Stress-Less Summer Survival Series Kickoff & $60 Giveaway!

If you are visiting my blog from today’s Proverbs 31 devotion, then welcome! I am so excited you have decided to join me in this summer survival series, especially since summer usually brings on a whole new level of stress for all of us!

Unlike some, I LOVE summer. In fact, I usually begin counting down the days to summer immediately after taking down my Christmas decorations. Once the holidays are over, summer never seems to come quickly enough for this Carolina gir..

If I could live at the beach, maybe even actually ON the beach, I probably would. The sound of the waves, the fragrant salty air and the warmth of sun just soothe my soul. And it’s a great place to talk to God.

I love sweet watermelon, laying out in the sun, going crabbing at the beach and cooking ’em up later in a big pot of water with Old Bay Seasoning. I adore the smell of outdoor BBQ’s, coconut sunscreen and the aroma of my blooming gardenia bushes. And I especially love that the kids are out of school – which means no early mornings, no car rider lines, no homework, no demanding schedules and no school drama.

It all seems so sweet and serene in my mind in the months leading up to summer … until spring is a mere memory, summer roars in and the novelty of 90 degree days quickly wears off.  The kids are bored and on each other’s nerves (and mine), the humidity makes it hard to breathe, and the mosquitoes far outnumber the fireflies. It’s too hot to relax at the pool or the beach, the car needs more Freon, the babysitter quits, and vacation makes us so tired that we need another vacation – except now we can’t afford it.  Sound familiar?!

There are definitely pros and cons to any season of the year, but even though summer has it’s challenges, there are steps we can take to ensure that we enjoy the summer months, not endure them.

Whether you are a career woman, a working mom, a stay at home mom, single, married, have toddlers, teens, or grandbabies -summertime is not always as carefree as we imagined.  So over the next seven weeks, I’ll be offering some summer survival stress tips in the hopes of helping your summer feel a little less stressed and hopefully more calm and relaxing.

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To kick off this series, as promised in my Proverbs 31 devotion, I am giving away a Stress-Less Summer Gift Bag full of  goodies for the summer! Included in this prize are 2 signed copies of my book Stressed-Less Living (one for you and one for a friend!), a bottle of 30 SPF Coppertone sunscreen, a 30 SPF Coppertone sunscreen stick, four outdoor votive candles holders, a festive cup, a beach ball, a beach towel, and some sparklers to light up on hot summer evenings with the kids!

giveawayTo enter to win the summer gift basket, leave a comment stating what it is about summer that stresses you out the most!  

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447 Comments

  1. Karen Stewart on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:11 am

    The most stressful part for me is finding activities that will keep my 12 year old daughter occupied during the day while I am at work. She is old enough to stay home, she just needs to keep busy so I try to come up with stuff that she can do to keep her busy mind occupied….and be productive at the same time.



  2. Tanja on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:11 am

    Getting all the projects done that I’ve been saving for the summer “when I have more time”–and trying to slow down and savor the days so it doesn’t whizz by!



  3. Janet Axelson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:12 am

    I’m unemployed this summer, so me and 3 girls are stuck in the house together…I’m taking an on-line class, My oldest is taking a summer class at UNCW, and my middle one is finishing a high-school class…So, fights over the computer, net-flix and the showers are common….sigh….



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:47 am

      I think every mom of teen girls is sharing in your heavy sigh. Been there – done that – still doing that!



  4. Sandy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:12 am

    I have elementary aged kids and because they don’t have to get ready for school everyday, they can poke around and be difficult to get out the door. Yesterday everyone was awake early enough, but actually getting dressed and out the door for church was so stressful. The kids just wanted to play around. I found myself losing my patience and yelling , and yes, we were even late for church. Tracie, your devo this morning was very timely and I appreciate your words of encouragement. I’d love to win the giveaway!



  5. Kelly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:16 am

    The lack of a schedule and routine stress me out. With 2 small children I need them to be on a schedule so I can get things done and feel accomplished.



  6. Linda on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:17 am

    My biggest stressor is feeling like its my responsibility to make sure everyone else is enjoying their time and having a great summer……..my ‘people pleasing tendancies keep me bound up in trying to keep everyone occupied and happy, and getting myself tied up in knots trying to accomplish this! I’m looking forward to reading your book and learning some strategies to help me get free from this a, thanks for the chance to win 🙂



  7. Sarah Asby on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:19 am

    What is hardest for me in the summer is just days and days of scheduling all about the kids. And also balancing two very different children; one wants to stay home and never go to the pool. The other lives to be out and about, and loves the pool. So there’s always an argument and dissatisfaction about what’s happening that day.



  8. Dianna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:21 am

    The biggest stressors in my house are those that people that have children with special needs face. I have a child with cerebral palsy and medical needs. I stress about being able to care for his needs and his little sister who is typically developing. I stress about not worrying about tomorrow. I stress about this all year long. I am greatful for the summer time when we can try to do stuff as a family because both kids are out of school. I stress about when our nurses go on vacation and if I can have the strength and energy I need for my family. I pray through all of these to the God that is greater than all



  9. Denise on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:22 am

    Stress seems to follow me all year. . . . . .we homeschool & our girls really need to do Math/Algebra during the summer too. . . . . keeping a balance of school work & letting them enjoy the summer can be hard!! Today I started my day plagued with worry. . . . . . off to my Quiet Time with Jesus!!



  10. Julie Hawkins on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:24 am

    I live in a huge city that gets over taken by tourists from March to October. Everyday, commuting becomes a lesson on patience as I wade through the crowds of strollers, school kids, families, etc. I balance a full time job and family like everyone else but sometimes feel like I do have to do it all. I give to God a lot of my worries, which needs to be a daily exercise in faith.



  11. Denise on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:32 am

    I work and the kids go to the same daycare they’ve gone to since they were little, so summer is actually a bit better than the school year because our schedule is more relaxed. They do lots of fun activities at the daycare that the kids enjoy, and they get to see kids that go to different schools now. The thing that stresses me out in summer is the west Texas heat. The heat just sucks my energy some days.



  12. Elizabeth Ledford on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:34 am

    My husband is a teacher and coach and I work for The Fellowship of Christian Athletes and also coach. Summers are great, but ours include running sports camps or tournaments all summer long. It is physically exhausting sometimes, and I stress about having enough time and energy for my 2 kids (8 & 10). This holiday week is great, because there are no camps, just catching up on office work and having family time! Thanks for the blog and chance to win the basket.



  13. Lindsey on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:34 am

    Trying to fill everyday so they aren’t bored and I’m not letting them waste away with movies stresses me out! I’m coming to realize that I can’t fill every minute and enjoy summer, so this week we’re taking a break and just being footloose and fancy free….hopefully. It stresses me out too that I can’t afford to take them places and do all the things they see their friends doing, though I’m trying to impress upon them that we have a family that loves each other and that’s more than some of those kids have. I’m blogging today about my own quest to find more margin this summer, and I’ll be linking back to your series. thanks so much for the encouragement that I’m not alone!



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:50 am

      Its so hard to fill time – my son is fighting an addiction to Playstation and its my job to tear him away from it at times. I feel guilty for letting him play on it so long, but then feel guilty if he doesnt really have anything else to do! I think our kids just need to learn that reading a book or watching a little tv, or taking a walk, can be a good thing. Need to get to back to the good ol days. 🙂



  14. Laurie Kiefer on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:38 am

    My daughter turned 13 y/o this winter, I am finding the teenage years are more stressful then the toddler days. I remember friends telling me that many years ago but until your in it it is hard to understand. Thank you for your devotional. I want to take time and enjoy each season with my kids.



  15. Tammie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:39 am

    Summer is the most stressful time of the year for my job! I just completed the online Bible study for Stressed Less Living. My quiet time with Jesus each morning has helped me find the peace I have needed to make it through my busy days!



  16. Angie P on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:41 am

    With four children at home it can be very hard to keep them entertained. If we stay at home inside too much they end up fighting and i end up yelling…I guess my biggest stressor is finding enough things to keep them from being bored and not to break the bank! Camps are great, but can be pricey… Thankfully my in-laws have a pool, so a lot of days we spend time there.



  17. Suzanne on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:42 am

    Keeping my daughter occupied during the summer and not stay on her phone constantly!! As she get older the more stress I feel!! The teen age years tend to be tougher than I thought with a girl — I don’t remember my son being this hard! Thank you for providing your devotional and series to help me focus on a stress free summer!!



  18. taimie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:42 am

    The stress if summer is allthe driving to and from camps for our 4 children. Some of tbese camps are 5 hrs away. But in the end it is all eorth it because they going to all the camps



  19. Krista on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:42 am

    Summer means a more difficult time lining up a babysitter for my kids since they are out of school. Praying for peace, patience, and lining up the right priorities with my kids!



  20. Kelly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:43 am

    Summer heat and lack of routine now that I’m not working has been a big stress for me. I love now being a stay at home mom, but need to stop stressing and enjoy this season.



  21. Helen on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:44 am

    I actually think I felt less stess when I was a stay at home mom. Although the schedule was filled with swim practice and meets, the remaining times allowed for kicking back and relaxing and doing whatever we wanted. Now that my kids grown (one out of college, one in college) and I am working it seems that summer is a flash before my eyes. Everyone is living at home this summer and having 4 adults in the house is a challenge. On top of that, we’lll have someone else living with us for the next 2 months (and we don’t have a guest room). So I’m feeling stressed out that the little “me” time I had planned for (to catch up on reading, exercising) has gone out the window. When I was a kid, July 4th was the unofficial middle of the summer. Now, it’s a “where has the time gone” feeling. Ok, now i need to go take 3 deep breaths so I can start my day.



  22. Nickole on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:49 am

    Taking all four kids (2-10yrs) with me to the grocery store…and sticking to our list!



    • Lacy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:12 am

      I AGREE!!! 🙂



  23. Kim on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:53 am

    Finding inexpensive ways to keep two preteen kids busy during the summer so they don’t argue and pick on each other too much.



  24. Christine on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:55 am

    Demands from work increase this time of year, and I work from home, so having three kids home for the summer, one with special needs no doubt, is stresssssful! I find myself muttering a part of my favorite bible verse from Lamentations…”great is Thy faithfulness…”



  25. Stacy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:56 am

    As always, Tracie and God, perfectly timed. Thank you, God, for your wisdom being shared and thank you, Tracie, for your obedience.



  26. Kathy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:58 am

    The one thing that stresses me out most is the kids arguing!
    Thank you for this wonderful blog post!
    Kathy



  27. Heidi on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:58 am

    I am a teacher and while some think we just lounge all summer by the pool, I do not. To continue to be a “cutting edge” teacher, I attend several conferences during the summer. No, I do not HAVE to do this, but our teaching jobs are becoming more competive and since teaching contracts are yearly now, you want to make yourself “look good” with the training you continue to take so that your job is secure. Funny in a society these days that it does not matter to some that I have been teaching for 28 years….but I have to keep up with all the new technology being used in the classroom these days too! This makes it very hard on me to be away from home. Then, there are the difficulties that come with my children getting older and being responsible to their jobs. Those summer family vacations at the beach where we are all together and can reconnect are fading. I am dealing with this better than my hubbie this year but it is still difficult. He is really having a hard time knowing that his fishing buddies are not going to be there this year–a void that I cannot fill even though I fish too–and this is causing a lot of stressful phone conversations between him and our kids. I remind them that they are growing up and it is time to let go, he growls at me! Yes there is plenty of stressthis year at our home! Aging parents with health issues get stirred into this mix, too. I am ready for that “Calgon, take me away” soak in the tub! Thank you for the devotion today…..it hit home with my heart!



  28. Jenny on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:01 am

    I would love to just say “ditto” to your blog post, but I know that won’t do. :). For me, the biggest stress during summer is my lack of quiet time with God, the season I feel the biggest disconnect from him! And because of that, everything else seems so hard to deal with. The sibling rivalry’s, the messy (no TRASHED) house, the complaining…oh the complaining!!! And why is it that for me, summer can bring on the deepest blues?? It’s summer, after all! But when I do allow myself that quiet time with God (and thank goodness He never leaves my side) I get that shot of energy, that load lifted off my shoulders, that “I can do this” attitude. Until the next round of rivalry, complaining, laundry, messy rooms……..



  29. Cheryl P on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:01 am

    My almost 16 yr. old will be getting his license in August. I am very anxious and worried for him. He is already wanting to be on the go all the time. All I hear is, “If I already had my license, I would be gone to ____________”. The list is endless. Please pray for me and my husband as we face the unknown with our son venturing out and we lose more and more of our control. I pray that the Christian values and morals we have instilled in him will rise to the surface as he is faced with a little more freedom.



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:45 am

      Cheryl – your comment made me chuckle. My daughters, ages 16 and 19, both said that phrase at least 227 times each before they got their license. We just kept reminding them that their license wasnt a ticket to freedom, it was a ticket to drive, and that they would still be required to follow rules, curfews, and keep us posted on their whereabouts. So I understand your concerns and have learned that we can still have control, just in a different way and our children know that when boundaries are crossed – keys are taken. 🙂



  30. Kim Parker on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:02 am

    At the beginning of summer I am thrilled to be free of a “schedule”! But the lazy days of summer soon make me feel lazy and like I need to be getting something done and not wasting time!! Then my daughter says “can we go to the pool?” And I feel torn. Then the stress kicks in!



  31. Halona Luna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:03 am

    A lot of things seem to stress me out but mostly it is my health problems.



  32. Heidi J on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:04 am

    All Stars Baseball: not being able to plan ahead; 110 degree heat for a week and broken AC (but that’s better than stressing over cost of electric bill with AC running)

    Not having enough time to “enjoy the dog days if summer”



  33. Kim on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:05 am

    Finding balance & remembering that my “To Do” list will always be there, but my kids are growing way too fast!!



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:53 am

      So true Kim! I cant believe how old my kids are now and it seems like yesterday they were little and we were all going to the park playground. So enjoy it while you can!



  34. Beth on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:05 am

    Can’t begin to tell you how much I needed to read this! I am a teacher and you would think that summer is rest and relaxation…but as you stated it is not. My family is getting ready for vacation with in laws and the stress is higher than ever. Between the kids bickering back and forth and bored since one week out of school, some days are worse than others. There are times that I wonder where the lazy summer days have gone…would love to spend time on the beach just relaxing….Thank you for your message…can’t wait to see what’s next 🙂



  35. Denise on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:06 am

    Ahh Summer! It seems I’m always stressed to make the most of it. Each year I envision stress free days by the pool and dinner on the grill. My expectations often bump into reality hard. But this summer I’m determined for rest and renewal for us all. God willing of course..



  36. Amie Gardner on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:07 am

    I love the no school part of summer. But my kids have things they want to do every day. And while they are fun things, it is still planning it all in. School got out late this year and starts early this year so summer is even shorter than normal. I just want to enjoy these fleeting days and it seems like it goes too fast. And I am not a huge fan of the bugs. 🙂



  37. Lacy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:08 am

    Lack of routine. I feel that I end up wasting time all day long. My house is a total mess as the kids are here to help keep it that way. At least when they are at school there is less opportunity to pull out EVERY toy they own. I feel guilty if we are out all day at the pool or beach because the house is a wreck….but then if I stay home to clean, I feel guilty because the kids are crying they are bored all day.



  38. Kristin on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:09 am

    My biggest stressor is felt when the kids (5yo boy and 8yo boy) fight with each other. Trying to find ways to help them handle disappointment and anger well is tough. That, and for the first time (I know, I should be rejoicing instead of complaining) they have started tattling on each other.

    One other stressor is keeping the house clean!



  39. SandyN on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:10 am

    The most stressful part of summer for me is trying to keep my 2 kids, 12 & 14, busy. They are often complaining that they’re bored, and I know it’s not my responsibility to keep them entertained, but I like to find fun things for them to do throughout the summer. Either that, or I can find them some chores to do! 😉



  40. Rebecca Ann on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:11 am

    The summer seems almost more busy than the school year for me! It’s great that my kids are involved in summer activities but sometimes I feel like a taxi driver and that makes me a bit stressed.



  41. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:12 am

    I always feel like we need to plan some type of getaway as a family, but we never seem to have the time or money to do so.



  42. Lindsey on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:16 am

    My husband is a factory worker and during the summer is when he gets overtime. Since I stay at home with our toddler and baby, we need the extra money. Since he is at work a lot, there isn’t a lot of family time.



  43. Tricia on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:16 am

    This sounds silly, but the thing that stresses me out is trying to fit WAY too many activities & trips into the summer. I work at a school so summer is super laid back, but then you have to plan for the next year while trying to de-stress from the school year. Personally, there’s all of this pressure to see everyone & do everything during the summer that you can’t do during the school year. And I don’t even have kids – it’s just me, my husband & 2 dogs!



  44. kristin on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:17 am

    The feeling that I need to schedule fun activities for every day.



  45. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:17 am

    For me, it’s the lack of structure. I have toddlers and we are usually busy with activities all week, but not so much in the summer. I feel guilty (stressed) if I don’t take them outside all day but sometimes it’s too uncomfortably hot and buggy, and applying sunblock and insect repellant seems like such a chore.



  46. Kelley Brown on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:19 am

    In the summers I get stressed that I am running out of time with my kids. I let silly things get in the way of really loving the time I have with them. Before I know it we won’t have this time and I really want to take advantage of every minute.



  47. Susan Hyman on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:19 am

    I work full time from home so summer can add a ton of stress to my day with the kids being around.



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:58 am

      I totally understand that Susan! I work from home too, and one of my problems is that when the kids ask me to go shopping, or to a movie, or the pool, I want to go! Then I get behind and stay up late getting caught up. But Ive decided burning that midnight oil sometimes is worth the special times spent with my kids. But it is always a balancing act.



