace
    So many cares of this world can steal my peace.
    Must focus on the only one that has ability to give me peace



  47. Sherri Chaffin on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:56 am

    My peace is being stolen daily by my own mind, by WORRYING. Worrying about the health of loved ones, about finances, about relationships, about MANY things over which I have no control. My problem is that I cannot learn that now matter how much I worry, it doesn’t change the outcome of any situation.



  48. Alisha on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:00 am

    Homeschooling my 4 children. 14, 12, 8, 5….everyday is a struggle right now. How to handle the little one who does not want to learn..how to handle the girl who wants you to do it for her…how to handle the day dreamer….and how to keep the peace between them when they tear each other apart all day long…the yelling, the fussing….awe how do I teach them to peaceful and to have peace….only God…



  49. Cristian on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:02 am

    What is stealing my peace is: fear and worry of the unknown and what if’s of life; general anxiety and stress of a big move for my family and I. I struggle with the daily battle of not giving into these things and trying my best to simply trust Him. Like I said, it’s a daily battle.



  50. Lynnette on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:03 am

    My peace is being stolen by worrying about things & by my weight.



  51. Mary Dorsey on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:04 am

    My marriage, my job, dealing with the untimely death of my father, completing a Master’s Degree that I could care less about now, and many more things.

    I really need peace and healing and to be refreshed.



    • Mary Dorsey on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:07 am

      Too much stress in my life, health issues, anxiety, etc. I am trying so hard to pray to him and look to him, but it seems like I struggle more the harder I try. Thanks for your words Tracie!



  52. Lucretia on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:06 am

    Life is stealing my peace…my health, both mental & physical; my job; my kids; my marriage; my parents & in laws. I feel life my world had crumpled. I am taking baby steps to move forward. Some days are easier than others. I AM committed to taking all to God! I an starting to make a little progress. Without my complete focus on God, I would not be making any progress and would still be in the pit of dispair. I have enjoyed this study on marriage and would love to read your book, stressed less living! Thank you!



  53. Vonnie Kronk on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:06 am

    My peace is being stolen by money coming in the next month. April my husband is having back surgery & of All times my disability checks are being decreased too!



  54. Shareec on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:10 am

    Insecurity and needing to fully forgive are both stealing my peace and have been for a while now. I know that I’m in control of my attitude but God is in control of my life & when I let him take over, I can finally find real peace! He’s already making changes in these negative areas because He can 🙂



  55. regina on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:24 am

    I am having a difficult time with letting the devil get into my thoughts. On days where i feel bad He tries to tell me well this is it, theres no hope for you, this cancer is gonna take you away from the ones you love…I get up every morning and tell Him that I am loved by my Father and by the blood and sacrifice of my Savior I am washed clean and healed by His wounds… Some days its hard…i have to study and just really meditate on Gods promises for us..which I try to do anyway…I know He loves me and I am choosing to live in the peace He gave His life for me to have.



  56. Tina on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:31 am

    My daughter’s chronic medical conditional…watching it steal from her life…steals from my joy 🙁



  57. GothamGal on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:32 am

    I am having major issues with work right now…



  58. Dana on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:33 am

    My husband works with mostly women. Several of these women have been texting him things that are inappropriate for co-workers. These woman are several years younger than my husband. He has not handled this situation in a manner God would approve of for a married man. We are moving and I am praying to God that this move will bring peace to our marriage in the area of other women.



  59. dlj on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:34 am

    So many things are common to us all; husbands, children, jobs, weight, lack of trust, unfaithfulness,all the lies of our enemy. I choose this day to have PEACE.



  60. Susan Moore on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:34 am

    And further to my mother’s own stressors that I can do nothing about, my daughter’s teacher called me again (she is repeating grade 11) and not very well. So my daughter throws her stress onto me because “like” I guess I don’t have enough. When does a person just break? Sheesh. I hate being alone raising a daughter who just refuses to get it. I’m exhausted knowing I can’t do anything for my mom too and they are five hours away and it may not matter because my car is in the garage and it will be skinned timing that it gets fixed in time. I always feel like I’m on the edge of that cliff just balancing back and forth to falling off and standing back up straight.
    Sue out



  61. Charlene on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:39 am

    This past week I was told I could no longer stay in the Army National Guard due to some medical issues. This means I will also lose my Federal job as I had to be a member of the NG to hold my position. I will get a disability retirement since I am losing my NG status due to medical, but at a reduced income. Financially we are not bad off- we will have our house paid off within the next year & have no other debt. However, this is a major change in our lives. My husband wants me to appeal it and stay. Unfortunately he doesn’t understand that sometimes it’s all I can do to make it thru the day. Sitting causes my leg to hurt & go numb- numbness does cause pain. This affects my ability to pay attention to what I’m doing… really- they are right to send me home. I cannot do Army type tasks anymore. I am just 1 year short of receiving a retirement from the Military though. That is hard to swallow to lose all that. So there isn’t peace right now about this issue. I believe God will provide for us and that there is another path for me to take. I pray God opens my husband’s understanding to my limitations & although we are claiming healing- nothing missing- nothing broken- I am not there yet.



  62. Brenda on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:41 am

    My relationship with my husband has been a stress for me for the better part of our almost 5 year marriage. I can not even tell you how sad and stressed it has been for me. I never thought I would think of divorce or be tempted with thoughts of affair but I have. Fortunately, I sought God and his forgiveness and haven’t given up even when I’m just DONE! He is definitely my strength. There is no way in my humanness I could of stayed in this marriage. Right when I’m about to give up, God miraculously changes my heart, mind or my husband shows effort in some way to restore hope. I know God has a purpose for me, my husband and our family. It is my commitment to God that keeps me going and grounded. I understand faith more than I ever have in my life. God has also grown me as well which I am always extremely grateful for. God is so GOOD to us!!!



  63. Kim on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:49 am

    Negative thoughts have been stealing my peace. I have tried to replace them by singing a hymn when they enter my mind. There have been times when this has proved more challenging than others and I have needed Gods power to eliminate the negativity and replace it with His peace. Gods presence in my life has grown. I’m able to see His hand more often in my life;His ability to be the peace I need. I pray every day for strength to know Him and have His power in my life. Thank you for your gentle reminders!



  64. Jen H on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:49 am

    I’m allowing my marriage to steal my peace. We are going through a rough patch that has lasted for several years. I wonder if it will ever get better. I long for restoration of a relationship I value. Yet I’ve allowed it to become the focus of my life even more so than my relationship with God. I will surrender to him and surrender my relationship as He is the one who has blessed me with my husband and he can make us new again.



  65. Vickie on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:56 am

    This book would be a great help with all that is going on in my life! I know God is in control and only He can give me the peace I need!



  66. Steph on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 12:02 pm

    I believe. I pray for peace with my spouse as we are currently seperated but he just told me he is willing to attend a marriage rediscovery weekend with me.



  67. sharon P on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 12:13 pm

    I have struggled all our married life with the finances as my husband has always been self employed. The hardest thing for me to do is to give this to God and let it go. I committed about a year ago to stop worrying and Let God and I have done pretty well with it but still asking Him to keep me strong in this. I will recommit this to Him today and do all I can to stay faithful to Him. Thank you so much for your encouraging words, I love waking up and reading them each day! God Bless you and yours.



  68. Kerry on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 12:38 pm

    I ask God to help bring me peace with my life-long struggle with my weight and health. He knows of my obstacles, but I know that I need His Peace. I judge myself and it affects they way I see myself (even though my husband loves me as I am) which in turn holds me back from wanting to be initimate the majority of the time. I also ask him for His peace for dealing with the work-life balance I have been struggling with for several years. Through Him, I am getting better, but HIS PEACE is what I need. Thanks for the lesson, Tracie!



  69. Shawn on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 12:45 pm

    I’m recovering from an accident 5 months ago and have had a difficult time finding peace and perspective. Thanks for reminding me where my focus needs to be.



  70. Tasha on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 12:53 pm

    I struggle daily with peace about my finances. It has been a very difficult process in allowing God to lead my husband and I with our finances, and I know it has a lot to do with doubt and fear. Sometimes I feel as though we’ll never get our head about water, and it seems that everyone else has it all together and we just can’t seem to get it right. I know that the Word of God says to stop worrying and pray about everything and then He will give me His Peace that surpasses all understanding. So I pray but I still think about and worry about my family. So I thank you for these lessons Tracie because I definitely need sisters in Christ who will pray for me and with me.