  48. Debbie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:20 am

    Like you I love summer and think about it after Christmas. I substitute teach special needs. Now school is out and I can clean and swim and relax and read and also enjoy being part of Bible study like this without being the leader or teacher. I LOVE summer.



  49. Lindsey Parker on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:20 am

    What stresses me the most about summer is trying to plan fun activities for my kids. Hanging out around the house only lasts so long for my 8 year old daughter and 5 year old son. We have our pool days, so that is the easiest to plan since we have a pool membership and the pool is just a 5 minute drive. I don’t always like to take the kids out somewhere, since that can get expensive, so I try to keep up to date on the latest community events, such as Vacation Bible Schools and special events at our local library. Planning fun activities that both my kids will enjoy is a bit of a challenge as well. It seems inevitable that one activity will be more suited to one child rather than both.



  50. Crystal Langford on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:21 am

    During summers I go from a stay at home mom of three to four with the addition of my stepson. Money is always tight and trying to find ways to enjoy the summer and make memories on such a budget gets me down.



  51. Michele Vandiford on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:26 am

    The thing that stresses me out during summer is the fact that I work from home and don’t accrue enough time off to take a “real” vacation. I can hear the ocean calling for me, and it’s frustrating to just do an occasional day trip. I want to share my love for the ocean with my girls and relax and stay awhile instead of being rushed.



  52. Regina on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:27 am

    I love summer because you are able to sleep in and relax a little more, however, I am a structured person so not having a normal schedule day in and day out can get a little mind blowing. Between sport practices, camps, running back and forth to sleep overs, running to the pool day in and day out, etc., I feel like I am running just as much during the summer as I do during the school year. I also find summer time to be costly. You are doing more activities that require paying for this and that so I feel like I am spending more than I like. Camps are not cheap and then if your children go with friends to the pool, amusement parks, movies, etc., it seems like you are constantly handing money out. No matter what I face in life, everyday is truly a blessing from above so I savor every moment because we are not guaranteed tomorrow. God bless you!



  53. Jacqueline West on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:27 am

    We always have these great ideas planned out for summer. But the kids activities consume our days. Running here & there, we don’t seem to find the time to do the things we want to do. We make a summer bucket list & find myself getting disappointed as the days fly by that we will not even do half the things listed.
    Daily household chores double: more laundry (mostly beach towels). More cooking, dishes & kitchen clean up because of all the extra kids. Husband works longer hours so grass cutting gets added to the chore list. Just not enough hours in the day for our summer bucket list. And certainly no time for sitting on the porch taking it easy.



  54. Kristin F on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:29 am

    I am thankful that our busy school year schedule is on hold for a while, and we have more time for ourselves and each other. I struggle with the lack of structure, and striking the balance between helping my kids avoid total boredom and resisting the urge to entertain them everyday. Having a morning routine that they follow, and a white board with the tasks involved so that they can check them off, has really helped us get those everyday tasks out of the way first thing so that we can enjoy our day. My 8 year old is doing hers right now, so I am able to finish my morning time with God 🙂



  55. Rebecca on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:32 am

    I am most stressed by the times that I don’t make my mornings moments with God a top priority. The glaring schedule for the day steals my attention and focusing on the summer events whisks away my peace. There is a lot going on this summer and the temptation to shove aside my morning devotions is great at times…but I know this is the devils way of making sure my soul is not hydrated….and I can feel the effects every day when I don’t take the proper time to replenish!



  56. Pam Stone on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:32 am

    I teach Kindergarten so the non-summer months are filled from morning til night with school work. When summer comes I have the overwhelming feeling that I need to take care of all of the things I’ve neglected for ten months. The days start to wiz by and I start to fill with dread that I’ll never have time to catch my breath and relax just a bit before starting the next school year whirl wind!



  57. Amy Crisp on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:32 am

    I love summer!! I do get stressed out, though, with the sibling rivalry that rears its ugly head when we’re all in the house together more than usual. I do my best to keep them busy and cooperative but each summer it’s inevitable that they will argue with one another…I usually send them outside and that helps!



  58. Courtney on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:33 am

    One of the biggest stressors over the summer is keeping my two kids from fighting constantly. I spend so much time trying to keep them busy and active (one child is ADHD) that I end up exhausted and stressed out. I am looking forward to reading this book.



  59. Debbie Morrow on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:36 am

    This year summer is just adding to my stress! This year I am attempting to balance my time between my husband in a nursing home (brain cancer and stroke), working fulltime, being a new grandma to a precious granddaughter who lives 3.5 hrs away, maintaining a home and hopefully maintaining our vacation home in the mountains of PA! Whew! With all of that it’s no wonder that I’m stressed – but keeping it all under control takes alot of work! I’m finding that I’m misplacing important medical documents that need to go to the nursing home or feeling terribly guilty if I don’t visit my hubby everyday or every other day. Thankfully, my son lives at home and helps me so much but he is 24 and needs to have a “life” also..so he’s not always around to absorb some of the workload. I am blessed with so much and pray daily for strength to continue but the pace is very wearing. Any help with lowering the stress is welcomed! Thank you!



  60. Christy G on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:41 am

    What stresses me out the most at Summer Time is working full time and not getting to spend more time with my kids. They have to sit in Daycare all day while I work and I feel very guilty about it.



  61. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:43 am

    So much to do, so little time!



  62. jenn on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:44 am

    I have a 2 & almost 5 year old & try to get out of the house regularly with them because rhe more time spent indoors the more rhey seem to fight & i end up being the refere. So rainy days or super hot & muggy days stress me out.



  63. Trudy Hampton on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:45 am

    What stresses me most about summertime is that even though my husbands work schedule does not change everyone else’s in the family does! I am a part time nurses and full time mom and my schedule is expected to work around everyone else’s. Sometimes it would be nice to have a “normal” schedule. The one who is away at college suddenly returns and wants to be treated like an adult even though we have a lot of growing up to still learn ( suddenly having to do chores again is a battle). The others want to be constantly entertained. And then add camps, VBS,sports conditioning and maybe of we are lucky we can fit in a small family get away( once again stress in packing and organizing this adventure!). I would love to just be able to take some mom time that did not interfere with all the summertime activites we can get ourselves committed too. Oh summertime how I DO love you even with all the craziness that ensues!! Just help me enjoy it a bit more!
    🙂



  64. kari s on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:45 am

    What stresses me about Summer time is my kids want to go and do things and they don’t understand or refuse to understand that we do not have funding for these things. They then walk around the house saying they are bored. I give them ideas and they of course say that that is not going and doing something.



  65. Emily on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:45 am

    I’m always trying to cram in too…. much to meet all my summer expectations and then I get stressed because I find I have no time to do the simple things, like clean the house or just relax.



  66. Kara Marziali on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:47 am

    What it is about summer that stresses you out the most?

    Worrying about the next thing I need to do and not living in the present. Summer is supposed to be relaxing, but I am seldom relaxed. My son, now 15, is out of school, but I have to work. So I am constantly trying to squeeze in a host of fun things to do on the weekends just so I could spend more time with him. I realize that while some of the activities are enjoyable, I am trying to do too much with the precious time God has given me. Spending more time with THE Son may help me appreciate the time with my son in the summer sun. 🙂



  67. Carmella on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:51 am

    I get stressed out with summer bridge activities and summer reading. I try to make sure my kids are prepared for the next grade and keep their minds busy by reading. Sometimes, they have other plans 🙂



  68. Lori on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:53 am

    I get stressed out trying to keep my 4 and 2 1/2 year old engaged while trying to catch up on housework and work



  69. Trisha Harkness on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:53 am

    As a working mom, I get stressed trying to find the balance between fun activities for my two sons and still meeting other obligations like work, housekeeping, etc. In our small community, a lot of activities happen in June but there have been limited activities for the rest of the summer. I’m thrilled that some activities, like summer baseball and some of the Vacation Bible School, are in different months this year. We’re also very blessed to have my mom as our daycare provider so she does lots of fun things with them in the morning before it gets too hot.



  70. Becky on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:53 am

    I find it so stressful planning and preparing for vacation and a week away from work that when I’m actually on vacation it’s kind of a let down because it was not as fun and restful as I had planned. It’s disappointing.



  71. Jeneen Molldrem on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:57 am

    What stresses me out about summer is that without scheduled activities or having friends over, my kids are bored and look to me for something to do that is fun and engaging. I feel like a failure when my suggestions are turned down and my kids are frustrated. For entertainment, they start to pick on each other and I get very weary and sad! I love the freedom of summer and the sunny warm weather, however there is a price!



  72. Alison @ Get Your Pretty On on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:58 am

    Having too much scheduled stresses me out the most. All three of our kids do year-round sports. Our oldest son is also working part time. I feel like the lazy days of summer are something that existed in my childhood but don’t in theirs and it makes me really sad.



  73. Wendy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:59 am

    My most stressful thing is finding good, fun and reliable camps. Because I work I want my kids to have the best of their summer, but commuting and pick up times, etc make it difficult while still maintain my work schedule.



  74. Valerie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:00 am

    The thing about summer that stresses me the most is trying to find daily activities that accommodate all four of my children, ages 11, 8, 3, and 17 months. It can be challenging to adjust activities to account for the widely varied abilities of my children. What keeps the attention of the older two does not work well for the younger two and vice versa. The younger two also demand a lot of my time/attention, which leaves the older two frustrated that I cannot spend more time doing things with them. Most days I feel more stretched than saltwater taffy! I am really looking forward to this series and am hoping to glean some great ideas and suggestions on how to keep things calm and Christ-centered, rather than hectic and filled with cries of “what about ME?!” coming from all of us.



  75. Deborah on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:01 am

    Getting off schedule is stressful for me. I am a creature of habit and when the summer is over and the routine gets back to normal I can take a sigh of relief.



  76. Jennifer Barrett on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:01 am

    I think I posted this is the wrong spot earlier!!

    I am overwhelmed by the continued chaos around me–chaos in our home and schedule. For much of the school, I look to summer break as a chance to start over, with a clean slate so to speak. As my kids get older and more involved in their activities and interests, this dream of a clean slate falls further and further away from me, and I get stuck where I stand because finding peace in this state has become so difficult for me.



  77. Shelley LaDue on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:01 am

    My husband and I run a motorcoach business and I am really blessed to be able to work out of my home………however………that means I also look at the laundry, dishes, dust, and other annoying household duties ALL DAY LONG. Summer always sends a new spin on my schedule as it’s always our busiest time for the motorcoaches to be running as well as almost daily visits from the grandkids who “love to be at grandma and grandpas” when they’re not in school. I have learned to enjoy all of the above with a grateful heart and a calming nature which for me do not always come easy. I have humbly learned to start my day in prayer and thanksgiving to our Lord Jesus Christ and then I dig in to the rest of the day. It just seems that giving it to “Him” first takes the pressure off of me to be SUPERWOMAN….and I can enjoy my day and be thankful that I actually have one more to spend here on this earth trying to make a difference in the lives of those we touch daily.



  78. Lyndsey Barnard on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:02 am

    What stresses me about summer is the lack of routine. I have my own business and work from home. Because of our lack of routine, it’s hard to find time to work on my business like I should. I feel as if I’m neglecting the family if I do work. It’s a constant struggle between work vs. family!!!



  79. Emily on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:02 am

    What stresses me most about summer is when my toddler is begging me to go play outside and its 100+ degrees. I just had a baby this past March and still struggling to balance the demands of 2 kids, so I’m more stressed in general.



  80. Cassondra on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:03 am

    The constant bickering of my children stresses me out every summer. The first few days after school is out are always the worst. They seem to argue most then. I think it’s because they are not used to so much “together” time. Convincing them to try new actitivities (other than video games) is also a challenge!



  81. BethA on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:05 am

    All the household projects I want to get done. They never seem to happen because of our relaxed schedule!



  82. Kathie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:08 am

    I have two teenage children,, neither of which can drive. So I am constantly pulled to drive one here, drive one there, pick up a friend, take them somewhere. From the minute they wake up it begins. Yes, I do say no quite often. It feels as if there is no peace in my day, that’s why I truly appreciated Tracie’s devotion this morning.



  83. Melissa S. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:09 am

    I LOVE summer. But after about 2 weeks I begin to stress out trying to find things to keep me and my daughter (11) entertained without breaking the bank!



  84. Kristina on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:09 am

    What stresses.me most about summer is keeping the kids busy and not bored while at the same time trying to get stuff done (housework, planning for church, errands, etc.). I love spending time with my boys and I like the break from all the school stuff, sometimes it’s just hard not having a break and not having the routine. If only we could just live at the beach for the summer;)



  85. Lydia on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:09 am

    What stresses me is running from event to event. I prefer relaxing on the back porch watching the kids play in the yard. I am really stressing now with so much rain in NC that the kids are stuck inside!



  86. Paige on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:10 am

    What stresses this working-outside-the-home mom the most is trying to make the summer fun for my kids. They are stuck going to daycare most days and I feel guilty because we can’t afford and don’t have the transportation means to allow the kids to attend all the camps and sports etc. Their summer seems very much like their school year except for the fact I don’t have to pack lunches or participate in homework battles (Hallelujah!). But I want their summer to be fun and relaxing for them and its stressful to try and figure out ways for them to participate in things other than daycare. So there is a lot of temptation to fill the weekends with “activities” instead of chilling out in the backyard.



  87. Heather P. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:10 am

    Since my husband and I both work full time, I have to put my children in summer camps. I stress out over the precious time I feel is slipping through my fingers like sand that I could be spending with them if I wasn’t working!!!



  88. Susan S on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:11 am

    What stresses me most about summer? The fact that my son stays home while I’m working all day and knowing that if he had his preference it would be video games and movies all day long. It’s a struggle. I’ve talked with other moms and their boys are the same way but it’s still frustrating!



  89. Alison G. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:11 am

    The most stressful thing for me is to go from high school teacher to mom of a 4 year old. I always feel bad that I don’t have her fun activities everyday but I have to remember she needs to relax just like I do!



  90. Lori on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:12 am

    What stresses me the most about summer is the increase in our expenses – water and electricity. Where I live it very seldom rains and our temps range in the 80’s-100’s. So, to keep our grass, trees, plants, and flowers alive, that means lots of watering. Electricity is self-explanatory. Some days the A/C runs constantly. Now with every stressor there is a blessing – being able to look out at the beauty in our yard and that we have A/C. I still love summer and I look forward to your summer survival stress tips.



  91. Sarah M. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:12 am

    I love that summer means more playing outside for my girls, but with that comes the constant feeling like I have to clean! The girls are in and out all of the time and bring with them toys from outside, or track in sand and dirt, spilling water all of the kitchen floor. It’s a full time job just trying to keep the messes outside!



  92. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:14 am

    Nothing stresses me out more than the fear that I am forgetting something, and nothing makes that happen more than a different plan for each day…the blessing and curse of the summer schedule! Thank goodness for the longer days to get things done and relax a little, too!



  93. Christina Burrell on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:15 am

    Keeping the children entertained all day can sometimes be stressful :-).



  94. Mindy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:15 am

    I think the part of summer that stresses me the most is the lack of a schedule. My small children do much better with a schedule and so do I. I seem to handle my days better when I know that everyone will be taking a nap in an hour or my husband will be home in 2. Unfortunately that doesn’t always work since most days my husband has to work late or the kids fight nap time. I love the beach and swimming but don’t have access to them most of the time. Looking forward to continuing with Tracie after recently completing the online study of Stressed-Less Living!



  95. Jeannine on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:15 am

    I’m stressed most by the fact that I still have to go to work all day and leave the kids home. I feel guilty for not being there, doing the fun summer things that a mom “should” do so the summer is a relaxing time for the kids.



  96. Jen Kimble on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:16 am

    The thing that stresses me out the most would be my children fighting with each other. Bickering, arguing, and being mean to each other is the hardest part. Trying to handle the situations and just show love to each other like Jesus would is what I am trying for. Thanks for your help this Summer!



  97. Kelly L on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:17 am

    The thing that stresses me out the most is my daughter leaving me for half the summer to visit her dad out of state. It has always been a struggle, and I worry about how different she always acts when she comes back from her visits.



  98. April on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:18 am

    There’s a couple things that can stress me out during the summer, one is breaking the set schedule we have during the rest of year, I try to plan and make a routine but its quickly off track most days. Also I’m usually very patient with the noise level but when the 3 get together its just too much for me sometimes!!



  99. Heather on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:18 am

    This summer, my big stressors include moving to a new town, getting my oldest ready for college, and getting my youngest prepared to start a new school in the fall. Also, trying to find a new job closer to the new house. Oh! and did I mention that we have a move out date, but no move in date! LOVELY! I keep relying on the fact that God is in the details and knows where we are headed next. I am trying to enjoy little moments with the girls when I can and find some time to relax and reconnect with my husband. I am thankful this is happening in the summer and not in the middle of a school year!



    • AlwaysAmom on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:23 am

      Heather we cross posted! I should have just said “ditto Heather”
      However, you have the right attitude and perspective. I’m going to try and be more like you. BTW did I mention we HAVE moved out but don’t have a house yet? Thankfully we do have somewhere to live and we are empty nesters so hubby & I are winging it like newlyweds hahaha. I’ll pray for both of us that we are settled soon. Blessings on your move.



  100. AlwaysAmom on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:18 am

    What stresses me out about summer is actually two things but both are related to pressure:
    Pressure to suddenly switch “off” and hurry up & relax while I can.
    Pressure to hurry up and do all the projects that I won’t have time for in the rest of the year.