  71. MC on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    So many things each day try to steal my joy and peace. To often I give in and live in conflict and stress. Today I choose to stop worrying, trust God, and live in His peace.



  72. Kim on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:03 pm

    Ongoing conflict with teammates… Some days are easier than others to rest in Him, knowing He has a plan and it is for our good. Other days I take back the burden He was carrying and worry over it, until He gently reminds me give it to Him once again. *sigh*



  73. Apryl on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:13 pm

    Every day troubles with family, my husband, and money seems to get in the way of God’s peace in me. I will strive to let him take over and fill my life with peace and joy.



  74. Rhonda on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:21 pm

    Worry has be stealing my peace, little by little each day. This challenge has helped more than just my marriage it has been helping me with things I didn’t realize I needed to change as well. Thank You for all your encouraging words.



  75. Carol Brown on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:34 pm

    The modern culture that the world shows us does not offer us peace. It is too busy “selling” to us and persuading us with pictures of the material more, more and better, better, better!



  76. Diamond Jernigan on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:41 pm

    What is stealing my peace right now is the feud between my husband, myself, and our daughter. She is tough to manage and disagreements occur all the time on how to raise her. Peace is hard to find in the midst of the storms of life. But if only I would look up to the Lord instead of to the side or down with my head hanging low, I would find true peace. I would also find it in reading his word and praying to him when those trials occur as He can stop anything in the midst of it occurring. I loved this challenge for today as I really need some peace right now.



  77. Kim Abbott on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:47 pm

    What is stealing my peace right now is worry…in church ministry and family. I want to step out in faith and have peace about a big event at church.



  78. Christina on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:52 pm

    What steals my peace the most is probably past trust issues. That would be the worst. But also raising a toddler, trying to teach her what is right & wrong can be very stressful at times, along w/ our dogs, who are very loving, good dogs…they are just stressful sometimes. So is trying to be more healthy & lose weight, when I have a 1 yr old who wont leave my side & it feels impossible to do at times. Those are all stressors that I ask for His abundant peace over.



  79. Robin on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 1:52 pm

    A problem with one of my children is robbing me of peace.



  80. Amy on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 2:15 pm

    What is stealing my peace right now is worrying about whether or not our financing for a new home will be approved. The new home is in the town where my husband works, which is an hour and fifteen minute commute from our current home. The drive is tough on my husband after ten-hour days working as a carpenter. I know it is in God’s hands and that I shouldn’t worry.



  81. MissyB on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 2:33 pm

    My biggest peace and joy thief is my own weaknesses and sometimes sin. I struggle with encouraging my husband and teenage daughter. It just doesn’t come easy or natural to me. I end up focusing and talking about the things that need to be fixed/negative things and not sharing positive things. So my tongue/words do not bring life. And I want to be their greatest supporter.



  82. Katrina on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 2:38 pm

    My peace is being hindered by my need to control. I have been repeating over and over again: “Katrina, let go and let God.”



  83. Kristy on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    My negative thoughts steal my peace. They whirl around in my mind and I commit to turning them over to God and asking for peace in my thoughts.



  84. karen on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 2:47 pm

    WORRY!!!! I have a problem with worry and I know in my mind that not one bit of worry is going to change anything or anybody. I know what the Bible says about worry and I have prayed that I can leave this at feet of my Lord. I have surrendered the cause of worry only to take it back. I continue to pray for God to show me the way in this area of my life and trust I will be given peace in this sinful part of my life.



  85. Linda Adesanya on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 2:50 pm

    Worry is my big one. Worry that I’m getting too old to have a child for my husband, worry that my husband and I will never live together again, etc… I pray daily for my womb to be opened and daily for the complete restoration of my marriage. Sometimes though after I lay them at the alter I find myself taking them back to worry more about.



  86. LauraK on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    Exhaustion. Cancer recovery. MAJOR financial issues. Deep grieving. Weight loss/fitness to prevent recurrence.
    Hard to pick the one that has the most peace-robbing potential on any given day.
    My heart yearns for the peace that can come from climbing onto God’s lap. I struggle with trusting Him, though, as I think of all the losses, abuse, suffering, abandonment, rejection, betrayal He has allowed in my life. (and I fear I sound ‘pouty’ as I write that…)



  87. amanda on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 3:20 pm

    Fear and worry…specifically for the health and safety of my family.