  101. Bree on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:20 am

    Keeping the kids entertained day after day is my summer stressor!



  102. Beth on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:20 am

    For me, the most stressful thing is the kids not getting along because they are together so much more in the summer. It is also stressful that they get “bored!”



  103. Tammy Placr on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:21 am

    Time flying by is what stresses me out…since I homeschool, planning my school year is a big stressor. I have a high schooler now and I am overwhelmed to say the least…plus, I need to revamp my school room and I haven’t got a clue where to start!!! Calgon, take me away!



  104. Stephanie lutz on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:21 am

    Most stressful for me is having less control of my schedule with the kids around all day.



  105. Kara on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:21 am

    What stresses me out most about summer??? Well…having all 4 kids home all day with my husbands busy travel schedule. All the kids want to play with different friends and different times! Finding the time to really enjoy the days and each other and keep the arguing and “I’m bored” statements to a minimum!!! It’s already July and we only have 2 months of summer vacation left…the school supplies are starting to come out at the stores and I’m not ready to financially buy them or mentally prepare for school just yet! Loved the Prov 31 devotion today…I needed that!!!



  106. Rebecca on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:22 am

    What stresses me out about summer is that, as a FT working mom, I don’t really get one (a summer, that is), but I feel the pressure to provide a “fun summer” to my kids…It’s a difficult balance. I want to enjoy them while THEY have time off and still have to meet work obligations (with a summer schedule that gets even more full in my office).



  107. Melissa Lafferty on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:22 am

    Summertime’s most stressful part is keeping my 14 year old son occupied. He has grass cutting jobs and choirs, but summertime is also about fun. I work full time so I plan dates for him to go to friends and swim and ride bikes. I have a Bible Study set up for him, takes him about 20 minutes a day and an addition reading session to keep him up to speed with school.



  108. Gloria on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:22 am

    The stresses of summer, for me, are at work. It is our busy time and this year, things started earlier than normal, so thoughts of it being even busier overwhelm me. I work in a fairly high stress job anyway and have been trying to lean on the Lord to get me through. I recently applied for a different job thinking it would be good for my family and I to have a less stressful job, but did not get the position and was discouraged. I appreciate the tips and encouragement. 🙂 thank you!



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:19 pm

      Gloria – my former job had so many deadlines in the summer and extensive summer traveling required, so it was always my busiest and most stressful season just like you. I remember wishing that it would be busy at other times during the year rather than summer. But if God has laid it on your heart to change positions, then just keep praying and trusting that the right door will open at just the right time. 🙂



  109. Jennifer on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:24 am

    Not having a schedule is both a blessing and a curse! I am stressed by my boys’ behaviors. Because as it is summer break for them I still must keep up with my daily errands and chores around the house, which becomes a battle every day. I feel exhausted and frustrated with the daily arguing between and with my two active boys.



  110. Monica on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:26 am

    What stresses me out about summer is…..NOTHING 🙂 absolutely nothing! I am a mom of five and a middle school teacher. That is what stresses me out nine months of the year. Summer for our family is a time to hang out, relax, and play and camp together. I feel blessed to have three months “stress free” with my family because I know it will disappear as the back to school slogans begin to appear again in the fall!



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

      Monica you are an exception and role model! 🙂 What a great perspective to have.



  111. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:26 am

    The most stressful thing for me during the summer is helping my girls see that they aren’t the enemy but best friends. Parenting can be the biggest stressor but at the same time the biggest blessing. Trying to show my girls that having a sister is the biggest blessing!



  112. Janine on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:27 am

    Entertaining a 9, 7, 5, and 3yo who never seem to want to all do the same thing at the same time. Someone is always grumpy.



  113. Gina on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:28 am

    In Alaska the summer season is way too short and we tend to live each daylight moment. If course it’s daylight until the wee hours on the longest day if the year. It’s a go go go go time. We love it but it can be pretty exhausting



  114. Courtney on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:30 am

    For me, the thing that stresses me out the most is the heat! In Dallas, we are starting to have triple digit days! I’m also a stay at home wife and mother to a three year old American Bulldog! Normally, I’m soooo excited about the summer because before I got married and move, I lived in Mobile, Alabama and was by the water! Oh, how I miss the water and family! Now, its just my me, the hubster, and the dog. 3 weeks ago I had a hysterectomy and house bound for a while, which is great to take a break from the heat. It’s also a stressful and sad time to look out the window and see all the mom’s with their kids. I’m still grieving the lost that I’ll never have children and this summer will be especially hard to watch all the kids and their parents.



  115. Linda on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:31 am

    As a grandmother, I want to find time for all my grandchildren and yet find time to do projects that I keep saying I will do I the summer!



  116. Venicia Carroll on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:31 am

    I’ve been a stay home mom the last 8 years for my 8 and 14 year old daughters. This summer will be the end if that and possibly the last one I’ll be able to be home since I’ve decided to look for a job to start in the fall.
    I’m certainly blessed to have been home for as long as I have been and part of me is excited to start a new job but I feel a bit of my own self-imposed pressure to make this summer something awesome, something the kids will never forget. We’ve already taken a week long vacation to Florida with my in-laws and my oldest just returned from a mission trip to Trinidad and Tobago. They go back to school at the end of August so we’re staring at nearly two months of not much on our calendar. The thought of no schedule makes me cringe.
    But like everyone else said we’ve been blessed and continue to be blessed daily. That’s what I try to focus on rather than our first world inconveniences.



  117. Cindy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:31 am

    The expectations I put on myself! I always have this great list of summer projects I would like to do and then the humidity comes and I loose motivation, and somehow the money I planned to use for the projects ends up being needed for something else. It may seem small, but I work 10-11 months of the year at a university, and am on-call 24/7 so many things go undone until my summer break.



  118. Allyson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:32 am

    In summers past, it was what to do with my school age son during the summer while school was out. The stress of getting him to and from activities after work (which was 30 minutes away from home) was maddening. I can’t imagine how it would be with multiple children around the same age.

    Now I’m a WAHM with an 11 year old who sleeps all day and a potty training 2 1/2 year old. It’s stressful trying to balance work and home, especially since they are essentially one and the same. With the age gap between my two kids, it’s difficult to find something that will be both age appropriate and fun for both of them. My son loves going to the movies, but his sister isn’t quite old enough to sit through one in the theater. My daughter loves the splash pad at the park, but my son is a little too old for that now. So no matter what I try to find for them to do, one of them is going to be either bored or overwhelmed.



  119. Lisa on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:32 am

    The stressful things about summer for me are that I have 7 kids!! 2 in college, 2 in high school, 1 in middle school, 1 in elementary school and 1 starting kindergarten! Summer is full of whining and complaining. There is such an array of different ages that it is hard to find something to do for every age. The chore list has seemed to go out the door and this OCD mom gets stuck doing everything! my husband and I have been married 6 years so when we got married we had “instant” family. I had 2 kids,he had 4 and right after we got married we found out we were going to have a number 7! There hasn’t been much time for us to spend alone.We look forward to our anniversary every year to try to get away for a day or twobut this year we have everybody starting school earl and trying to get girls moved back to college. We love our children but sometimes summer is a real challenge and the devil likes to work overtime on us!



  120. Nina on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:32 am

    Trying to find the balance between relaxing and doing all the fun activities we don’t have time for in the school year. And trying to keep up the house while being out of the house all the time.



  121. Jacki Edge on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:34 am

    The most stressful thing about the summer is all the things I’d like to buy and the budget just won’t allow it. (Things like home projects, craft projects, etc etc). I’m a teacher so I definitely love the summer! And I guess my selfishness comes out in full force during the summer months.



  122. Jennie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:37 am

    Our summer trip to visit family, trying not to disappoint family and trying to see everyone in the week we visit.



  123. Sam on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:39 am

    Being a working mom and trying to motivate without yelling :-), my pokey 9 year old. I want her to have a carefree fun summer but I still need to get to work. I try to prepare her to let her know what the schedule will be. We are definately on the right track! THEN my husband broke his back on an ATV! Back to the drawing bored on the schedule and stress management Lol!!



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:25 pm

      Sam Im so sorry about your husband! That is just awful. I pray that God heals his body quickly and gives him a peace while he is recovering.



  124. stephanie Watkinson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:40 am

    Hi Tracie,
    I think one of things that stress me out most about summer is that lack of routine. I thrive on having schedules and knowing exactly what to expect. (weird, I know!!) Summer for me is a time where I try to spend more time with family, but usually due to programming needs at the church am busy trying to get things organized for the fall!
    Looking forward to your tips. Just finished the bible study with Melissa Taylor and feeling less stressed, but still need to work on some areas.
    Thanks for all that you do and the way that you express yourself. You are able to cut to the heart of the matter, without making me feel incompetent.
    God Bless!



  125. Allison Crow on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:41 am

    What makes this summer stressful is my calendar being jammed packed! I have 4 children…9, 7, 5, and 4. Three girls and youngest Eli. My two oldest daughters are involved in dance classes everyday of the week. One is taking ballet and jazz. The other clogging and jazz. My son Eli has Down syndrome and has several therapy appointments. He has speech twice a week, physical therapy twice a week, once in the pool which he loves! They are all worth the extra effort but it still gets stressful. I am thankful to serve a mighty God that gives me peace from this stress.



  126. Marti Smith on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:43 am

    Our house was on the market when the second buyer backed out due to rising interest rates. We were building a rather large house when an even larger note and kept feeling The Lord smacking us with signs to wait. Most stressful decision to cancel our move from our current town and lose out on our earnest money plus deposits. We did it though!!



  127. Lisa K on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:43 am

    The most stressful thing about summer for me is not being able to spend all day long with my boys since I work. You’d think that when summer comes, I would be less busy after work and just be able to enjoy life. But of course, we find a way to “busy up” every minute of the summer! I wouldn’t trade any of it for anything, though. We have so much fun going to baseball games, sitting on our screen porch talking and cooking on the grill!! But sure would love to have the Stress-Less Summer Gift Bag of goodies. And I would give both of the books to friends of mine since I’ve already read Tracie’s fantastic book!!



  128. Katrina on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:46 am

    I absolutely love summer, but it has definitely become more stressful since moving to the Seattle area. What makes it so stressful is trying to cram all the sun required activities into such a short amount of time. Prior to moving here, we lived in San Diego, aka paradise, for 5 years. There, you could enjoy summer activities pretty much year round. Here, we’re lucky to get 6 warm/dry weekends a year so when they come, it’s a mad dash to spruce up the yard, have a few BBQ’s, go swimming, have family outdoor outings such as camping etc. It’s pretty crazy. I will say though, that when it is sunny, it’s one of the most beautiful places ever!



  129. Denise nana to many on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:47 am

    This is my first year semi retired and I have my five year old grandson for the summer. Boy is this a change court our household. With arranging daycare for the two days I work and who going to pick him up. Wow I need extra grace to make it. I’m really glad to help out my single daughter, but as I told her I’ll be ready to just be nana again not mommy. Lol



  130. Melanie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:48 am

    It seems as we spend more money during the summer months plus this year, we are trying to plan a vacation. We haven’t taken one in a very long time. Trying not to stress and enjoy the planning process. Also, things at work are very busy as everyone is calling and needing a rush before they go on vacation.
    So thankful for the Melissa Taylor study of Stessed Less Living. Thanks Tracie for an awesome book. Looking forward to this summer series.



  131. Amy M on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:48 am

    Summer stress usually comes for me from trying to keep up with my 2 very active & thankfully healthy boys – ages 4 & 6. I am so very blessed! Somedays I just can’t keep up!



  132. Carolyn on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:48 am

    I work part-time in Children’s Ministry at our large church. During the summer, we all “work from home” around our kids schedules. So, what stresses me the most during the summer is trying to still get everything done to make Sunday mornings happen, while I keep up with my ACTIVE 6 year old son!



  133. Gen on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:51 am

    I love summer, but the lack of a consistent routine makes me nutty! One child wakes at 6 am another at 9am and another anywhere in between. Breakfast and lunch are happening all ay long and mom is the first one to fall asleep at night!



  134. Susie Daggett on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:51 am

    What stresses me out is summer is flying by and we are missing it!



  135. Jennifer Gomez on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:51 am

    The part about summer that stresses me out the most is that there never seems to be enough time for fun and the days go way too quickly. I’m a full-time working mom with a new baby girl and my husband and I can’t seem to get enough time with her and each other. The weekends are definitely not long enough and this summer is even harder because all of our vacation time at work was used when we had our baby girl, so there is no time or money for a vacation this year.



  136. kara on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:51 am

    There is so much I want to do and not enough time



  137. Anita on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:52 am

    I not only have the usual indoor homemaking jobs to do, now there is a whole “outdoor house” calling to me. I love gardening and being outdoors, and so it is difficult for me to stay indoors at all. Our Wisconsin winters are long, making the desire to be outside even more appealing. My hubby is not keen on yard work and so all of it is mine. I just get overwhelmed with it all sometimes….



  138. Amber Bennett on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:52 am

    Summer…wow. Normally I can say it is my husband that keeps me occupied and trying to figure out where he will be fishing in his free time and making sure mom’s, husbands and dogs are all cared for and all medications and meals are accounted for. This summer adds extra stress…training for a new job…team lead in a new area of work. Really looking forward to the training being completed and the new job actually starting…and then some down time with a good book out in the sun absorbing some vitamin D. Thank you so much for you very encouraging blog…I just recently started following and you have challenged me many time. God Bless!!



  139. Tanisha G. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:52 am

    What stressted me the most during summer is planning activies for my children and getting ready to go back to school. My children are 11, 7, and 5, and they are all want to do different things throughout the summer so just getting them all prepared and ready, and getting ready for school such as dental appointments, physcials, school shopping, and supplies shopping it can get a little stressful. 🙂



  140. DeAnna Lewis on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:52 am

    For me it is getting done all the projects that I put off during the school year AND trying to get some rest in!



  141. Megan Haase on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:52 am

    What stresses me out most about summer is the lack of schedule and routine. With two small girls (4 and 1), we thrive on routine and a consistent schedule. I work part time from home so any disruption of our normal schedule throws everything out of whack! I yearn to live in the moments more, and think I’m slowly getting better, but it’s a constant struggle for me.



  142. Naomi on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:53 am

    I know this probably seems trivial, but the thing that stresses me out the most about summer is the bugs (mainly Mosquitos!). My kids aren’t old enough to be in school, so the pace of life doesn’t change during the summer. But one of my daughters and I seem to be mosquito magnets and we hate being outside, which is a bummer during this lovely weather!



  143. Julie Roat on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:55 am

    The most stressful thing about summer is the disappointment of day trips not taken, tempers lost, bickering and fighting between siblings, words spoken to harshly, running around like a mad women, and never making time to relax. Every year I imagine my summer vacation as this wonderful relaxing time to get recharged for another long school year; I am always disappointed that I don’t accomplish this. Maybe I need to prioritize my summer and my time to finally catch my breath and live in God’s Peace not the Pressure of this world…



  144. cindy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:55 am

    I think what my summer stressor is that I miss the times when the kids were at home and active in the summer and the grandchildren were younger. I am very grateful to God, however, for the precious memories!



  145. Jeanie Kelley on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:57 am

    The biggest thing that stresses me during the summer is having Daniel home from school and finding things for us to do. With him and I and us as a family all together. Last year when he was 11 to 12 we would go to the park and walk and play Frisbee. Now with him being thirteen and all he does not want to be seen with me at all. It hurts that he feels this way. Also what stresses me is that since Warren has not found a job and all he is home during the day and we hardly talk and have time with one another.



  146. Richelle Tramel on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:59 am

    The thing that stresses me out the most is that I can’t get my 10 year old son to GET OUT and have summer fun. He wants to practice being a recluse! I tried taking him to VBS and he fought me tooth and nail. He LOVES the Lord is more spiritually sound and grounded than I, but he didn’t want to go because he didn’t have a buddy to go with him. It’s stressful when kids at school and church call him weird and he can’t connect. He has about 2-3 good friends so if they aren’t going, he’s not interested. Other than that, he would rather stay home and enjoy playing by himself. Maybe we can plan some ‘stay-cation’ events to make staying home fun!



  147. Kelly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:00 am

    Trying to find things to do when it’s 120 degrees outside!



  148. Stephanie Lawry on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:00 am

    Having somewhere to be every day stresses me out. I like to have days at home. My house also looks much better:)



  149. Pat on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:00 am

    This summer is my most stressful summer because it’s our first summer without our kids; my daughter graduated college this May and moved 10 hours to our west and our son got out of the Army and is 8 hours to our east! While I am so VERY thankful God has us directly in the middle of them, I’m stressing about learning the blessings of being an “empty nester”, getting in all the time we can to visit them both, and figuring out how to balance my usual summer activities. I’m finding some things are going to have to go.



  150. Charlotte O on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:01 am

    I can’t share the enthusiasm for summer. I hate the heat I spend most of the summer seeking out shade and a cool spot of course, as you know, being in the south in the summer there aren’t many avenues of escape except maybe the pool. However, escaping the heat by going into the heat really doesn’t appeal to me either. I love being outside but the heat makes it unbearable. I am a fall and winter girl, spring is great other than it eludes to the forthcoming heat and humidity of summer. For a stressor, summer has historically not been one. We have older children mixed with younger ones so I have never had to have a sitter and my daughter is amazing, in the summer I come home to a clean house and 3 out of 5 days she cooks dinner (I tell her she makes me the perfect housewife). She is an aspiring teacher so she has activities with the little ones daily. My husband works nights and I days so this is even better because typically everything is on me as he leaves before I get home. Not to mention they sleep in so when I get up to get ready for work it’s to a quiet house with no missing shoes or unpacked lunches or school forms to fill out. So….wait maybe I do love summer…now let’s move it to a cooler climate.



  151. Heather on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:01 am

    My son has autism. The most stressful part of summer for me is a lack of routine, especially for him. His behavior tends to spin out of control when life is unpredictable, as it often is during the summer. On top of that, we are a military family, moving in 3 weeks 🙂



  152. Mary T on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:02 am

    Like you Tracie, I love summer! The beach is a place of respite and peace for me! I treasure the moments when I can get them… I work in an Extended School Year program. It is a 5 week program with shortened school days and of course my special grandson. Is in my class…leaving time to drive to the shore and enjoy the sunset…What stresses me out are my other obligations as a union president, committee chair, and daily meetings. This year after participating in your SLL OBS, I have planned ahead a little bit to try to delegate and leave myself a bit more time to spend just me and Jesus! I also set a goal to begin reading my Proverbs31 NIV Devotional Bible. Praying that the Lord will strengthen me to stick to my dreams and enjoy my time with Him and family. Would love to win your summer prize to share with my stressed out friends…we could share our dreams of Stressed~Less Living! God Bless!



  153. Jennifer Jones on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:02 am

    Without the routine the school year provides, our schedules get filled up with even more activities in the Summer.I begin to look forward to the beginning of the school year just for some slow down and peace.



  154. Carissa D. Huffman on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:02 am

    Summer means a slight dip in the available work in my profession. So, good bye opportunities to work a little extra, and, by the way, annual certification and biannual licensure fees are due, too. We take our vacation to go see family in Colorado, so there’s really not much money to do anything else (we live in Iowa). So, summer=no money.

    I am feeling better this year, however–just finished online Bible study featuring your book Stressed Less Living, and I do feel more equipped to cope when stress rears its ugly head.

    Blessings to you!
    Carissa in eastern Iowa



  155. Kim Tomlinson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:02 am

    I am a little stressed at how quickly this summer is going! And I had a moment of anxiety this morning thinking about my “baby” heading off to kindergarten on August 19th!! It’s all going to too quickly! Thank you for the opportunity to win your gift basket. I look forward to reading your book!



  156. Rachel Siffring on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:03 am

    What stresses me out most about summer is trying to keep the house clean and stay caught up on all of our daily tasks and chores while trying to give my kids a fun enjoyable summer and let them experience things. I want my children to remember and enjoy their childhood by going swimming, picnics in the park, playing with friends, fun days at the zoo, etc… But feel like my house and work at home looms over me and gets neglected while helping my kids enjoy their summer. I am also very stressed out about my eating habits this summer. We have been on the go so much that we have been eating out so much and not making healthy food choices.



  157. Anita on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:06 am

    Not having time to slow down and enjoy the time with family. Trying to put so much in to a day and feel it wasn’t enough.



  158. Karle Hunter on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:06 am

    I am a First Grade teacher, soon to be Kindergarten teacher and I have to be honest and say that thinking about the beginning of the school year is a MAJOR stressor over the summer. Yes it’s summer and it’s time to put school “away” for a while, but I can’t seem to stop from visualizing what I will do differently and how I want my students to feel on that first day. My husband is in ministry and I am in education and I believe these two jobs are “life” jobs…in that they are not the jobs that get put into the box of 9-5pm work days. I’m grateful for that, but it does require a different outlook and continual reflection and planning to make the next year better! So, with that being said, while I LOVE the mornings to sleep in a bit, my mind is always going and I’m always working on something for the upcoming year. It can be stressful …:)



  159. Janice on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:08 am

    I get stressed trying to fit everything in. I have plans to have certain outings and play days with my grandchildren but life gets in the way.



  160. Tammy P on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:08 am

    What stresses me out most about summer is feeling like I have no quiet time in the mornings. During the school year I spend time after the kids get on the bus to have some alone time with God. But the summer months make it harder for me to find that time without any distractions.



  161. Joanne on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:09 am

    I am a homeschooling (my 3 oldest kids) mom of 5 (ages 11 yrs – 22 mo.). I struggle mostly with unrest each day of summer because I lack a specific plan & schedule. I want us to have fun (which my kids definitely do!!) and be carefree but I also would like to have the kids doing some school. Instead of developing my plan & jumping in, I feel overwhelmed as each day passes and is instead, full of to do’s for me w/ fun activities for the kids packed in. I need to ask The Lord for help & take the next logical step by faith. I’ve allowed Satan to steal my joy & keep me in bondage. Thankful for God’s truth & His love & I’m ready to make a change!



  162. Rose G on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:10 am

    I feel like I have so much to accomplish, but no extra time!



  163. Jennifer on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:11 am

    What stresses me out about summer is keeping my four kids occupied and not bored, but without over-packing their schedule with activities. I also have a long list of projects I would like to accomplish but it seems there is never enough time to get anything done, or I am too tired to do anything else after taking care of cooking, cleaning, laundry, errands, appointments, etc. Unfortunately, summer seems to fly by so fast before we actually take the time to really savor and enjoy it.



  164. Lourdes on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:12 am

    What stresses me out most about summer is feeling like I have no free time for spend with my daughter cause I’m working. My wonderful boss let me bring her to my job site but she get bored. So I’m ask God for strength so in that way I can handle it. But I’m grateful because I have a job and a family.



  165. Tonya Ellison on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:12 am

    My husband and I both work full time so childcare in the summer is stressful, we have a 5, 7 and 10 year old and finding adequate and affordable childcare has been a struggle at times.



  166. Becky Kneller on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:12 am

    What stresses me out most about this summer. I scheduled my knee replacement for the fall so I would not be laid up all summer. However, I had another traumatic ER visit. Now I am laid up and will need to move surgery up. Bless my wonderful husband; who is caring for me, working full time and managing our three year old. In two days, I turn 50. My celebration has been cancelled. My life & home are not prepared for this surgery now. Praying for God’s peace through it.



  167. Tina Halvorson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:13 am

    I love summer. However my kids have so much energy I need to keep them busy most of the time. I don’t want them sitting around playing video games all day. And with no other kids on our street I’m thankful they have each other. Thanks for the summer survival guide cause I take any advice I can get.



  168. Charlotte Larsen on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:16 am

    The thing that stresses me out the most is our 6 week visit to the USA from our home overseas. While I feel blessed to have the opportunity to travel back to my home country during the summer, it is difficult to be away from home for so long. The travel within the states to see friends, family, and get some vacation time in is difficult with three teenagers in tow spending 24/7 together. They don’t have the break of school or their individual activities to give them time away from each other once in a while, and the arguing gets to all of us after a while.



  169. Heidi Washburn on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:17 am

    what it is about summer that stresses you out the most!

    What stresses me out the most about summer is keeping my children happy (17m and 3y) while my Husband works. It is different in the summer because it’s so much warmer and not snowing (haha) so I want them to get to the parks and have a blast outside along with splashpads. So hard though because I’m paying attention to naps and longer summer hours do not help early bedtimes so the kids are up way too late because it’s so bright outside. Then they are cranky the next day while I’m trying to plan happy filled busy days. God will help me through this. And when the kids are the most cranky, we will stay home at rest and I will follow their lead. I know God is with me when I’m the most stressed (putting the cranky kids to bed at night that don’t want to go to sleep).



  170. Sandy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:18 am

    What stresses me out most about the summer is that the kids are home. I feel the least amount of stress and happiness when they are both working, keeping busy and being productive. I should be more like a carefree summer teenager. Relax, Enjoy and find peace!



  171. Tiffany J. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:19 am

    Hi Tracie! What stresses me out the most about summer is all of the things I want to cram into it! I love fairs and festivals, hanging with friends and family, actively participating in church ministries and functions, de-cluttering/cleaning, etc…the list goes on and on! I view summer as a time to “get things done”…but then I just end up with the same over-loaded calender that I have in the fall and am left with a huge overwhelmed heart.



  172. Leslie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:20 am

    What stresses me the most in summer is actually not having a schedule – I’m an in charge, have a schedule type of person but w/ my husband home in the summer (he’s a teacher) and him having a list of what he wants to get accomplished over his time at home MY time is not mine at all. I TRY to go with the flow but its hard….very hard!



  173. Carole on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:20 am

    I’m so stressed out, I don’t even want to talk about it 🙁



  174. Kelley D on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:21 am

    My two girls feel like summer should mean no responsibility and free time when they are home. I get frustrated with the amount of “screen time” they veg out on, my 4th grader especially. It is stressful to manage it and to help them make good choices. My Jr high daughter’s schedule is so hectic with camps and 4 different sports practices it is hard to balance her need for down time when she is at home and the need for her to take care of her responsibilities. Lack of routine is making it very hard for me to have a quiet time and devo. That’s never good.



  175. Holly Duncan on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:21 am

    What stresses me out the most is how messy the house gets. I work full-time and when I get home the house is a mess from having little chickens running around all day.



  176. Michelle on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:29 am

    Not much stresses me out. But the one thing that probably gets to me the most in the summer is spending time with my immediate family. Views are different and trying to have family time can be very challenging. 4th of July is always spent at the lake with my Mom & Dad brother, sister and their families. We do not drink, and are looked at like we are weird because we do not. Hard to take the negative remarks and feeling of outcast. But this to shall pass and I will go with a smile and try to make the best of it.



  177. Laura on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:30 am

    I love the downtime that comes with summer. Oh, wait. That’s what’s stressing me out. I can’t seem to find that downtime anywhere. As kids get older and schedules get more demanding, it’s been a challenge to find a way to meet everyone’s needs, get everyone where they have to go, find time to continue nurturing my ministry and also to find that time to nurture my soul. That’s been a stress this summer and the farther I stretch myself, the worse it gets.



  178. Bethany on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:30 am

    Summer has been stressful for me in the past due to trying to work and have time with the kids. Now we sold our house, living in much smaller place, hubby’s looking for work and my health has landed me home with the kids! The stress of change has taken over our family of 5! Just completed the Online Bible Study…I’m re-reading the book again in July!!!



  179. Michaela on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:31 am

    Summer is hard for me because I work and we don’t have financial resources right now to take time off or to do fun things with the kids. My younges is always at the office with me but in the summer my oldest is there too. I feel bad at times because it must be so boring for her. But in the same breath I am thankful I have a job where they are allowed to be there with me.



  180. Mabel on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:36 am

    Work, kids, sports, traffic,and husband makes it a challenge to spend quite time with God. Wait let us not forget taking care of my ill parents and trying to make time for friends that need a shoulder to cry on and/or someone to talk to.



  181. Sharon on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:36 am

    Summer seems to be so full of activities that there is hardly time to rest. But the activities are full of family and friends and lots of fellowship with church. VBS, camp, Rodeos, Grand kids coming to spend the week, With 7 the summer is full. Self employed so vacations are not in the picture. Looking forward to what God has in store for this summer.



  182. Kim on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:37 am

    Summer is stressful for me because I can’t do all of the fun things that I see others doing, as I have chronic illnesses that prevent me from doing a lot of things. I do get to spend time in the pool with my friend though, and we have therapy sessions and work out our life problems together, and that is fun. Also, my finances are not good since I am unable to work and leaves me wishing for easier times when I could afford to do fun things with my son.



  183. Joanna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:38 am

    The past two years, summer meant preparing for scans to monitor my thyroid cancer, which is very stressful! This summer I am postponing those scans and it is quite a relief!



  184. Sandra Mabe on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:38 am

    Summer is so short and with the additional gardening, yard work and all the activities summer brings, it is almost impossible to have more time to enjoy carefree days. I love summer – it is my favorite time of year – the wonderful fruits and vegetables available to us and the warm sunshine and welcomed rains from the Lord. I often get to the end of summer and think what happened to all the things I had planned to accomplish!



  185. Devin on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:38 am

    My biggest source of stress is finding ways to keep my kids entertained for the summer. When my two oldest get bored, they start arguing over the smallest things. Some days, they get really ridiculous. We live in Texas where the temperatures very quickly hit 100, so sending them outside to play typically isn’t an option. It can be stressful trying to find cheap, fun, indoor activities to keep them from picking at each other.



  186. Krista on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:40 am

    Right now summer is difficult for us because we have two small children (1 and 4), and I work from home. My husband is a teacher, which means he’s able to watch the kids for me, but it’s emotionally hard for me to watch him playing and spending time with them knowing I have to shut myself away with the laptop instead. Our finances are stretched to the limit right now, so that just intensifies the pressure on me to keep working when I’d much rather be playing with my family.



  187. Tricia on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:45 am

    My biggest stress is trying to balance downtime with unfinished school time. We homeschool and there are always things that didn’t get done during the school year. But when the non-homeschooled kids are out it’s hard to keep plugging away at it!



  188. Amanda on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:47 am

    I am a high school teacher, so about March I am praying for summer to hurry. Then the reality of staying home all day with two teenagers, a toddler, and a dog hit me! I really don’t have summer off, at all. I spend the majority of the summer months planning for the next school year. This summer will be especially challenging because I am teaching four sections of a brand new course in the upcoming school year. This means writing a new curriculum outline, finding resources, and attempting to plan my units and lessons before the teacher workdays ever get here. I feel a tremendous amount of pressure to be ready for the school year, so much so that I neglect this wonderful time with the children to work. I need help managing summertime family devotions and teacher obligations!



  189. Brenda in NC on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:49 am

    As much as I enjoy summer, the heat truly stresses me out! Most of our summer, the temps are in the high 90’s with humidity that makes it feel 100+. It’s hard to handle the heat at times. I do love the fact that my children, ages 17 and 19, are home from school/college. We take advantage of every Saturday by having a mother/daughter shopping/lunch day. We may just window shop or run errands, but we always stop for a sit-down lunch so we can communicate and spend time together.



  190. Lisa T King on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:51 am

    What stresses me most about the summer is the fact it does go so quickly. I LOVE my kids being home and spending time with them. I do not at all look forward to them going back to school and what that does to our full day. Busyness of morning routine and homework after school is out and then nighttime routine. It is never much fun for them and I hate that life has to be so stressful! I love our vacations and knowing that they are having fun without the stress of school. I really get sad when I realize how short the time is and that the busyness of the school year will be back in my life.



  191. Pat Parker on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:51 am

    I am a home schooling mom, so summer is not much different than any other time of the year for us. I guess one thing that stresses me out is the fact that my husband will probably have to do a lot of overtime at the mill because the other guys that have a lot of seniority will be taking lots of vacation time which means less time with him here. We’d love to take a vacation but we have no finances to do so being he was off work for 2 months due to knee surgery. We are also putting our house up for sale and we’ve already been thru the showings where I clean like mad the night before and we have to load kennels and dogs and us into the car and drive around for a half hour……..it is a frustrating time, but I am trying to do like you talked about in the Proverbs 31 article………being glad for the moment I have and just find joy in what I’m doing.



  192. Jessica on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:52 am

    What stresses me this particular summer is that I don’t get to spend time with my kids because of my full time job. My husband is presently unemployed and so he stays home with them while I work. I miss my babies (even though they are 10 & 6). I wish I could spend more time with my family.



  193. Marcy B. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:52 am

    This summer is stressful because I am looking for work, taking a class so I can change careers, trying to help my daughter while she is at work or school by watching my granddaughter, and trying to squeeze in some quality time with my husband.



  194. Cindy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:54 am

    What stresses me MOST about summer time is that I am missing out on spending LOTS of time with my children. I have to work outside of the home and my children stay with a babysitter. By the time, I get home I have to cook supper and finish what laundry I didn’t get done. Then my son if off to baseball practice and games. I just don’t have any quality time and I am stressed about it! 🙁



  195. Dayna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:57 am

    I am most stressed out when teying to figure out our summer schedule. Between VBS, mission trips, family trip, visits w/ grandparents, and camps- the summer is almost more hectic than the school year!



  196. Brenda on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:57 am

    What stresses me about this summer; getting my daughter who just graduated from high school ready to leave for college. She is our oldest and first to leave the nest.



  197. Karen Enyart on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:57 am

    The idea that summer is supposed to be about relaxing and recharging stresses me out because our summers always seem packed with more “to dos” and ‘to goes” than any other time of the year. The myth that summer is a stress-free time makes me long for what I am missing out on as my own reality of summer is anything but stress-free! Yet when I take the time to relax in the Lord, and He and I know I should be doing this more often, summer just seems so much better!!



  198. Marty Larson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:59 am

    The summer stressor in our home is the big jobs we let hang over our heads. Let’s clean the basement r garage or… These do not get done during the school year and summer seems like a good block of time to tackle them, but we are very bad about follow through and that stresses us out.



  199. Maria on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:00 am

    not being able to relax and enjoy the summer.



  200. Polly Schneider on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:01 am

    My biggest stressor in the summer is getting ready for our camping trip, which incidentally is coming up in a couple of weeks. We are always strapped financially so we have to watch what we spend and plan wisely. I make lists for everything, our menu for the days we are away and everything else that needs to be packed. Then I have to cook ahead. Any way you can see how busy. I am. But it’s not as bad as when the kids were little. Our kids are grown, in fact we are waiting for our first grandchild, due in Dec. I can’t wait. But that’s another post 🙂



  201. Alexis on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:02 am

    I’m going into this summer just plain stressed over everything so I will say, keeping my 13 year old occupied with outside and physical stuff vs. his wanting to play his video games.



  202. Donna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:05 am

    As a former teacher, I stress over having to go to work everyday during the summer – I still miss my summers off. Also, the heat in the southwest stresses out everyone; 108 degrees last week



  203. Jane on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:08 am

    Mosquitos.