  88. Lynn B on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 3:22 pm

    currently my dearest is stealing my peace….he knows what buttons to push and how to get under my skin….



  89. RUTHONA WASINGER on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 3:36 pm

    THE THING THAT IS STEALING MY PEACE IS MY HUSBAND’S BAD TEMPER I NEED
    TO GIVE THIS TO GOD AND I NEED TO STOP TRYING TO PLEASE ANYONE EXCEPT GOD, BECAUSE I REALLY STRUGGLE WITH THAT. AND IT REALLY STRESSES ME OUT!!!!!



  90. Lee Roberts on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:12 pm

    What steals my peace is when my ego and pride get in the way of my relationship with God and with my husband. Ego means edging God out. I don’t want to edge God out of my relationships. When He is in the center of my life and my relationships only then can I find true peace.



  91. Liz H on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:16 pm

    Thanks for your post today-I have lots of areas of stress right now trying to steal away my peace. God has begun to show me though that most of my stress lies in the fact that I try to carry the burdens myself instead of relying on HIM and HIS strength. I’ve been praying and will continue to pray that he will help me to leave stressful matters to him and instead focus on claiming the peace that is present regardless of our circumstances.

    Philippians 4:6 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests before God, and the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”



    • Kim W. on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 4:44 pm

      Amen!



  92. kimmy on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:31 pm

    What I ALLOW to steal His peace are the thoughts of my husband being unfaithful again. Although divorced, I have chosen to not just forgive him but to learn to trust him again and reconcile. There are no rules for your heart to follow in regards to learning to trust. I feel physically ill when I entertain the thoughts of “Where is he? What is he looking at? Who is he flirting with?” Turning my thoughts over to God and asking for help is the only way I can make it through days without experiencing major anxiety. Most days are better than others. If I allow my anxious thoughts a resting place in my marriage, it only serves to makes each passing moment hopeless. Seeking my Refuge inthe moments that I need a Fortress allows me to put my trust in my God!



  93. Tricia on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:34 pm

    Our family might be moving in the next couple of months and it has robbed my joy. I can only seem to think about how sad I’m going to be about leaving my family behind and I am having a hard time envisioning a joyful life in our new state. I’m trying to trust God with His plans for our family, but I’m struggling. Especially knowing it means we will be moving near someone who I don’t get along well with and need to forgive.



  94. Johanna on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:44 pm

    We are a military family and we move from Japan to the US in a couple of months. What steals my peace are the worries of what is to come in the next season of life and for our family. As we met here and all we’ve known as a couple is here in Japan. So, I get anxious about finding a new church, concerns about my husband’s work environment and the temptations there, concerns about my son’s safety etc. Praying I can trust the Lord, as I’ve done here in our new season in our journey with the Lord!



  95. Deb S. on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:48 pm

    What steals my peace right now is my son’s employment. He has had some setbacks and cannot support his family on his income right now. I have been praying and trusting God that He has a plan for what my son is going through, and praying He will help my son with his frustration and fear as well. It’s funny how I can have peace for my own life but it’s harder when it is my child or grandchildren….. Thanks for your inspiration,
    Deb



  96. Kim on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 4:58 pm

    .What steals my peace is past hurts and my reaction to them and the stresss and disappointment that is residing in my household right now. While I thought I was “dealing” with everything I found I have over eaten and over spent and I am on edge most of the time. Peace is a glorious word. One in which I will pray for and start seeking in God’s word. Thank you for you inspiration and direction.



  97. Kim on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 5:03 pm

    Isaiah 26: 3-4
    You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast because they trust in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord himself, is the Rock eternal.
    This is my memory text this week. Go figure. What steals my peace is my own human desires to find peace in myself or in the circumstances around me. If life is good, I’m at “peace”. But as the text above says peace is given to those whose “mind is steadfast because they trust in you”…..something so hard to do when life can seem like a constant struggle.