  204. Vicki McGillivray on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:09 am

    I posted in the wrong place. Just a bit of extra company is my stressor. But I have learned to lighten up about how the house looks and the food. Lets me enjoy the time with everyone and no one really cares about the house. Now food is another story:/) thanks.



  205. shannon shearer on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:09 am

    My biggest stressor is planning where my kids are going to go each day. I have my mother, who is a teacher and has days off in the summer, and my pastor’s daughters who take turns keeping my kids. I am so blessed to have all of them to help me, but planning and scheduling which days the kids go which place stresses me out! I love summer, and welcome the time my kids get to wind down, but not going to school each day adds to my stress!



  206. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:12 am

    My melasma is my biggest cause of stress in the summer as sun exposure triggers it. I love the sun and being outside, but in recent years, I have had to be extra careful about protecting my skin, especially my face. Melasma causes brown to gray-brown patches on the face and some people even get it on their forearms and neck.



  207. Dot on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:13 am

    I find trying to get a vacation booked and then getting ready to leave for said vacation stresses me out. I am usually in a mad rush trying to get everything done the day before we leave. I am usually exhausted by the time we walk out the door.



  208. Jackie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:18 am

    My biggest stressor is out of town company. I moved about a year ago so now all of my friends and family are “out of town”. Preparing and hosting for their visits are not an issue for me, but the minute company drives away, I close the front door to assess the chaos. Piles of dirty dishes, floors that need to be swept, overflowing trash cans, bed linens that need to be washed – not to mention getting our household ready for the week ahead. Talk about stress! I am getting anxious just thinking about the next visitors. But I’ve learned to really appreciate the precious few hours or days that I get to enjoy with my loved ones. Chores are just a small price to pay afterwards!



  209. Leigh F. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:19 am

    As a working mom, what stresses me out the most is that it will be over too soon and I won’t be able to do all the things I would like to do with my kids.



  210. Darcey on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:20 am

    The kids are off of school for a little over 2 months. I have so much I want to teach them and do with them. Plus there is the noise. During the school year they are gone for a good part of the day and I have only one at home. When they are all home and it is hot out, yikes!



  211. Jeanne on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:21 am

    The thing that stresses me out most when summer comes is trying to keep the kids busy every day and also the added driving around to the extra summer activities. I still work in the summer and even though I look forward to having the kids around, the extra busyness really kicks up the stress!



  212. Katie H on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:24 am

    My biggest stress i s my kids. They are together so much in the summer that they seem to fight constantly, and trying to keep them entertained so they won’t get bored.



  213. Sylvia MacVettie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:24 am

    I really enjoy all your advice. Even though I don’t have any kids at home, I still always find enough to stress out about.



  214. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:25 am

    The thing that stresses me out the most is that being a working self employed mom and keeping the kids busy during the day so they are not on playstation all day long. But not breaking the bank account with golfing and camps! 🙂



  215. Lisa F. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:25 am

    After the initial excitement and time out of school, I get stressed the most by the kids being “bored” and arguing/complaining. Also not getting everything done/accomplished that I want!



  216. Heather Lapierre on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:27 am

    Definitely the laundry – there is so much more in the summer. Placing limits on the video games can also be quite the adjustment 🙂



  217. Leslie S. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:31 am

    I stress over the fact that I feel guilty because I can’t be at home with my daughter when she’s out of school because I have to work. I have so many things I want to do with her, and the summer seems to fly by before we know it.



  218. Tera on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:31 am

    Trying to keep my three boys entertained and happy. 🙂



  219. Lilli on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:31 am

    How ironic that the “lazy days of summer” are filled with children’s camps & swim meets, church VBS activities, yards filled with fast growing summer weeds, endless work deadlines (if you work in an office environment), planning for fall school /activities (if you are a homeschooler or ambitious planner parent), and logging in a boatload of highway miles to visit family (especially challenging if you have dysfunctional relations with your parents) and of course we aim for quality, enriching family vacations with require smart & economical planning! Add to this LATE NIGHTS — the days are so long that kids won’t go to sleep — when do I get time with my husband?!

    LORD, please direct my heart during this tricky time….I know I should be enjoying your blessings (my family, my home, my job, my friends) and there just doesn’t seem to be enough time. Where is the joy? I know it’s ONLY found in you, but I just can’t seem to catch up.



  220. Yolanda Dickerson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:34 am

    As a single mother, I stress out wondering what to do with my 12 year old daughter to keep her educationally engaged during the summer break, entertained, and being able to afford a short vacation or road trip each summer. The Lord answered me this year by giving her a safe, free place to hang out all summer with family and we just returned from a vacation with family friends that only cost me our car transportation! HE never ceases to amaze me!



  221. Dee C on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:41 am

    Living in Portland, it’s the only time we have sunny weather and there are so many things to do and so many out-of-town visitors. I love this time of year and the visitors. I just have to remember to slow down and breathe inbetween.



  222. Peggy Clement on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:41 am

    Finding ways to keep kids entertained without them sitting in front of T.V. all day



  223. Heather P on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:42 am

    My stress is mental. My husband loves to have people over. I am a socially anxious, agoraphobic person. Every year we talk about the end of summer BBQ. So, it is the idea of having that BBQ for our FB friends that wigs me out – the planning is no problem, it is the group of friends that show. I need to learn to let God entertain through me because otherwise I sink into a little scared mouse.



  224. Marla on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:43 am

    With one in college and one graduated from college, we are in a different season of life. Also, when you work full time…summer isn’t that different than any other time of year except for several holidays!!! I love summer because I love to be in the sun…preferably at a beach somewhere!!!



  225. Jean Mc on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:45 am

    I love summer, it is my favorite time of the year, but there are times when the heat and humidity is simply oppressive. I look so forward to enjoying the outdoors (especially with my grandchildren) and it’s so disappointing to have to stay inside because of the intense heat.



  226. Jean Mc on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:47 am

    And might I add that I am so grateful to the Lord for the gift of air conditioning!



  227. Teresa on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:49 am

    Our huge family & the fact they want something going on every weekend which requires travel.



  228. Lana on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:51 am

    Summer time is a fun but busy time for my family. We rodeo and do several rodeo bible camps. The busy schedule and trying to keep my house clean with four children at home are some of my stressors. This summer I am going through a divorce that has added extra stress. I know that God will strengthen and help me.



  229. Kristi Adams on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:55 am

    Love, love summertime!! I have 3 boys we have lots of things going on:VBS, family vacation, karate, trips to grandparents, teacher conferences/workshops the list goes on and on. I love the time I spend with my boys but its a stressful season. Even with all the stress I wouldn’t change anything. Thankful that God allows this special time in our lives.



  230. Elisia on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:58 am

    The lack of money always seems to pop up in the summer for us. Of course the kids want to go swimming, camping, and all those activities most people do in the summer. However, right now we can’t afford it. So with six kids in the house bored out of their minds, no gas money, and everything so far away to walk to, it gets to be a bit stressful.



  231. MissyB on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:01 pm

    I love the summer. Especially since I am a TA at a public school I get the benefits of having my summer off. I have to say I am a little stressed this summer because there are being cuts made to TA positions and I don’t know what that holds for me this next school year. We may not hear the final decision until the first of August so I am trying not to worry or stress about during the rest of my summer but enjoy it. I keep telling myself it is out of my control and God is in control and to trust Him. It does take some self control with Gods help not to let my mind go off worrying. Just trust! Prov 3:5-6



  232. Lisa Myers on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:02 pm

    Living near the beach, it is definately traffic that wears me out! I sure did need to read your devotion on Proverbs 31 today!



  233. Tracy Nana on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:02 pm

    I love the beautiful green trres, flowers and sunshine of summer. What causes me much stress in the summer is the humidity and quick change of weather, and going into place and their either too hot or too cold. Having multiple chronic illnesses these conditions sky rocket my my daily pain. Each day it takes God’s grace, mercy and strength to keep me focused on God and what I need to accomplish that day. During the summer I can get my focus changed quickly and if I don’t have time with God forget it I get depressed and just go back to bed until the next day.



  234. Melissa Cook on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:03 pm

    My main worry with summer is me having to work full time while my children are at home. We do have a reliable good babysitter, but I still worry!!



  235. KRISTY on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:03 pm

    I work full time so my stress lies in discovering the trigger for my 3 yr olds daily meltdown, finding affordable(safe, fun) care for my 1st grader & stimulating activities for my teenager who wants to sleep all day and play video games all night( but hey, its summer, right?) and really stretching to find enough hours in the day to actually relax and enjoy summertime with the kiddos.



  236. Anna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:03 pm

    Tracie thanks for todays devotion, great tips on recieving God’s calm. I have two teens and a husband at home, our 18 yr old is out of school and now working, so I now have two men to get off to work, (we are so proud of our son) I now have my 17 yr old girl doing home-online study to graduate early from high school. She is doing awesome, but once summer got here, she is dragging her feet because “everyone is out for the summer, and I’m not!” ( she is also babysitting four days out of the week to save money). I start to feel edgey when I have to be after her making sure her 25 hours of work are in weekly, and her tests are taken. I always try to encourage her and remind her of what finishing early, and starting college early will mean, and that God has a plan for her life. I’m a 56 year old mom with 2 teens and two older married children (4 grandchildren) , who struggle with the same summertime problems. I have read the posts of young mom’s with children and have problems on where to leave their kids during the summer, yeah I remember those days, God is good and He will lead you and help you all through this time, just stop for a few minutes as Tracie suggests and take a breathe” say a prayer…..
    I pray often during the day, and love knowing “The Lord is my strength and my song” Exodus 15:2

    Praying all of you will have a blessed and fun summer…



  237. Amber M on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:05 pm

    the social obligations, while I love all of them, fill every gap in my already busy schedule. Its so hard to say no because I really do want to spend time with the people it seems like I already see too little of. I just need to figure out how to find balance in my life… something i struggle with during every season.



  238. Stephanie S on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:07 pm

    The biggest stressor for me is trying to fit in some fun summertime activites when both my husband and I work full time.



  239. Heather on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:09 pm

    My biggest stress is finding free things to do for the kids. Even the beach costs money cuz it’s gas to get there!



  240. Lynn Graham on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:16 pm

    my biggest stressor is tolerating the heat and humidity.



  241. Karen on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:16 pm

    As a teacher, I look forward to summer to catch up on things at home. The problem is, the more time I spend at home, the more projects I dream up to accomplish which adds to the family stress level.



  242. Carolyn on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:16 pm

    I am a teacher so I stress during the summer about trying to get home projects done that I can’t get to during the school year.



  243. Sherry on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:17 pm

    The most stressful part of Summer for me is watching my daughter & granddaughter’s lives, and realizing how much the world has changed. I thought of her as soon as I saw the post. I grew up & raise children in a world that didn’t take the phone, TV and video games with them. I went to the park & played with my children and had no idea if anyone was calling. My generation had times to “get away from it all”. So many people deal with work on vacation. I have even watched my daughter deal with her job online when she is home sick. This generation really needs tips & help to let go and have some real “down time”. I definitely will tell my daughter about your summer survival series. 🙂



  244. charcy koehl on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:18 pm

    I am stressed this summer by the fact that my husband is in a mental hospital but I have a great friend and sister in Christ who is there for me all of the time, anytime I need her! Thank you for your blogs and I did sign up to receive them via email!



  245. Tiffany on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:20 pm

    My biggest stress comes from not doing fun things with my kids. They’re out for summer, I am not. It seems as though my commute has gotten longer so by the time I get home, my energy is zapped! It feels like everything has gotten longer or takes up the most time, ready for school to start back.



  246. Mary Beth on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:22 pm

    I get stressed when summer is SO busy that I get behind with life….behind with things I have to get done, like basics in the home, meals, paying bills, laundry, etc.



  247. Michelle on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    WEARING A SWIMSUIT!!! Now THAT stresses me out! Even the thought of shorts… 🙁



  248. Stephanie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    For my household, it always seems like there is always more financial stress in the summer. Between graduation parties, weddings, car inspections, insurance, etc. – the budget is usually stretched as thin as it can go. God always provides for our needs, so I shouldn’t worry as much as I do!



  249. Kathy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:26 pm

    What stresses me about summer? This summer I am finishing a class that will end my college career ( a huge relief to be done), but right after that my nieces and nephew will be over. This is always so much fun, and yet stressful for me because my husband and I are not on the same page 90% of the time. He is not a planner at all and I am, so I have to plan to be ready for anything, because we end of going with whatever floats by on the wind. He is a big kid with the kids and I’m the mean adult. It is a lot of fun, but I find myself exhausted because I never really get to relax. I sound so ungrateful saying all of this and so whiney, which I dislike so much. Each year, this one included, I try again to lay it all down and just be purposeful about enjoying it all. Even the expectations placed on me to just make food appear and clean clothes happen and any other thing we might just need on our adventures. 🙂

    I am looking forward to it, even with the nagging anxiety in the back of my mind. Thanks for the good reminders I know you’ll be posting.



  250. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:28 pm

    My biggest stress for summer is seeing my kids sit around with nothing to do. They are 13 and 15. Camps are quite expensive for teens, so we cannot do them every week. I do miss the days when they were younger and going to the pool was something they looked forward to each afternoon. My 15 year old wants to get a job so badly! However, employers here do not hire them due to labor law restrictions.

    I am blessed that I work from home, so at least I am here to make sure the boredom does not lead to real trouble!



  251. Mary S on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:28 pm

    I echo others that I love the less structured days of summer, but I find that if I don’t build some kind of routine into my days I begin the downward spiral into chaos. The hot humid days also stress me out – the ones where you can barely stand to be out -topped off with the stress of knowing that the more hot and humid it is the higher the utility bill will be next month. Thankfully the summer is not completely full of days like this where I live. Oh, and the bugs……



  252. Kristy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:28 pm

    Trying to fit everything in from vacations, to family reunions, to just enjoying the summer break from school stresses me out. Before we know it, it’s time to start school shopping already!



  253. Julie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:34 pm

    Oh goodness, for me this summer is especially stressful: I left my fiance when I realized his walk with Christ was not entirely what he had made it out to be and my father’s health getting a little less good than it was (he is 89). When I left my fiance about 3 months ago, my network of girlfriends helped me quite a bit and one long term friend suggested repeatedly that I stay with her for a while until I get myself re-settled emotionally and financially as I did not have much money left…and then, realizing she wasn’t used to living for a short time with a female friend, mentioned if I could leave earlier it would be better and that she changed her mind on helping me retrieve my things from storage in California (and I am in Virginia now). She cited just “not being in my zen and used to this, it’s not you at all”. I know it’s not me as I cleaned her place for her and helped her out when she normally does not have help with various things. I always try to be of the fruit of the spirit and did not get angry…but her change of mind now means I cannot retrieve my things from CA until several months from now. I found a job through another good friend and am blessed to have a new job though it pays just above minimum wage. It is very hard for me and my pet right now so that is much more of a stressful summer than I have ever had, and thankfully my father’s health is a little better. God is providing for my and my pet’s needs right now though I can sure use your new series to help me cope. Thankfully I also found a wonderful church near me and somewhere to live that is great and less expensive than any apartment complex around.



  254. Tracy Niles on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:36 pm

    What stresses me out about summer? this summer it is ADOPTING! we are adopting and transitioning a gal into our home is well. STRESSFUL! 🙂
    But God has got this! Amen!



    • tmiles on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:43 pm

      That sounds stressful but wonderful! That might have to be labeled under the category of “good” stress. 🙂 Congrats on your adoption and praying that everything goes as planned!



  255. Tami on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:42 pm

    Keeping my son from controlling me… He tests me to my limit and at all boundaries. I wonder some days if I can stay strong enough to last. It has only been a couple of weeks since school let out and I already feel the stress… I have been trying hard to keep him busy, but we both need down time. That is when he starts getting defiant. There are many days where I question weather I am fit for this job. The only thing that helps me is knowing I am not alone. There are other parents out there struggling just as I am and sometimes MUCH MUCH worse. I am thankful that he is healthy and handsome and will most likely be stubborn and fight for what he wants in life. **says a mother of a very strong-willed child**



  256. Jenny on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:43 pm

    The bugs and insects and What stresses me about summer!



  257. Lisa on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:43 pm

    I too love Summer – until it gets really hot and sticky then I am done and ready for Fall! The thing that stresses me out the most about Summer is having to work full time and miss time with my son. In the past he has been in daycare during the summer, which means dropping him off early and not seeing him all day. This summer, since he is going into the 2nd grade, we are trying him going to work with me. it is working for my employer, and for him, but I worry about him being bored or missing out on something fun. I have to keep reminding myself that we can still have fun being together, and we also get to have lunch together every day.



  258. Aleksandra on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:44 pm

    The most stressful part of summer is the crowds (especially on the freeways)! Although I feel very blessed to live in Southern California, the area is a prime vacation destination, given that there is so much to see and do here!



  259. Kristi on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:45 pm

    Just as you said re: the calendar…..a FULL calendar stresses me! I work very hard to limit our summer activities, to save time for lazy days. Thanks for making me feel “normal” that full calendar for my children stresses me more than an empty calendar!



  260. Ashley Rassbach on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:45 pm

    Money is indefinitely the thing that stresses me out the most during the Summer. The kids are home from school always looking for something to do (that inherently costs money) and vacations are always something we want to do, but can never afford to do. We are in the midst of a custody battle for our eldest daughter and so all of our extra money has gone to that. Unfortunately we will go yet another summer without a family vacation; we have to trust that, at some point, the Lord will provide our family with an amazing opportunity to go on a vacation as a family, despite all of the financial hardships that we have faced the last five years.

    We do try to make the best out of what we have and often try to spend time on the lake, packing picnics, and enjoying time as a family at softball tournaments, but there is a lot of stress that ensues when money is an obstacle.

    God will provide has been our motto, and he hasn’t let us down yet! 🙂



  261. Kristy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:46 pm

    Stress comes from all the projects that either need to be done or my husband and I want to do, but don’t have the money to get done.



  262. Laurie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:47 pm

    Hi, What stresses me out the most during summer is that being a stay-at-home mom, I feel obligated to watch my friends who are working moms’ kids when they need help (which seems to be quite often.) Taking a group to swim, and keeping a good eye on all of them stresses me out! I could use that basket 🙂



  263. michelle h on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:50 pm

    missing it all! I work full time and still want to be able to do the beach days, etc with the kids!



  264. Lisa Soles on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:55 pm

    I work in Myrtle Beach and summer stresses me out because we have lots of tourists in the area – so traffic is thicker than normal and the wait line for lunch or dinner is a little longer and every year I get just a little more jealous that I have to work throughout the summer!



  265. Melissa on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 12:58 pm

    What stresses me out is having the kids home all day and I’m not there. I work full time. Though I’m only down the street I feel like I have no control of their day. My teen daughter sleeps most of the time, chatting and texting while my ten year old is watching tv…not healthy at all.



  266. Tameka on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:00 pm

    Being a working Mom during the summer months is stressful. Especially when most activity is centered around the stay-at-home Moms. It’s always a struggle trying to find day activity for my kids and together activites in the evenings.



  267. Marisha on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:03 pm

    the fact that for the last few yrs at work they always schedule mandatory planning meetings for mid-July and that makes it tricky to squeeze in some summer-time vacation, considering the requirement to prep for the meetings and then start implementing decisions after the meetings are over….and…for that one squeezed out week of vacation to bring up myself to some kind of decent beach body shape 🙂



  268. Vashti on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:05 pm

    I love the warm weather that comes with summer but the thing that stresses me the most is coming up wit a new routine when the kids are out of school. I find myself floundering to get my quiet time in especially since my kids still wake up early.



  269. Susan on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:09 pm

    My biggest summer stressor? Three kids of different ages and stages all expecting me to act as “cruise ship director” all day, every day. Not to mention the fighting and picking and bickering that seems to escalate during the summer.



  270. Staci on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:13 pm

    My biggest summer stressor is extended family dictating my vacation time.



  271. Teresa on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:15 pm

    What stresses me the most about summer is trying to do it all! Even though the kids are home, I still have all the household chores that need to be done. Summer is also when I have to take all the kids for their yearly physicals, it also never fails that at least on of them didn’t have such a great dental check up and we have to schedule in fillings (this summer it was actually 3 of the 4). Summer is also when all my kids birthday’s are, so I have 4 birthday parties to plan and execute. Add in, that my older kids both have jobs, one of which I have to get back and forth to work each day. Then throw in that one of my kids has to do on-line school and I have to take him clear across the county to take tests & meet the teacher, etc. I feel like I am more exhausted than during the school year. And P.S. the unending rainy days so we can’t even go to the pool and just relax. Uggh!!



  272. Jeanne on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:19 pm

    My biggest summer stressor is putting on a bathing suit.



  273. Deneen W on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:23 pm

    I agree with Jeanne – I HATE putting on a bathing suit!



  274. Pamela on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    The biggest stressor of the summer for me is finding time for “me” time with God!



  275. Crissi on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:40 pm

    Weekends fill up with too many commitments!! 🙁



  276. Cherise on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 1:55 pm

    Busy Busy ! I never feel like I catch up. I want more relax/hangout time with my fam 🙂



  277. Barbara on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:06 pm

    What stresses me out most about summer is my expectations on how the summer should be.



  278. Diamond Jernigan on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:08 pm

    The most stressful part of summer to me is the fact that money is tight and you can’t do too much with the children except around the house. We have to conserve gas for my husband’s job and so we do not go too far from home. We are also in a lot of debt so we have to stretch every dollar. My kids do not understand and blame us, the parents, for not being able to do more. I take them to the pool at my mom’s house and then we have only one vehicle so my husband has that 5 days a week so the kids and I just stay around home most of the summer. I wish I had more means to do with them but this is our situation for right now. Thanks for your advice in today’s blog Tracie.

    Diamond Jernigan



  279. CarrieC on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    The thing that stresses me most about summer is how my routine goes to pot and how it ends up almost as hectic as the Christmas season. I would love to have just one summer of absolutely no camps and no commitments!



  280. Erica on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:14 pm

    I try to squeeze too much into the summer. We are so busy with play dates, organizing, and vacations that I sometimes forget to stop and relax.



  281. Kelli VR on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:20 pm

    Trying to live up to expectations – feeling like our children need to be involved in everything so they don’t miss out on something. I’d much rather be home with them making family memories!



  282. Mandy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:24 pm

    The things that stresses me out is my routine changes as I am a teacher, my plans about doing things with the kids don’t fall together, money is less due to unemployment, and we moved to AZ so the things we used to do in the summer are so different.



  283. Kerry Ann on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:29 pm

    Trying to convince my children that even though they are out of school – there are still responsibilities that need to be addressed. Chores do not take a vacation! And neither does the dog, the yard, etc. Everything does not stop just because your school work has for a few weeks!



  284. sherri m on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:32 pm

    The southern humidity is what stresses me out. I need that “dry” heat. LOL



  285. Roxanne on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:42 pm

    Hi Tracie! I really enjoy your blog. Summer is going great so far, just trying to survive Louisiana heat and humidity…but then this is my home and I wouldn’t live anywhere else! I have your book on my Kindle and have read it once already…. Happy rest of the summer!



  286. Cheryl on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:47 pm

    I think that in the last several years I have finally figured out (thru peace from God) that my expectations to “catch up on everything in my life” during the summer are completely unreasonable! I am an elementary school secretary and an AWANA commander at my church for about 10 months out of the year and to think that in two months I am going to get all of those “piles” cleaned up and back to “perfect order” is crazy!!! So with God’s strength and help, I will accomplish what He has planned for me and NOT STRESS about what doesn’t get done!



  287. Diane on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:52 pm

    My stress is juggling parenting and being wife while at the same time running a non profit and still finding time to relax.



  288. Lori on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:52 pm

    Hi Tracie,
    I am really looking forward to this Stress Less Summer series you are doing. I need to delve into your book! I have three things that stress me out during the summer.
    I sunburn very easily and badly. I use sunscreen but that is not enough. I want to be outside!! but have to take precautions not to get burned. Mostly I go out in the mornings and evenings to avoid the strongest sun.
    I love to have a garden, but it usually ends up being a weed patch. I get stressed because I know I need to get out there and weed! Bugs get bad in the evening, too wet from dew in the mornings, to sunny in the afternoons! I do my best, but it bothers me A LOT!
    Making sure the kids get to their summer activities. I am glad they are doing things, but I have to keep the calendar and do the driving. This summer I am taking my 15 year old to drivers ed….so he can chauffer pretty soon!
    BUT in spite of all this…I love summer!!!!



  289. Diana R on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 2:58 pm

    I love summer. I am going to see my dad in Oklahoma in July so I will have my time of humidity and fried cat fish. I love the long days. Tracie your book on stress has helped me so much that I am hoping to not have as much stress. I hope all of you have a wonderful safe 4thof July. Blessings Diana



  290. jeni zapor on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:00 pm

    A big stress for me is wanting to eat summer picnic food every meal topped with ice cream at every turn, then thinking about exercising in the heat…with kids!



  291. Carmen on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:08 pm

    Summer for this working mom of a two year old is full of excitement. Between juggling work travel schedules and vacations and weekends at the family lake house my biggest source of stress is the laundry pile that never seems to disappear 🙂 I delight in spending as much time as possible with my 2 year old and husband so laundry and house work are low on the list. I do manage to keep clean clothes for everyone but the piles of dirty laundry don’t disappear as quickly in the summer.



  292. Jessica on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:08 pm

    I love summer!!! But…the last few have been difficult as I’ve not had a summer “vacation” in the last several years while finishing up graduate school. This summer, for the second year in a row, I will be making a major move. Last year if was from FL to NJ and this summer (not even 10 months later) from NJ to AL! This move is especially difficult because I’ll be working from “home” for my current job until the day before my new job in AL begins. All while prepping for teaching 4 college courses in the Fall. Yowza! I’m so thankful for the opportunities the Lord has given me but I sure could use summer to move a bit more slowly this year!! 🙂



  293. kim montaini on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:10 pm

    I love summer but what stresses me out is all the added commitments that are added for the kids…. baseball , sport camps, vacation bible school, etc while still being a mom that works full time outside the home. A lot to balance!



  294. Tammy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:14 pm

    I love summer but what really stresses me out is added events such as oldest daughter having school ball workouts what to do with youngest child while oldest is away. Running children from one sporting event to another with only one car to do all this with. Trying to work a full time job and help take care of my dad. Just a lot on the plate! But I have to remember Phillipians 4:13!



  295. Shannon on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    Being a working mom, I stress each summer about finding someone to keep my kids. I also wish I could spend more time with them.



  296. Kelly S on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    Everything about summer stresses me out. My 13 yr old son is home, so I have to get up and act like I have a reall life all day. When he’s at school, I stay in my dark cave room, in bed and hide from the world. It’s very hard to be out.



  297. Coleen on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:18 pm

    This summer, the workmen in our house fixing our broken plumbing and moldy floors are the biggest stress. My more typical summer stress is that my eleven year old does not generally enjoy activities outside the home and does not ever wish to go on a vacation.



  298. Erin on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:19 pm

    I love having all my kids home during the summer, but I get stressed when they all start picking on each other over silly things. Then I feel like I should be more proactive in keeping them busy, then I get stressed about that. 😉



  299. Sara on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:22 pm

    having to find something to entertain the kids every single day! And all the constant asking for food requests.



  300. Paula Howard on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:35 pm

    Summer stresses – working at school during the summer and seeming to have no time before the new year starts!



  301. Tiffany on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:35 pm

    Summer is stressful because I am a working mother and my kids attend daycare fulltime. So on the weekend I try to find all the fun things to do because I don’t want them to miss out. I also try to plan at least one vacation if not two mini-vacations during the summer. I try to make it the best for them to help ease my mommy guilt of having to work full-time and that can be SUPER STRESSFUL!



    • Denise Wojcik on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:37 pm

      I agree wholeheartedly:)



  302. Denise Wojcik on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:36 pm

    Juggling everyone’s schedule during the summer stresses me out. Finding fun things to do on the weekends as I feel guilty for being at work all week and the kids being bored at home/preschool. This leaves me no down time on the weekends to unwind and de-stress.



  303. Molly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:37 pm

    I have two boys one with autism and the other ADHD. The stressful part of Summer is keeping them in a structured routine! We live in the country so they need camps and activities. Summer always seems busier than the school year!



  304. Michelle on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:37 pm

    I work outside of the home and the hardest part for me is trying to find camps and other activities for my kids (8 years / 3 years). Also to find balance between enjoying the summer (lazy mornings & lots of pool time) and maintaining work hours.



  305. Lois on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:39 pm

    I really need closet time with the Lord daily, and the more relaxed schedule in the summer makes it harder to find the quality and quanity time I need to keep a vibrant relationship with the Lord- and it is my relationship with Him that makes me a better mother and wife.



  306. Rose on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:54 pm

    How about taking care of your mother with dementia, while working 6 9-12 hour nights a week, plus trying to find time in there to take my mother to her doctors appt and getting shopping done? Sleep? I am existing on 3 hours sleep a day if I am lucky. this is stress to the max. But I need to work this many hours and days because come fall and winter I will not be working again.



  307. Kathy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 3:55 pm

    My biggest summer stress is facing an overload of my expectations, which usually aren’t in line with reality. I want my family to make many wonderful memories, grow closer to God and each other, take fun trips, get many projects done and my list goes on. I have to give God control and realize I don’t have any anyway!



  308. Katie on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    I also LOVE summer, but like a few others have mentioned, struggle a bit with the lack of routine. I stay home with my two daughters, the oldest of which just finished kindergarten. Every summer prior to this one hasn’t really been much different from the rest of the year. But this year it is a welcome break from lunches, homework and getting out the door early in the morning. I didn’t expect to be thrown off by the relaxed schedule that summer brings but I totally was – weird! But we are finally getting into somewhat of a stride, and I am really enjoying more time with my older daughter home. Thanks for your awesome P31 devos!



  309. Linda Sales on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    My summer stresser is not having enough energy to complete out door tasks. 14 years ago I was in a car accident that changed my life completely. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and with 6 car accidents, others hit me, I am left but a shell of a human being. I try my hardest to complete every day tasks that seem to pile up now. I spend most of my time sleeping, my body gets so exhausted I end up sleeping & resting for a couple days. I catch a cold there goes another week. I know I’m not alone there are many more out there with my same illness. I thank God for saving me that day of my accident I could have easily had my spinal cord cut in half. My vertibre had slid over.



  310. Diane on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 4:23 pm

    I find most of my stress comes from the high expectations I put on myself. Often I expect too much out of myself, my children and my husband. I am learning to evaluate my expectations and be realistic when placing them onto others. I am finding time to relax and clear my head by starting my morning before rising out of bed praising God for another day in my blessed life.



  311. linnea nelson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 4:54 pm

    I live in New England. Summer is very short for us.When I was a little girl my mother would take us to Maine the day after school got out. We didn’t come home until just before school would start.Life has changed and people don’t go to a summer cottage for the entire season. My late mother could never accept that life was now different. I would have to take her to Maine for the entire season.I don’t regret one moment I did this but it became very stressful.The thing I mind most about summer is the heat. I have allergies. I guess I could never move to the west or to the southern states. lol



  312. Hannah Mouton on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 4:59 pm

    Hi there! I am a stay at home mommy to a 22 month old and a 4 1/2 month old! I live in Central Texas, so our summers are HOT!

    That is probably what my biggest stress is! My boys and I love to be outside. I love to run them to the park, my husband and I take them on evening walks, we play, we swim, …. But with this heat, my boys overheat way to easy!

    Being outside is the best, but after 10 and before 6 we just can’t do it. Those red little cheeks just scream for some AC and I can’t even put sunscreen on the babes just yet!



  313. Dawn Marie Jackson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:01 pm

    I am a preschool teacher during the school year so summer’s off means no pay for m which leads to financial stress. So I watch friends’ kids ALL summer. More stress. I am usually ready to return to the classroom way before August.



  314. Staci Elerson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:05 pm

    The most stressful thing for the summer for me is having two teenagers and a 10 year old at home and I do not have a car or any extra money so I get the “I’m bored!!” constantly and we live in an 800 sq ft, 2 bedroom, 1 bath apartment so there is NO getting away from each other for awhile unless we take a walk but it’s pretty hot right now during the day. Also grocery bill triples during summer!!



  315. Kimberly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:10 pm

    The most stressful thing about summer for me is the fact that my husband (a teacher) is off fir the summer and I am not, so we are on totally different levels of freedom and relaxation, which often causes “interesting” things to happen around our house.



  316. Felicia Bentley on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:10 pm

    What stresses me out the most about summer is the fact that I really do not feel I get one. Their is no sleeping late. I have six children and ten ball teams at the moment. None of my children can drive so I am the permanent taxi can driver. At this point in time I’m usually in the car by six I the morning and get home about 8 or so most nights. It is the constant back and forth. I got home Friday night and my children were at their dads and I literally just laid in the dark and I was like wow this is what peace is never even turn on the tv.



  317. Cindy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:21 pm

    The thing that is stressful about summer is arranging my children’s schedules with sitters and trying to keep up with the daily things that need to be done at home. Nights are filled with ball and good things and I am learning that spending the quality time with my husband and children are more important than everything else getting done. Some things can wait.



  318. Sharolyn on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:44 pm

    Sadly, it’s family get togethers that stress me out the most…..



  319. Tiffany Brown on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:46 pm

    The that is most stressful is all the activities, and work gets crazier which in turn my poor family normal’s gets the grumpy mommy 🙁 But that is changing slowly.



  320. Maria Folsom on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 5:58 pm

    I can honestly say…there is nothing i get stressed during the summer…because I i .just simply put my trust in the Lord…stressing out will.not help me out but iknow my Savior can…but I’m entering because i would like to use this in our ACKOM Women’s Ministry – Spiritual Spa with God…check us out on FB…there are several women iknow that are under stress and would love to have this materia to share with our community…thank you… A City on our Knees OutreachMinistry yACKOM
    Maria Folsom -City Prayer Champion Director/Co-Founder



  321. Miranda on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    The thing that stresses me out the most in the summer is not going to the beach enough I only live 45 minutes from the beach but do not always have the time to go. I love the beach.It is One of Gods greatest creations.



  322. Sandra on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:10 pm

    My husband and I recently opened our own business in the early spring, and we thought we would be more financially able to enjoy our lives and get a breather from the everyday grind. Instead, we find ourselves chained to the business in order to see it thrive, and I am working my regular job as well. We barely have a minute to ourselves. Needless to say, we both are stressed to the max, and are wishing for more simple days. We LIVE at the beach, and we never get to enjoy it !! Your Stressed-Less Living book is definitely in order, and the summer gift basket would be just what the doctor ordered ! Bless you in your ministry, Tracie…you are most encouraging and uplifting !



  323. 4JMom on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:19 pm

    My summer stressers include keeping the house and pool clean for drop-ins, most every day of the summer. I’m hoping your blog will de-stress my summers, and let me just enjoy them, messes and all…



  324. Kiersten Bragg on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:26 pm

    My Summer stresses are trying to stay cool when you dont have air conditioning and being at work while my kids are home bored and calling me all the time. I feel horrible that I have to work while they are home and dont really get to do much so try not to get to frustrated when they call me a million times a day.