  98. Rose-Marie B on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 5:05 pm

    My job, the people I work for and the stress I am currently under. Those things have been stealing my peace. I am in a constant state of turmoil, trying to understand why God has placed me here and if I am meant to stay. I really enjoy helping others and doing what I do, but it puts stress on myself and my family. It is very time consuming and I am constantly working almost 24/7. I feel overwhelmed, frustrated, and angry at the people I work for. I thought they represented something that I wanted to be a part of, only to find out that the founders believe those things and started the company under that concept, however the current owners do not. But I have a feeling the Lord has placed me in this position to be a light to those I serve and work with. However, I am alone, and overwhelmed with all the responsibilities and lack of help. I feel no peace throughout my day and I want to. I have to learn to be more trusting that God will see me through on a daily basis. I want to have peace in my life, so I can have peace in my marriage, at at home with my children.



  99. Mary Lou Kleveland on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 5:38 pm

    What steals my peace is the stuff of life – the perceived inequalities, unfairness, etc of this sin stained world. I want things to be “okay” and get so discouraged and disappointed when I can’t understand why God has allowed certain things to happen. Instead I need to keep my eyes on Christ and keep a grateful heart.



  100. Tasha on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 5:39 pm

    Stress!!!!



  101. Mrs. Strong on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 5:39 pm

    I think what is stealing my peace in uncertainty about the future. My husband is losing his job in June and we do not know what we are going to do. We cannot pay all the bills on just my salary and we don’t want to move to a different city. We are praying that God will open up a job for him nearby, but know that that may not be God’s plan. Please pray that if that is the case I will have the strength to accept God’s plan where ever he leads our family.



  102. Latisha on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    What’s stealing my peace is clutter and lack of control over maintaining the daily tasks to keep my home the way it should be. I feel that it is a constant struggle to balance all of the demands of life and keep my home straightened up and clutter free.



  103. Carla Williams on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:17 pm

    my husband became disabled last year due to uncontrolled seizures… he wrecked the car and then the police couldn’t tell he wasn’t ok and allowed him to go on and drive home… 30 min later they had to P.I.T. maneuver him on the interstate.. they said he had been going up to 75 mph at one point.. but when they stopped him he was only doing 25mph.. thank God… but I could have lost him… immediately we lost his income and I had to go to work.. I get 25 hr a week at $7.25 and you can’t believe how many times God has sent friends with cash to help us get through… stress? it’s been a way of life for the last 10 months… we just got the second denial on his application for disability.. it’s horrible the way they make you feel… we had no internet or satellite… and suddenly this man who has for 40 years gotten up and showered and gone to work had nothing to do but sit around the house.. he has learned to do laundry, dishes and run the sweeper.. but he feels totally useless most of the time.. I pray daily that we will get the disability and right now I am waiting for the needs based cell phone so I have a phone to even call an attorney to get an appointment to go see about getting help with the claim… it’s just one stressful thing after another…. when we got our tax refund we had to use almost $1000 of it to pay past due light bills or they were going to turn them off… it was 30* the night they would have turned off the power…. when does it end? if God wanted me to lean on him harder and to be closer to him, I guarantee you this has worked… *sigh*



  104. Barbara P. on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:18 pm

    Our debts, particularly our mortgage. I feel like I can’t overcome our financial hurdles no matter what I do. Feels like I’m drowning in slow motion… It’s always in the back of my mind no matter what I’m doing, and I can’t enjoy myself or find peace.



  105. Shelly on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:23 pm

    I think the thing that steals my peace is my feelings of inadequacy both as a mom. I have two very young children that have both been diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of Autism. It’s hard on me that I sometimes can’t communicate with my kids. I want to make sure they are given every chance to grow and develop in the ways of God, but I wonder if I am facilitating that growth or not. I know they are still very young, but I want them to know they are loved and secure, and that no matter what I am here for them. It becomes stressful when people say some very hateful things about my kids or they tell me how bad of a mother I am because I spoil my kids and they don’t realize that my kids have Asperger’s. I just feel like it’s not enough to be with them as much as possible and read to them, color with them, play games with them, etc.



  106. Darnelle Jacobson on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:25 pm

    Feeling overwhelmed by the good and bad changes in my life. Suffering from SAD. Feeling stressed about new job requirements and getting them completed. It’s hard to find the time to read and study for a certification and being a single mom. Trying to find strength in knowing that just 10 years ago I worked full time and went to school full time, I can do this bit it’s hard to believe it.
    Then after taking care of everyone else I really wish to make the time each day to dedicate to my devotions. I have a huge need for becoming closer to God.