  325. Mary on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:41 pm

    Feeling like I don’t have enough time to accomplish everything I saved to complete this summer. Also, I’m already having back to school dreams! I’m a teacher and school doesn’t start until Sept. 3 but the dreams have started.



  326. Lilly Geeting on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:51 pm

    My summer stress is…. trying to do everything to have that extra time for fun…. which never seems to happen! I love summer, it’s my favorite season but the thing that stresses me most is something always seems to try and take away my time with the Lord. One crisis after another! But His grace! He reminds me I don’t have to do it alone!

    Then the days I work… guilt comes creeping in. I think as mother’s we just put too much pressure on ourselves to make sure our families have a great summer and we forget that ass long as we are together, even just watching a movie, we ate still together and that’s what masters the most.

    Looking forward to your blog to help keep me grounded and learn to let go of the stress!! Good bless!



  327. Amy KW on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    What stresses me most about summer is concern about wasting time. Being able to be home this summer, I want to enjoy each moment, relax……but not waste it. I feel like it’s a catch-22 in some ways.



  328. April H on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:01 pm

    What has stressed me out the most this summer is starting a new job at my church as a camp counselor for our 10 week summer camp. I have kindergarten and 1st graders (ages 4-6) for 10 hours a day. God is using this experience to definitely teach me about patience. I do enjoy it but it has some major stress times too.



  329. MarthaKay00 on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:27 pm

    The most stressful thing for me as a single mom is planning a “real” vacation. Arranging the time & the money makes me crazy! Then packing & all the arrangements makes you need a vacation from the vacation.



  330. Kim Rhykerd on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:32 pm

    I feel stressed about summe because it just seems to fly by and all the fun things my kids (ages 6, 10, and 12) and I have planned never all seem to get done or enjoyed. Throughout the year there is the promise of summer – “we will have more time, Daddy will be able to take off, we can do this or go there in the summer….” But before I have even had a chance to unwind from the crazy days at the end of school, summer is over! Then there is the ever-present guilt: so and so is going to this camp and we aren’t. Somebody else has these lessons and we don’t. Should we sign up for this or this or that?? It is so hard to know what will be the most enjoyable things for the kids to do during the summer without bankrupting us or landing us back into the crazy driving around town days. Ugh!



  331. Michelle b on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:33 pm

    this summer I’m most stressed with heat making the kiddos so cranky! There is only so much you can do outside to get their energy out but then cooped up inside… Catch 22.. Oy. Definitely following your tips from now on 🙂



  332. Kris Matuszewski on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:33 pm

    Putting God 1st and reading His word daily. And wearing a swim-suit 🙁



  333. Holly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:39 pm

    Since I work year round, I get stressed out about getting projects done that I need to get done while I am also wanting to get some spend some time outside. Working at one of my jobs is stressful this summer with just being able to work certain hours and putting up with the attitude of the children there. It’s really stressed me out this summer. I’m counting down the days until I go on vacation for a few days.



  334. Donna on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:42 pm

    So looking forward to the call tonite”
    Thank you for this book! it came just at the right time in my life,,,,,



  335. Lisa s on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:43 pm

    Missing all the summer fun in downtown Chicago since I am always having to work, we haven’t been away in over 2 years! Not being able to get away for a short time when it is so lovely out!



  336. Sharon on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 7:56 pm

    To me I feel that stressing out only makes things worse, I do sometimes get stressed and I think to myself of who I need to turn and help me is the Lord, because He says to turn all things over to him. So I pray about it and in time things work out through my faith in the Lord. It may not always happen right away, but in the Lord’s time. So I feel that if you live each day to the fullest and thank God for all He has done and what He is going to do you will have a less stressful summer.



  337. Holly on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:02 pm

    The heat & keeping everyone occupied & adequately hydrated when too hot to be outside.



  338. Robin on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:20 pm

    I love summer! But I supposed the thing that stresses me about summer is not getting enough time to get out and enjoy the heat, sunshine, and summer activities. I never have enough vacation time to really take a break.



  339. Amy on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:21 pm

    Most stressful part for me is trying to find entertainment for my very active 6 year old son while chasing his 18 month old and 2 year old sisters around at the same time!



  340. Jodi B. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:27 pm

    My biggest stressor for summer….filling up the free time my kids now have with meaningful and low cost activities. We could clean house all day, but they would resent me (or whine do much that I’d give in!!!) We could also go “do” things each day, but I’d probably break the budget within a few days. It’s all about finding a balance and a new routine and this summer I seem to be having a hard time getting settled! There is always tomorrow! 🙂



  341. Mikayla on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:27 pm

    There are many things I can think of that stress me out when summer time comes around. Some of those things are college summer classes, trying to find time for family and friends, making sure I still have my quite time with God, working…the list goes on.



  342. Kailynne on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:44 pm

    The most stressful thing about summer has to be spending time with family and friends. Don’t get me wrong, I love spending time with them and always have fun, but it can be stressful, too! All the traveling, planning, staying at other people’s houses in close quarters, etc.



  343. Janet Jackson on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:49 pm

    This summer is particularly stressful for me because it is the first summer without my dear husband Gene. He passed away back in march suddenly and unexpectedly and I am having to deal with his estate stuff which is another big stressor for me. I am also trying to work a full time temporary job through the summer which further overloads the plate of stress i’m trying to handle. So much to do, so overwhelming! I find peace and comfort in knowing that God’s got this and He’ll do a much better job managing it all than I ever could!



    • Elaine on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:35 pm

      Hello Janet,

      I would like to pray for you as you walk this valley. I can’t say that I know how you feel because I haven’t been there yet. I have been close several times and I know that prayer always helps me get through the hard spots. Hold tight to that peace and comfort for we are told he has it covered and I fully believe that! God Bless and do not forget to take time for you! In Gods Love Elaine



  344. rochelle w. on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:51 pm

    Summer daycare costs!



  345. Janet F on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:52 pm

    I love summer, but with it comes ball games 4 nights a week for my grandchildren, thus the month of June already gone! I love the smell of cut grass, but I have to try and fit it in my schedule with a full time job, the ball games and the weather reports of rain almost everyday. I want to be out and enjoy summer but seem like I am always running here and there. There are so many activities anymore and we think we have to do them all. I am thankful for summer and pray daily for God to give me peace and help me to focus on Him and not get so stressed out over the things of this world!! Thank you Lord for daily giving me strength to make it through another day 🙂



  346. Randi on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:54 pm

    My biggest stress for summer is not to be Martha. I work in school so I have the summer off and only work summer school. My kids are older so I no longer have to entertain them, they kind of entertain themselves and I like to spend a lot of time reading, having quiet time with God and putting time into my spiritual growth. I get so easily distracted with all the stuff I haven’t got done around the house during the year though, my priorities shift quickly from time with God to time with the vacuum, the appointment with the closet that needs to get cleaned and the curtains and windows that need an annual washing. I am trying very hard this summer to balance my time, apply what I’ve learned from the study get what I can done and keep my priorities straight, and not get stressed



    • Elaine on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:38 pm

      I too am a teacher and find myself doing the same thing! I am getting better at balancing some things but then again I have to be careful or here Comes Martha on Steroids ;>)

      God Bless and keep you!



  347. Megan on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:41 pm

    What stresses me out the most is trying to keep my two girls entertained…..without too much TV or electronics! Sometimes an impossible task it seems like!



  348. Elaine on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 9:45 pm

    I too teach summer school and usually have a training or two thrown in for good measure, when my regular school session ends. I have to be careful not to let all those little odd jobs that I put off don’t get in the way of spending time with God and my husband of 36 years. Our children are all grown and live in different states which can also be a stress inducer. My husband can’t travel like he used to due to a plethora of medical issues. So who do we go see and who do we Skype. This year I think we shall skype the kids and grandkids and take a few days for ourselves up the coast of Cali (we live in Bakersfield, CA) 102 degrees today and climbing.
    Felt like a sauna today!



  349. Jill on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:03 pm

    What is my biggest stressor? Now that all kids are home from college/school and not having to get up early, it stresses me out to leave in the morning only to find my car blocked by all the kids cars and not finding their keys to be able to move them all…makes me nuts and late for work! Not to mention the dishes left in the sink when I come home…hello, dishwasher anyone? It certainly is a different season for me as I no longer have the control in plans…preparing for anything these days is a challenge with work and social schedules, not mine – theirs! It used to take time to plan and prepare diaper bags, car seats and naps and now it has changed to car keys and curfews! To those who are up at night with needy newborns, enjoy it as when they get older you are still up at night only they are no longer cuddled in your arms and you patiently wait and pray for them to come home safely:) In spite of all, I still love and cherish being a mom…nothing quite like it and a true blessing and gift from God!



  350. Beth Williams on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:09 pm

    This may sound crazy, but the slow down of work stresses me out some. With most college students home for the summer, there isn’t much work to keep one busy all day.

    Another item is lawn mowing. My hubby stresses about getting it done before rain storms. When done for the week he relaxes, but then comes the stress of when can I mow & have it done?



  351. jonna marsh on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:23 pm

    My inability to cope with the humidity in Alabama stresses me out!



  352. Briana on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:42 pm

    I am stressed about not getting to spend time with my children. I want to hold them and enjoy these days before they pass all too soon, but they are speeding out the door to one camp or another, or their grandparents are calling and asking for their time as well. I feel like I see them less now that Summer is here, than I did during the school year!

    ~B



  353. Meg Derosier on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:57 pm

    What stresses me out about summer is trying to find stuff for my client and myself to do she is very picky.



  354. Pam on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 10:58 pm

    I am stressing that my son has been out of school for a month already and I feel like summer is flying by. However I did manage to spend some time with him in his first “kiddie” pool, we also made cookies and are sending out some cards that I am letting him write or draw a picture. Even though I work full time I am trying to find fun things to do with him while is out of school and we are going the beach later this month so the prize pack would be awesome!



  355. Ree Molster on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:09 pm

    At the beginning of each week, I feel panic in my chest and know that I am one more week closer to the beginning of school…I loved my 6 years home with my daughters now 10 & 11…I cherish Summer days when we are all home together. I can’t get enough of being in my home and with them and having everything in the house done when my husband comes home. I live for these 2 months, when I can stay at home again. My job is with the school system, but my heart is in my home.



  356. Katelin on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:10 pm

    The thing that stresses me the most about summer is the hot weather & now the high humidity which didn’t normally get in San Diego



  357. Jessieca on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:15 pm

    The thing I struggle most with during summer is guilt. Guilt that I am at work and my 2 girls are stuck at home all summer. I feel guilty that when I get home from work I am so run down, I have no desire to go and do something fun with the girls. Guilty that I miss out on my daughters soft ball games because I have to work.



  358. Lisa on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:21 pm

    I love summer, but the additional work created by the yard, flower beds, and the things that need to be painted or maintained leave me overwhelmed.



  359. Joe K on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:36 pm

    Feeling like I have to to fill every day with something fun and unique. Zoo, play dates, trips to the park… All of those things are great but I put unnecessary pressure on myself to have fun. After all, it’s summer and that’s what you’re supposed to do! I too often forget that there needs to be time for rest too.



  360. Robin F on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 11:38 pm

    Work never stops for me and I wish I could find balance to have a stress free summer and really connect with the hearts of my husband and children. Help me to turn it off…



  361. Candice on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:09 am

    Work can stress me out. I’m a literacy coach at an elementary school, and had to facilitate professional development trainings for five days immediately after our school year ended. I also work with incoming freshmen as the reading instructor for a 6 week summer experience that started three days the previous training ended. My husband and I were going to take the 3 days off and spend time together but ended up traveling due to the death of his mother. While teaching the college courses this summer, I am also attending professional trainings, as well as accompanying some of my teachers. Though the program at the university will be over I. 3 weeks, I must report back to my job as literacy coach in 4 weeks.



  362. Candice on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:10 am

    His grandmother passed. Not his mother. This weekend, we will bury my uncle.



  363. Lucretia s on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:28 am

    Work stresses me, an increased work load for summer along with children out of school whom I’d rather be spending my time with.



  364. Gail on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 1:36 am

    Even though I am retired, this summer in particular seems to be stressful because my husband is driving to another state to pick up his Dad to drive him to another state to have surgery. I am staying home because my Mom lives with us. I’m also planning a big church patriotic event without my right-hand man (literally…ha). I have plans to increase my business which requires being outdoor in the excess heat. I am thankful my grandsons are spending more time with me this summer and I am enjoying every moment. They are such a blessing. The Lord is my strength.



  365. Erika on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 1:58 am

    This summer is more stressful than usual because my husband is away on a deployment and isn’t scheduled to return until mid to late August after being gone since the end of May. It isn’t easy being both mom and dad, and these are the times I need to Lord to bestow patience on me for the little things. My kids (3 and soon to be 5) are great overall, but man, they sure do have their moments.



  366. misty on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 2:55 am

    My husband and I have very different work hours and schedules. I have a daughter 16 from a previous marriage and we have a son together that is 3. It just makes it very difficult to find family time and activities to do together, not to mention time together to help build our marriage.



  367. Teresa on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 3:05 am

    Hi Tracie…the most stressful things are trying to plan for fun events that will not ‘break the bank’ but we can enjoy as a family. Also trying to do household chores and cleaning with kids at home 24/7 does not always gel together so I ask the Lord for direction and more patience lol 😉



  368. KimberlyF on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 5:16 am

    The busyness that summer brings with going here and there and realizing all you have really done is just run around and haven’t really spent any quality time with anybody. And oh yes the increased finances.



  369. TashaF on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 5:51 am

    Hello! I think the most stressful thing about summer is listening to the air conditioner kick on AGAIN or realizing that you havn’t heard it turn off for hours.



  370. Lori A. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 6:30 am

    The heat and the continued drought stress me out the most.



  371. Joanna Warren on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 6:37 am

    I am finding there is just not enough of me to go around. With no budget at all for entertainment, I am the sole source of direction, inspiration, and activity for three young children. In nice days, much time can be filled outside, but with the rainy streak lately… When Daddy walks in my brain is ready to take a break!



  372. Melanie on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 6:48 am

    As I try to determine how to pinpoint my greatest stressor, I realize it isn’t just one thing. But it seems to boil down to a fear of the unknown. Such as: am I doing a good job as a mother of older kids ( 17, 20 & 23), am I preparing them for what’s next (college graduation, guidance on selecting a college major, senior year of HS), should I be letting them sleep in more/less, are they working and maturing in their responsibilities, have I taught them anything about being disciplined in daily life (rooms, cars, & goals don’t seem to show it! Lol), am I doing enough or too much for them, and the list goes on. I feel so burdened down with what they should be doing next and feel that time is running out. Before we know it, school starts again! Seems July 1st marks the beginning of the countdown of summer days and that is not fun for this hot-summer loving gal!!! It seems like there is a plethora of “help” and advice out there for us moms when our kids are young but it seems to dwindle as they approach those late teen years and into college. There’s so many things I question and would love to hear how other moms have made these years count! I look forward to this series and would love that goodie basket. 😉



  373. Monica P. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 6:52 am

    My finances stress me out in the summer….graduation gifts, birthdays, all the hallmark holidays, grocery bill, etc. I need a summer fund 🙂



  374. Cindy Keebler on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 6:55 am

    What stresses me during the summer months is the humidity and hot weather where you feel immobized where you do not want to do anything like enjoying the outdoor activities.



  375. Paula on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 7:16 am

    I love summer too . . . And look forward to that last day of school in May. But, I get so stressed out about the summer calendar, and trying to do all of the activities that my children look forward to. The calendar gets so busy – with NO down time. We end up “running” on fast speed the whole time, but still not getting to everything. Then, I am so disappointed that I have disappointed them.



  376. Shawna on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 7:39 am

    For me, the stress of after school activities for both of my daughters has been replaced by summer activities. Daily carpooling, while I am attempting to get all of my work done.



  377. Ashley Langston on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 8:25 am

    completing my summer “to-do” list is the most stressful for me 🙂



  378. Lakecia Harris on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 8:30 am

    Honestly what stresses me about summer is getting my son ready to go back to school. I want to be more intentional in planning meaningful things for him to do o er the summer that are fun and educational.



  379. Cammi H on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 8:57 am

    My biggest stress is finances .. We are self employed and hard to save for a Summer vacation when you aren’t sure of the amount of work/payment we will receive each month. Then, hard to schedule a vacation because we don’t know when we won’t have a job going ..



  380. Heather Dahlke on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 8:58 am

    What stresses me out the most about summer is my lack of consistency with my kids and being harsh with myself about it! I start out the summer with grand plans of a morning devotion, chores done by 9:30, math review and reading done by 10:15 …and then the day can begin! But no two weeks are the same and I get frustrated with myself that I can’t keep up with or ever get into a routine. Thankfully as the kids get older, I’ve been able to let go of this somewhat and realize that we are doing just fine and I can actually find some satisfacti
    on in breaking out of the school- year routine. 🙂



  381. LRF on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:03 am

    I have two young boys-4 &6 years. I miss having my oldest home when he is at school so I really do like having him home for the summer.But…My two boys stress me out when they fight & pick at each other. My husband & I have regular Bible & prayer time at home besides the teaching they receive at church so it’s not a matter of not knowing right from wrong. I don’t know what it is ’cause if I did I’d I’d fix it:) ” they pick at the smallest things and the older teases the younger. They are even downright mean sometimes. I love them so very much but summer is not near done & I am already worn out. I have to admit though, that I still can hardly bear the thought of my oldest being gone a full day this next school year. Any tips on how to get brothers who are close in age to get along better would be great.I would love the basket b/c I would use the ball in the pool when my boys & I & dad are having fun time. My boys love sparklers & some time for us all to ToYnbee together as a family & boys playing together would be fabulous. The book is up my alley cause I’m stressed over way more than my boys (marriage health etc.) Thanks for a chance to win & blessings on all at P31 & all those who commented today. LRF



  382. Kim W. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:17 am

    I work full-time and live alone. My biggest summer stressor is getting the yard work done in addition to keeping up my house inside. I love to grow vegetables and flowers in the summer, but I just can’t stay ahead of the weeds!