  107. Sue-Ellen on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:31 pm

    Got a call the other night from my 21yo son letting me know that his girlfriend was 7 weeks pregnant. They both live in a group home for adults (him for bipolar and anger issues due to the first 7 years of his life until the Lord brought him to us, and her, I am not sure what for) and cannot stay there for very much longer because no children are allowed in the home.. so we have asked them to come and live with us…. I know that God is working through this all, but at night when I lay down and try to sleep satan just starts listing all of the things that could go wrong and all of the what ifs, and how are we going to afford 3 more mouths to feed granted the baby won’t eat much, but I have seen my son eat.. Yikes… I know that the Lord will bring us wonderful things through this, but it is also going to be quite a struggle, as it will be like me taking in 3 more kids..I keep clinging to “Be still and know that I am God”.. it has gotten me through every difficult time in my life and I am sure will get me through this one…

    BTW – Just found your blog and am soooooo glad I did, God is so amazing how he leads us to exactly where we need to be in His perfect timing..



  108. Kathy on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:35 pm

    Satan, our enemy, knows our weakest link and will attack us when our guard is down. if we do not abide in the vine (Jesus), we are cut off from the source of life. I find when I am focused on my needs, this brings discord and lack of peace. The only way to find true peace is to die to self setting our spirit free to enjoy the person of Christ who dwells within.



  109. Christine on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 6:43 pm

    WORK



  110. Lindy Lou on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    I am what has stolen my peace. My over thinking and worries, my “what if” thinking. I continue to pray for strength and guidance in this thinking. I do feel peace when I draw closer to God and when I completely give him my problems and trust that he loves me. This is not always easy to hold and maintain during my days. Thank you God for your never ending love and continuous Grace.



  111. Laura Holland on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    I struggle daily being a single mom and trying to handle (or control) everything.



  112. Dodie High on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:19 pm

    Financial bondage – not able to bless others in the way I would like to.



  113. Melissa on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    I am a single mom. Satan is working through my ex. I am exhausted.



  114. Linda Thomas on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 7:57 pm

    Living an extremely busy lifestyle has a tendency to steal my peace. When those hectic moments occur I want to commit to grabbing them quickly and turning the rest of the day over to God. He is the ultimate peacemaker in my heart.



  115. Ruth R on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:34 pm

    I get caught up in the business of life, work, kids, etc. It’s so easy loose my focus on Jesus and quickly start sliding down that slippery slope towards worry and anxiety which leads to fear.



  116. Mandyjo on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 8:51 pm

    Feeling like I am inadequate and not doing the right things in life



  117. whit on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:28 pm

    Anxiety, fear and worry on a daily basis. I cannot handle on my own. I try to give God the control.



  118. Sheila on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:29 pm

    Uncertainty is stealing my peace. A year ago this month, I came home from work and picking up my son to find an empty house. There was a short note saying he was unhappy and it was over. He moved 13 hours away and we have only saw him for two days time in the past year. He never calls and does not communicate hardly any. I am torn. My so misses him and so do I. I have been goi.g thru this challenge each day and feel stronger. I have come much closer to my savior in the past year, but it seems to be getting harder and harder. I cannot bring myself to file for divorce. I feel the only reason he hasent, is due to not having the money for a lawyer. I have sent him text telling him how much he is loved and missed. Nothing seems to get thru to him. I know all things are possible with God!! I know that HE is almighty and the master healer. My husband needs healing from things in the past and depression. I pray that HE helps me find my peace (His peace).I pray for strength to persevereand make decisions based on His will.



  119. Heather on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:37 pm

    Unforseen prolonged health issues are my main stress right now.



  120. Cindy on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:42 pm

    My husband’s drinking and the hopeless feeling I have made a mistake that can never be corrected. I pray to God for wisdom on how to deal with my husband as well as pray FOR my husband.



  121. Kimberly on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:43 pm

    I love this question because I had to really think about it to give an honest answer. What is stealing my peace? Brace yourself, it’s not pretty! I am. I fret and worry. I give into temptations and buckle under the pressure of tribulation. I run to people and things instead of Christ. I send messages on facebook, e-mails, and texts instead of practicing solitude and the study of Scripture. I pick up the phone instead of going to my knees in prayer. I forfeit my inheritance for momentary pleasures. I accept defeat over the things that cause me stress instead of allowing the promises of God to rise up under me and give me victory over them. I could go on and on!