  383. Melissa Waters on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:26 am

    I would have to say the thing that stresses me most about summer is the fact that I have to work and my kids are home. I really would love to spend the time with them that I don’t get to when they are in school.
    I want to make every minute count for God’s kingdom with them.

    Awesome contest!
    M. Waters



  384. Amanda G. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:29 am

    The extreme heat combined with bored and cranky kids. It’s no fun to not be able to go outside and play. That combined with a husband who travels for weeks at a time is enough to stress anyone out.



  385. Kenda Haines on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:44 am

    Weeding the garden increases my stress level! And being a full-time working mom, I get stressed when I can’t enjoy as much time with my kids as I would like.



  386. Lori on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:49 am

    Finding time to take care of myself and my health while trying to fit in the needs of everyone else…because, of course, I have nothing but FREE time right now!



  387. Hayley Jacobs on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:52 am

    What stresses me out about summer the most this year is I have struggled with anxiety and depression since school got out. I’ m a teacher and a single mom and I have not been able to do or enjoy the things I typically do in the summer. I am getting better under doctors care and by keeping my focus on my Heavenly Father but I need all the help I can get to get my feet back on the ground and enjoy my summer, my blessed life, and my beautiful children. I think your book could help give me some tips to get through this difficult time and maybe enjoy the rest of my summer.



  388. Sheryl on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 10:17 am

    Encouraging the kids to practice the 3 R’s is stressful.



  389. Lisa Blake on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 10:17 am

    It’s the mosquitos…. definitely! I react so badly to insect bites, mosquitos and black flies in particular, then the conundrum – do I go itchy covered in hives or do I sleep the summer away in a Benadryl induced haze! Oh – and reverse parking the camp trailer gives me a run for my money on the anxiety levels too!



  390. April on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 10:29 am

    What stresses me the most is that my job generally pulls me away during the summer months for work. I am stationed 1000 miles from my family, yet still trying to make sure that our 13 year old daughter has fun activities to keep her busy.



  391. AmyJo on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 10:53 am

    I think what stresses me out the most about summer is overcomplicating it. To be honest, I overcomplicate alot of things. I would love to stay at home with my children for the summer but I work full time. I share custody of my kids with my ex-husband so I only see my kids two weeks at a time so that add to the stress. Its challenging working full-time and finding quality time to spend with my kids during the summer. Last night one of my daughters mentioned we’ve never gone camping…now I’ve got it in my brain to figure out a way to go camping before the summer is over…maybe I’ll just shoot for before the end of the year 🙂



  392. Jaimie Chapman on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 10:58 am

    The thing that stresses me out the most about summer is that because my schedule is so free, I pack in as much as possible–I DO IT TO MYSELF!!!! I feel the guilt of being busy during the school year and not being as social as I want to be–or as my kids want to be, so in the summer, I will schedule as many as 3 engagements a day!!!! AHHHH!!! My goal is to not give an answer right away, but to pray about it. It seemed weird to me at first to pray about whether or not to schedule a playdate, but all the choices make me anxious, and the Bible say to be anxious about NOTHING, so playdates are included in that!

    I am REALLY excited about this series–thanks so much!



  393. Melissa on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:40 am

    I am working this summer and I wish I was at home more with my children. They are wilth my mom and I know they get bored. I am trying to work my schedule so that I can leave early a few days to have more time and plan things with them. They are growing up way too fast and I don’t want to miss it.



  394. Kris Konick on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:43 am

    The thing about summer that stresses me out the most is actually back to school. I LOVE summertime even though we do get out of routine as far as studying and praying at times I love the freedom of not being tied to the school schedule. I wish home-school was an option but it’s just not right now so yes it’s the back to school crunch that comes at the end that always puts a damper on summer fun for me!



  395. Kristi D on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:43 am

    The most stressful part to me is my job! Summer is my busy time but it’s also time that I’d rather spend with my daughter doing fun summer stuff! Trying to balance the two can be stressful at times



  396. Heather McDaniel on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:45 am

    The one thing I stress over most all Summer is what in the world am I going to do with Emma (our 9 year old with ADHD)! She is such a busy kid! She constantly keeps me running…if we stop for 10 seconds, she announces that she is bored and then chaos begins! I am always looking for other kids for her to play with, places that are free or cheap to go, things to do that aren’t going to break the bank…we are nearly broke every week as it is! We live pay check to pay check and that also makes going and doing a bit harder! We do frequent the beach and nearly every splash pad in town, but then we have to worry about “do we have enough gas to do the stuff like get Dad to work everyday?” I love having this time with her, but wow…when does Mom get a break…kid, Dad, church, PTA, SAC….someone said “you need to take time for you”…yeah? I’ll pencil that in around 2:00 a.m.!



  397. Barb Thidemann on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:47 am

    I will be working this summer for the first time since my children were born. I have always had summers off and was at home guiding my kids through summer. I am stressed that they will not have me around spending time with them this summer, even though my youngest is a tween. But I just stepped down from what would’ve developed into a full time position, back into a part time seasonal position, so maybe next summer will be better.



  398. Monica Palmer on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:49 am

    The most stressful part of summer is taking a week off of a busy work schedule.



  399. Marisa on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:49 am

    The thing about summer that stresses me out the most is having five kids home lol…Its over whelming sometimes because one the food bill triples and to be honest we barley make it when the kids are at school. I feel bad too because we can not go on vacations like the rest of their friends do. I do what I can, I take them to the beach and we go to the park, but that is about it.



  400. Tabitha on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:54 am

    The most stressful thing about Summer 2013 for me is trying to get pregnant with what would be our first child. After 3 years of trying we are kicking it into high gear the next few months. This is make or break for us this summer. I stress about it everyday, even though I know that stress is not good for reproduction. I know that God is leading us down this path for a reason, and I pray that some day soon we will find out why.



  401. Valerie Ellinor on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:00 pm

    Summer brings about a small level of heat related stress. I enjoy the 60’s and 70’s and the Summer months can prove much hotter. God didn’t provide me with patience when it comes to the heat. 🙂 However, I do believe that He is working on me with this issue. I’ve found myself rejoicing more on those HOT days, knowing that there are those dealing with life’s challenges on a much deeper level. So today. I will take those Hot days and find a cool place to reflect on all the many blessings I tend to take for granted and kneel in prayer for those that need a shower of blessing from our Heavenly Father.



  402. Lorie on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:03 pm

    The most stressful thing about summer is trying to create that perfect vacation so that everyone can have a stress-free week and relax from the stress of the school year! I beat myself up and second guess my decision making as I pour over possible beach/lake homes to rent. Finding the right price, location, and dates are tough and then to get our family of 9 all available at the same times… For the past two years I gave it up and we took small day trips instead. This year I’m trying to make it happen (too late in the game) since my oldest son and his wife will be moving across country in the fall. My people-pleasing tendencies kick in and I try too hard to make everyone happy. :/



  403. Terri on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:08 pm

    Summer is crazy juggling schedules, camps, all kinds of questions about what will
    We do today in the midst of working time. But the kids continue to grow up
    And time flies too fast.



  404. ETHEL mAY ILLER on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    Enjoyed reading about summertime stress. I know what you said is true — I listen to my daughter and her children’s schedules. It seems like there is not time to relax. As a senior Saint, however, summer is not anymore stressful than the rest of the year .Actually life slows down. The snowbirds are gone (I live in FL) and life is more relaxed. Some activities at church are suspended for the summer. Activities in our park are slowed down as well. Even preparing meals seems simpler. Perhaps other Seniors who live alone feel the absence of the activity. It’s nice to relax. The time to protect your relaxing summertime is in the springtime when commitments are made for all that busyness that traps us. Our kids need to learn how to relax too. Many of us are all wrapped too tight.



  405. Kimberly Drew on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 12:42 pm

    What a great give away! 🙂 I can’t wait for summer to come, but when it does it brings some stress. I would say the biggest stressor is trying to just let go of things that I have a “hold on” during the school year. Like, playing with the kids all day instead of putting away the folded laundry or making PB and J for dinner because we decided to have friends over who stayed late. I can’t have the same expectations for my schedule and what I can get done around the house and play with my kids all day. But, I know that being with them and making memories is more important.



  406. Lynet Witty on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 1:16 pm

    With me being a SAHM and my husband having summer off from his teaching jobs, we usually have a blast during the summer. Being lazy and enjoying each other, spending as much time with each other as we can, because when fall starts, we don’t have that luxury. So we take little trips, visit family and just enjoy each other. Found you through Prov.31 website!



  407. Dee in OKC on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 1:23 pm

    This summer has been a whole new kind of stress. I lost my elderly mother May 2. I am now the only surviving family immediate family member having lost my dad and brother. So all the estate stuff fell on my shoulders. Was not prepared, did not have a clue, what I was getting into. Have to admit was completely stunned with my daughter made 4th of July plans. I hadn’t even realized it was summer yet. just keep putting one foot in front of the other and remembering this too shall pass.



  408. Yvette on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 2:16 pm

    The only thing I have disliked about summer so far because it has made life stressful is the horrible heat here in Las Vegas. This is our first summer here and the temps are so draining. Much of the day we have to stay inside so we are all getting cabin fever. But, like pp said…this too shall pass. I am thankful for the sunshine and warmth.



  409. Sue on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 2:21 pm

    This began with my youngest daughter wanting to go to summer camp at school. Her wanting to go was great but then I had to corrdinate how she would get to and from the bus stop. My oldest daughter started playing in a summer softball league, which plays only one night a week. Then, having to make arrangments for her to be at the ball games on time. My blessing in all this is that I have the most amazing parents in the world. They have been giving the rides home from camp and to the ball games. Which has saved me from going crazy! I thank GOD everyday for them and for what they do for me and my family.



  410. Jessica on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 3:09 pm

    The thing that stresses me out more in the Summer is that although I have my kids in an all day camp (of their choice of course) they are still bored. They whine about having to STILL wake up early and not being able to go to bed late. This bleeds over to the weekend when I really want to just rest from the work week and I cant because I have to find some fun activity for them to do but wait a minute guys are you in a fun camp all week “but thats camp mom”. Oh oh lets not forget the $228 I have to pay for them to go to this “fun” camp of their choice. I do love Summer and getting to spend time with my kids but Lord oh Lord it can be stresful.



  411. Kate on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 3:23 pm

    Knowing my children are home (even though they are with my husband) and I have to go to work. My heart breaks each day knowing I will be leaving them so our family can make ends meet. God has been so good to provide and He continues to bless us. When I keep my eyes on His best I recognize that the struggles I have are only for a time and that this is just the season we are in currently. But my daughter who turns 7 on Friday begs me to stay home and my 7 month old son is still nursing so I am torn both emotionally and physically by our situation. I suppose during the school year because my daughter is in school I feel I am missing less.



  412. Jenny on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 3:34 pm

    What’s stressing me out this summer is the fact that this year, my hubby and I and Hannah (8) and Nathan (5)are holidaying with my Mum and Dad, my sister and her husband and her 2 kids! I’m praying that everyone will get along – the grown ups AND the kids – and that we have a really lovely family time away together! It seemed such a good idea at the time…



  413. Deborah on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 3:50 pm

    I guess what stresses me the most is my husband…well you had all day off with the boys and his question is “What did you get done?” you had 12 hours….



  414. Joy R. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 4:04 pm

    I am stressed the most by not having a schedule and a set routine to follow. A lot things fall through the cracks and don’t get done, because I think I can do it later since I have more time.



  415. Sarah on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 5:39 pm

    I always find myself thinking that the summer will be calmer and more peaceful. It’s very stressful when the summer feels like it is much busier and crazier than the rest of the year.



  416. Sheila on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 6:13 pm

    I think the biggest stress of summer is the perception that it should in fact be stress free. For me, I related with many of your favorite things about summer and have very fond memories of summer as a child. As a adult, I think there is still part of me that longs for the feelings that summer used to invoke as a child. No stress, extra long days of play and fun and watching clouds roll by, being outside with friends, riding a bike with the wind in your hair, drinking fresh lemonade or even your favorite kool-aid. It’s a snapshot of all the best things in life before you knew any different. It’s safety and security, its friends and family, its good health and no thought of finances or what tomorrow brings because you are truly living in the moment. If I could live my adult life with the spiritual maturity of a child. To embrace and be thankful for the wonder and joy that each day brings and to completely trust my heavenly father that he will provide for all my needs and that is grace is always sufficient despite my circumstances. If I could live like a child in summer would my life be a living testimony to the transforming power and love of our Lord Jesus Christ.



    • Jennifer H. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:56 pm

      Amen to what you have said!



  417. Moya on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 7:35 pm

    I have just got a new job, and it’s a lot of different for me (but i’m a perfectionist) and so i’m doing my best to do everything right, but the thing is that as they they say( to many chiefs and not enough Indian’s) So when trying i’m never right. So then the stress!



  418. Sheila on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 8:31 pm

    During the summer my kids and I struggle with the balance between relaxing and enjoying not dealing with school and becoming lazy, watching too much tv, and playing too many video games. How do you relax in a constructive way so as not to waste this precious time?



  419. Jennifer H. on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 9:54 pm

    I work from home in a busy busy job. Summer means that my kids are home too. It’s really hard wanting to be the Kool-Aid mom and feeling the real pressure of big, hairy important work that impacts a lot of people.



  420. Suzanne on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 10:06 pm

    I find that in recent years the workload in my office has increased. The stress that I feel is the inability to complete everything and always having a large “to do” list. Even when I am on vacation. we are expected to check our
    e-mails and voice mails and respond to time sensitive situatIons and requests. I cannot get away to fully relax and recharge. I think we need to get back to being able to disconnect with technology – that could really help us with stress and help us focus on what is truly important.



  421. Jennifer on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:00 pm

    What I find most stressful about summer is trying to balance everyday household tasks with doing fun, summertime things with the kids like swimming, etc. I obviously would rather have fun with the kids all day everyday, but have to do a few loads of laundry here and there too 🙂



  422. Mandy on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:11 pm

    I get stressed because the entire summer I feel completely torn between wanting to be a fun mommy and do all kinds of cool things with my three kids, and being so angry with them because the house is such a mess and laundry is piled high!!! I feel so guilty when I’m not doing things with them but I’m in a horrible mood when the house is chaotic and messy!



  423. Erin on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:29 pm

    This summer is particularly stressful for my family and me. I am a stay at home mom to a 2 year old boy, I am pregnant with our second child and due in less than two weeks, and we are moving to a new house in less than a month. Earlier this summer my husband severely dislocated his elbow and is currently in physical therapy to get back to full use of his arm. It is difficult to find a balance between doing fun outdoor activities, packing/getting ready for baby, normal household chores, and making time to spend with God.



  424. Jessica Lonc on Tuesday, July 2, 2013 at 11:36 pm

    As a teacher, I try to spend my summers catching up on all of the home projects I put off during the school year. I always think I will have plenty of time to get things done, but the time flies by and I feel overwhelmed and stressed by all of the projects I need to do. I know my time is limited during the school year, but I also need to find time to relax, read a good book, go to the beach, sleep in, etc. I find it stressful to find a balance between being productive at home and taking time to myself. Being in my late 20’s, I am also bombarded with weddings, baby showers, family events….It seems that we might have 1 weekend to ourselves (my husband and I) before the summer is over.



  425. Katelin on Wednesday, July 3, 2013 at 6:46 am

    My husband isn’t around much in the summer. Also feeling like I am not doing enough “fun” stuff with the kids stresses me out!



  426. Cindy on Wednesday, July 3, 2013 at 7:05 am

    Worrying about those you love whether they have everything they need to stay healthy in the hot and humid weather and for others as well and praying that God will provide and meet their needs by blessing them, watching over them each day.



  427. Katharine White on Wednesday, July 3, 2013 at 11:28 am

    Stress… what stress!!!! Our lives are just plain FULL! So I would say our schedules!



  428. Nancy S on Wednesday, July 3, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    I live at the beach (OBX) and work a high stress job and would have to say that my stress levels definitely go way up in the summer. Between a higher work volume, terrible traffic, dealing with tourists and then just the regular daily stressors…..life’s not always a beach. But I’m reading your book right now and it’s giving me so much to think about and pray about…thank you Tracie, you are a blessing for this over-stressed dispatcher.



  429. Tracy on Thursday, July 4, 2013 at 9:29 am

    The most stressful thing to me, as a stay at home mom, is working play dates in around nap schedule. It’s finally time to get together with friend who work during the year most as teachers. Since I stay home our nap times aren’t as flexible. I



  430. Sue on Thursday, July 4, 2013 at 12:25 pm

    I live in FL so the heat plus humidity makes it pretty unbearable in the summertime. Even though I live in FL I never go to the beach because the heat makes me physically sick if I am out in it for very long. Also, my husband & I can never take a vacation in the summer like most people do, because we cannot afford it.



  431. Claudia Baker on Sunday, July 14, 2013 at 12:21 am

    I love the laid back days of summer, spending lots of times with my 3 boys (10, 7, & 4), and going to the beach. BUT finding things mid-summer to entertain them with a very limited budget is sooooo stressful!!!



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