  122. Lisa F. on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 9:58 pm

    Worry & wanting control/order



  123. Charity on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 10:29 pm

    Unknown future of my husband’s job and situations I can’t control steal my joy.



  124. Mary T on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 at 11:19 pm

    Although I have found the time each night to rest in the peace that only Jesus can give, I struggle to maintain that peace throughout the days…it is the busyness of the day that gradually wears me down and steals it away unless I can keep my eyes on Him…I pray for the strength only He can give…but sometimes get caught up in the chaos of life…can’t wait to begin the Bible study 🙂



  125. debbie on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 4:16 am

    Dear Tracie and sisters whereever you are!Thank you so much for your blog and comments.I only discovered it the day before yesterday,so I am now working through day 2 and trying to catch up 🙂 but I am so thankfull!Th e past weeks I was totally discouraged and ready to give up in a way.But this blog came to me as a present in the way you experienced it Tracie in the car-wash! Many frustrations,feelings and experiences I read about are so recognisable to me and that gives me hope,waw,I’m not the only one struggling with this.
    So I’ve started to pray for my husband and children in a new way and shaking the habit of neutrality off and exercising the habit of positive comments.Hope is rising in my heart!Thank you all.



  126. Sara on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 5:25 am

    Fear and worry of the unknown and trying to wear too many hats at the same time-mother, wife, business owner, housekeeper, chef, and so many more. In addition to all this, family relationships are strained and take everything out of me. I’m learning to give EVERYTHING over to God, not just the few areas I feel like letting go of…all of it.



  127. Joan E on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 6:29 am

    I think what steals my peace the most, is my lack of depending upon God. When I try to tackle problems or issues my own way… Never peace. I think I forget to turn to God. That is why I need to make it a point to spend time with Him everyday.. So I don’t forget to turn to Him.



  128. Ashlee on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 9:35 am

    What steals my peace…..hectic schedules when I usually forget to do something when I was supposed to because things are so hectic, and financial status. I am better on the subject of finances….I used to get really worked up, stressed and worried when we couldn’t pay the bill on time. I have learned through the years that God always comes through and there is always an opening at the end of the tunnel. The part that I still struggle with is not being able to contribute to our church, charities, etc the way I would like. I pray that God will continue to work with me and inside me on this and all of you!!



  129. Jennifer L on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 10:45 am

    I think the biggest thing that steals my piece is that I can’t get it all done at work and home but I expect that I should be able to because it seems that other mothers and women do.



  130. Kim W. on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 4:50 pm

    My peace is stolen by the negative thoughts that constantly try to dominate my mind. As I continue to try to be obedient to God in dealing with a separation from my husband for the past 2 years, I get overwhelmed by negative thoughts and emotions.
    I recite this verse when asking God for His help and intervention in dealing with these negative thoughts:

    We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.
    ~ II Corinthians 10:5 NIV84



  131. Danielle on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at 9:05 pm

    Stress of daily living



  132. Emily S on Thursday, March 28, 2013 at 12:23 am

    The world-I get sucked in at times, especially when it comes to how I act in my marriage.



  133. Danna on Thursday, March 28, 2013 at 9:32 am

    Finances and loss of loved one . My finances are so bad I am relying on food banks to feed myself and my husband. Then my mother passed away over valentines and my siblings are not getting alone well. I am constantly worried and depressed.



  134. Jacquie on Thursday, March 28, 2013 at 10:16 am

    Worrying about my sons salvation and other daily difficulties are stealing my peace.



Headshot Flipped 2

Tracie Miles is a bestselling author and the Director of COMPEL Training with Proverbs 31 Ministries.  She helps women grow stronger in their faith, pursue the life of purpose God designed them for and live a life of peace, joy and happiness despite their circumstances.

Living-Unbroken-3DwithShadow

Available Now!

Subscribe to Tracie’s Blog

Receive the Living Unbroken Battle Plan Workbook for free if you subscribe to Tracie’s blog today!
Something went wrong. Please check your entries and try again.

Tracie's Books